PunkyV:


LOL, not sex-crazed but must have a healthy libido No, of course I don't like them "just sex-crazed". We aren't gonna eat sex now, so I can't be dealing with someone who's only good for one thing, sex.

so in your own words, what is a healthy libido

PunkyV:


LOL, not sex-crazed but must have a healthy libido No, of course I don't like them "just sex-crazed". We aren't gonna eat sex now, so I can't be dealing with someone who's only good for one thing, sex.

Though I've not been to SA but it appears from what you are saying here that you folks are "hotter".

What is the typical SA guy like sexually?

joseph1832:
Oh. Sorry, I didn't know this. Hope it didn't end the way nobody wants to hear?.

No, thank God it didn't.

I've told this story here before. Anyway, we were at a house warming party thrown by my cousin's friend. I was part of the crowd that was seated in the lounge area & next to me was the guy. He was friends with the husband of the lady we were visiting. I don't even remember how we started having a conversation but we did & maybe I even flirted with him or whatever I don't remember everything because it happened so long ago but at one point he started buying drinks. I'm not much of a drinker so I didn't drink alcohol that night, only soda. I stood up to go to the toilet & next thing I know, he was behind me. He wouldn't let me out of his sight for one moment. When I came out they were playing this other song I can't remember now & he said, "that's my jam!" & went to dance at the make-shift dancefloor. The weird thing is he was gyrating to the beat & staring right straight at me. Probably to show me what I'd be getting that night, a loose waist LMAO.

Shìt hit the fan when he heard we were leaving. He went absolutely crazy & told me I wasn't going to leave Huh? That's when he started dragging me & at one point he had me over his shoulder. LMAO. I was so scared! Luckily other people got involved, including his friend ( the guy of the house) & we were able to leave without "gettin some" That's how it ended.

chinedumo:


so in your own words, what is a healthy libido

IDK, 3 times a night?

decode55:
Wey sinaj, come and answer o!

m a vergin

tomquest:


Though I've not been to SA but it appears from what you are saying here that you folks are "hotter".

What is the typical SA guy like sexually?

Well, I don't believe they do anything different from the average guy. They just like it a lot. Some can even bother you all night I can't say 100 % that all are like that. I can only speak of the ones I've been with & stuff I hear from friends. They aren't freaky, they just like to smash.

[quote author=Qualer post=46955131][/quote] lol savage no kill me with laugh lmao

Once upon a time when men were boys... I jonzed too many times...

if I'm correct... I jonzed around ten to fifteen chicks... I didn't know... mostly down to inexperience... they wanted the D... and me I just wanted to talk about tales by moonlight...

They left hints and all... but the Jew in me was deeper than an Israelite...

But now way jungle don mature... make we end am there...

South africa, a country i will neva visit, so grls go 3tyms a night den u com bk 2 nigeria wit HIV, abeg our calabar grls libido must be below average

niyot124:


Aww,you are actually cute sha


But really,what will make a guy say that is either the guy has got a high moral standard or the guy doesn't find the lady attractive enough.

If a lady can read the signs well enough,a lot of embarrassment will most certainly be prevented.

Don't make me cry thanks huh...

Yes u are right, she was attractive though.probably what I had in mind was kissing her. I felt that should do ....the funny thing is I started it and I left her hanging "after making mouth "lol....I did tried to beg her though even b4 I left she was so disappointed : texted, Whatapp ,Facebook .b4 I knew it I was blocked! ... There is more to my sexual life too bad I can't share on social media .. U should understand.
Kisses and love to u, u are blessed

PunkyV:


No, thank God it didn't.

I've told this story here before. Anyway, we were at a house warming party thrown by my cousin's friend. I was part of the crowd that was seated in the lounge area & next to me was the guy. He was friends with the husband of the lady we were visiting. I don't even remember how we started having a conversation but we did & maybe I even flirted with him or whatever I don't remember everything because it happened so long ago but at one point he started buying drinks. I'm not much of a drinker so I didn't drink alcohol that night, only soda. I stood up to go to the toilet & next thing I know, he was behind me. He wouldn't let me out of his sight for one moment. When I came out they were playing this other song I can't remember now & he said, "that's my jam!" & went to dance at the make-shift dancefloor. The weird thing is he was gyrating to the beat & staring right straight at me. Probably to show me what I'd be getting that night, a loose waist LMAO.

Shìt hit the fan when he heard we were leaving. He went absolutely crazy & told me I wasn't going to leave Huh? That's when he started dragging me & at one point he had me over his shoulder. LMAO. I was so scared! Luckily other people got involved, including his friend ( the guy of the house) & we were able to leave without "gettin some" That's how it ended.

Thank goodness. I really can't stand guys who always make a habit of believing that they're entitled to 'getting some'. I've seen quite a few, and I always let them know they're snow balling into becoming scum of the earth.

PunkyV:


No, thank God it didn't.

I've told this story here before. Anyway, we were at a house warming party thrown by my cousin's friend. I was part of the crowd that was seated in the lounge area & next to me was the guy. He was friends with the husband of the lady we were visiting. I don't even remember how we started having a conversation but we did & maybe I even flirted with him or whatever I don't remember everything because it happened so long ago but at one point he started buying drinks. I'm not much of a drinker so I didn't drink alcohol that night, only soda. I stood up to go to the toilet & next thing I know, he was behind me. He wouldn't let me out of his sight for one moment. When I came out they were playing this other song I can't remember now & he said, "that's my jam!" & went to dance at the make-shift dancefloor. The weird thing is he was gyrating to the beat & staring right straight at me. Probably to show me what I'd be getting that night, a loose waist LMAO.

Shìt hit the fan when he heard we were leaving. He went absolutely crazy & told me I wasn't going to leave Huh? That's when he started dragging me & at one point he had me over his shoulder. LMAO. I was so scared! Luckily other people got involved, including his friend ( the guy of the house) & we were able to leave without "gettin some" That's how it ended.

you must enjoy your power over men

joseph1832:
Thank goodness. I really can't stand guys who always make a habit of believing that they're entitled to 'getting some'. I've seen quite a few, and I always let them know they're snow balling into becoming scum of the earth.

Yeah. I don't think they care one bit though, unfortunately. Something must be really off in the head with people like that. That's not normal behaviour.

chinedumo:

you must enjoy your power over men

No. It's enjoyable only when there's mutual interest & someone is mindful of boundaries. Respect goes a long way.

make all of una just dey dere dey speak ENGlISH

PunkyV:


Yeah. I don't think they care one bit though, unfortunately. Something must be really off in the head with people like that. That's not normal behaviour.

My dear, its unfortunate we now life in a world where normal behavior, is believed abnormal, and abnormal behavior, is believed normal. I believe that's why they say "its a crazy world".

Beamborla:

That's it for me. Sadly, I've seen very few of such guys. Not even up to a handful and it makes me wonder why guys turn around to insult ladies for not having more than sex to offer when 80% of what they want is sex.

I rest my case...

U answered urself.......

Pls List 4 things an average Nigeria girl can offer?
Enlighten me? I'm curious?

Realone92:



Don't make me cry thanks huh...

Yes u are right, she was attractive though.probably what I had in mind was kissing her. I felt that should do ....the funny thing is I started it and I left her hanging "after making mouth "lol....I did tried to beg her though even b4 I left she was so disappointed : texted, Whatapp ,Facebook .b4 I knew it I was blocked! ... There is more to my sexual life too bad I can't share on social media .. U should understand.
Kisses and love to u, u are blessed

Amen pastor! You are blessed too.

I need to add that you are both cute and a lil harsh ,you actually started the whole thing. Think of going for Mr NL?

You obviously have your reasons just like you have said nwaiz and I don't blame the girl.

I guess some ladies are just good for kissing and some good enough for the deed.

Beamborla:
Never thrown myself at any guy.
Never had any reason to.

Since I do the running, I would really respect any guy who shows no interest in getting down with me.

Good

joseph1832:
My dear, its unfortunate we now life in a world where normal behavior, is believed abnormal, and abnormal behavior, is believed normal. I believe that's why they say "its a crazy world".

*nods*

AccidentalGenius:
Generally, women don't take rejection well at all. In my experience, ladies i've curved gently began to develop some sort of love-hate attitude towards me. They'd try for weeks, sometimes months not to talk to me just to get one form of reaction, then they'll come back, trying to soak up everything. They'll pretend they never tried ignoring you lol. At the end of the day, its the indifference you show towards them, to those who can't handle it, develop a love-hate friendship towards you. In my experience

Hmmmmmm

monlawal:
There was this girl when we were in secondary school. Yours truly never had a feeling for her even for once. After graduation like 2 to 3 years passed and 2go messenger brought us together. We got chatting and one thing led to the other we started visiting each other. Without any ulterior motive i overstayed at her place because i was oblivious of the time and she did not remind me, so i slept over at her place.
Ladies and gentlemen when this dude laid his head on the pillow he did not wake up till the next day. At daybreak after exchanging greetings she said this to me "IN MY LIFE, NO GUY I HAVE EVER SLEPT ON THIS BED WITH HAS NOT ATTEMPTED TO HAVE SEX WITH ME, MONLAWAL TODAY YOU NOT ONLY SHOCKED ME BUT SURPRISED ME TOO. I NEVER IMAGINE THIS KIND OF THING WOULD EVER HAPPEN RIGHT BEFORE MY EYES. YOU HAVE EARNED MY RESPECT, YOU ARE A MAN".
So reactions differ. Some girls would respect you for that and some would not take it lightly

Ok

Realone92:
It hurts them like Crazy, burning thru their veins ....she said " never begin a desire u can't satisfy don't even respond to my kissing i feel so cheap , am I that bad ? what's wrong "? Chuckled : I had no words to say ...muted

I left and she deleted me Facebook Whatapp avoided my calls and text .... The end ....

Hmmmmm

PunkyV:
I think I'd faint out of disbelief

At least not with the guys from where I'm from. They're very hyper-sexual & ever ready.

Dont faint everything is possible

Aboikpa ame yaya tutu. Mbok mkpa yem ndukid o

BrainnewsNg:


Ok

Beamborla:
Never thrown myself at any guy.
Never had any reason to.

Since I do the running, I would really respect any guy who shows no interest in getting down with me.

...and disregard people who do make intimate moves?

I gained more experience. Thanks @op

BrainnewsNg:

Hmmmmm

Madam why are u singing hmmmmm ? I don't understand your tone lol

BrainnewsNg:

Hmmmmm

Madam why are u singing hmmmmm ? I don't understand your tone lol

Beamborla:
Never thrown myself at any guy.
Never had any reason to.

Since I do the running, I would really respect any guy who shows no interest in getting down with me.

I like this

iPopAlomo:
Once upon a time when men were boys... I jonzed too many times...

if I'm correct... I jonzed around ten to fifteen chicks... I didn't know... mostly down to inexperience... they wanted the D... and me I just wanted to talk about tales by moonlight...

They left hints and all... but the Jew in me was deeper than an Israelite...

But now way jungle don mature... make we end am there...

lollzzz

niyot124:


Amen pastor! You are blessed too.

I need to add that you are both cute and a lil harsh ,you actually started the whole thing. Think of going for Mr NL?

You obviously have your reasons just like you have said nwaiz and I don't blame the girl.

I guess some ladies are just good for kissing and some good enough for the deed.

The moment she said "amen pastor" lmao abeg no make laugh disvirgin me

niyot124:


Amen pastor! You are blessed too.

I need to add that you are both cute and a lil harsh ,you actually started the whole thing. Think of going for Mr NL?

You obviously have your reasons just like you have said nwaiz and I don't blame the girl.

I guess some ladies are just good for kissing and some good enough for the deed.

Clears throat: well well Mr Nl It's a no for me, for a sec I could see myself running and competing but I got no effort and strength to Be online day by day. Am at a point in my life where I need to give all I could to be where I wanna be which goes outside NL.



guess some ladies are just good for kissing and some good enough for the deed.[/quote
the question is which right guy in his mind wouldn't want to finish what he started after making mouth lol but yes u are right maybe some are good for kissing and some for the deeds ...but remember something, most men would love to stand on their words especially in that situation. it's tempting u know. More so u wouldn't want to leave the girl cos u know definitely she's Gonna say u are impotent or sterilize or something worse...