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Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 6:35pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
he just ain't put up enough courage to tell her to move on.... He still wants her, but wants to let go.. Hence scared to brake the news to her..



Mixed feelings cry


Hmmm
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:



Thanks buh nah
naughty girl... I don't mean that kinda joke nah... I meant being funny, Luke making u like.. Somfin like that smiley
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 6:37pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:



Hmmm
yeah... It's true.. Just play along, and u'll be alright. Trust me grin
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 6:55pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
naughty girl... I don't mean that kinda joke nah... I meant being funny, Luke making u like.. Somfin like that smiley


Oh, ok wink

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Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 6:56pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
yeah... It's true.. Just play along, and u'll be alright. Trust me grin

Yh...
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by eph12(m): 6:57pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:
Yea, I guess I can survive a couple of days without him buh I hope it doesn't stretch further.
Let's hope it doesn't stretch further. If it does am sure you can easily move on dear.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 7:01pm On Jul 08, 2016
eph12:

Let's hope it doesn't stretch further. If it does am sure you can easily move on dear.


Yeah, issorite.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by bitchcrafts: 7:36pm On Jul 08, 2016
He is no more interested my dear. That's how I back out too without having to tell stories that touch.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by PunkyV(f): 9:01pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
he just ain't put up enough courage to tell her to move on.... He still wants her, but wants to let go.. Hence scared to brake the news to her..



Mixed feelings cry

What a jerkwad thing to do.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jul 08, 2016
PunkyV:


What a jerkwad thing to do.
I feel for the lady though... That guy is NOT the only guy in the whole world, I wish could put him aside and move-on


Buh if she applies my method, the guy will fall for her again... Am a genius grin
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 9:15pm On Jul 08, 2016
bitchcrafts:
He is no more interested my dear. That's how I back out too without having to tell stories that touch.


Alryt
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by PunkyV(f): 9:35pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
I feel for the lady though... That guy is NOT the only guy in the whole world, I wish could put him aside and move-on


Buh if she applies my method, the guy will fall for her again... Am a genius grin

LOL, so you're now NL's very own Dr Phil?

You suggested she plays along, what exactly is the point of that?

This thread actually got me thinking myself. Sometimes it's better to just take the initiative & move on without waiting on someone else to give you the go-ahead that may never come, to avoid hanging on a string. Because some guys are just too coward to tell you when they no longer wanna be in the relationship, so they pull all kinds of shìt, hoping you'll read between the lines & sign your own walking papers.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jul 08, 2016
AngelAhnie:
Delete him asap! don't make him feel too important dear. Good luck
you girls are very quick to give negative advice to people struggling with their relationships. Yet you lot sit back and enjoy yours.


Will you delete him if you was in her shoe?
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:


Alryt!
Act like you don't care and he'll be gone forever
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by agrovick(m): 10:26pm On Jul 08, 2016
Somebody is about to become single.

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Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by agrovick(m): 10:29pm On Jul 08, 2016
bitchcrafts:
He is no more interested my dear. That's how I back out too without having to tell stories that touch.
Best method ever, no drama, no noise, no paparazzi. It reeks of cowardice though and it makes the other party to second guess thinking he/she did something wrong or wasn't good enough.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by bitchcrafts: 10:38pm On Jul 08, 2016
agrovick:

Best method ever, no drama, no noise, no paparazzi. It reeks of cowardice though and it makes the other party to second guess thinking he/she did something wrong or wasn't good enough.
Yes, there are two things involved here; She either isn't good enough I obviously owe her no explanation or she seems too good I don't feel up to it to admit. Either ways, we aren't meant to be and so be it. I don't see it as cowardice tho, I see it using action to talk. You can get implicated when you try to explain things ykno and ladies won't allow stvpid things like logic ruin their argument; so save me that abeg! I'll rather bone you and your wahala.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by agrovick(m): 10:49pm On Jul 08, 2016
bitchcrafts:
Yes, there are two things involved here; She either isn't good enough I obviously owe her no explanation or she seems too good I don't feel up to it to admit. Either ways, we aren't meant to be and so be it. 1) I don't see it as cowardice tho, I see it using action to talk.


2) You can get implicated when you try to explain things ykno and ladies won't allow stvpid things like logic ruin their argument; so save me that abeg! I'll rather bone you and your wahala.


I totally agree with 2 but that 1, boss let's be honest in most cases the only reason why you are using action to talk is because you are trying to leave open the window of smashing her one more time. That window would have closed, if you had verbally tell her you are no longer interested.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by bitchcrafts: 10:51pm On Jul 08, 2016
agrovick:



I totally agree with 2 but that 1, boss let's be honest in most cases the only reason why you are using action to talk is because you are trying to leave open the window of smashing her one more time. That window would have closed, if you had verbally tell her you are no longer interested.
My life is a lil bit more complex than that. Punkyv understands grin
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by agrovick(m): 10:55pm On Jul 08, 2016
bitchcrafts:
My life is a lil bit more complex than that. Punkyv understands grin
Hahaha, I leave u in her capable hands
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by bitchcrafts: 10:58pm On Jul 08, 2016
agrovick:

Hahaha, I leave u in her capable hands
Its the other way round bruh grin whispers *I'm the capable hand*
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by agrovick(m): 11:04pm On Jul 08, 2016
bitchcrafts:
Its the other way round bruh grin whispers *I'm the capable hand*
Hahaha, I want to hear wedding bells
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jul 08, 2016
PunkyV:


LOL, so you're now NL's very own Dr Phil?

You suggested she plays along, what exactly is the point of that?

This thread actually got me thinking myself. Sometimes it's better to just take the initiative & move on without waiting on someone else to give you the go-ahead that may never come, to avoid hanging on a string. Because some guys are just too coward to tell you when they no longer wanna be in the relationship, so they pull all kinds of shìt, hoping you'll read between the lines & sign your own walking papers.
oh girl... I've watched most of ur comments on relationship related issues here on Romance-land, and u gave this same advice abou moving on... Dats wicked!

If u decide to move on without getting to know wats up with the funny behaviour from the guy, and he ain't ready to let go but just busy or sumtin else(sumtin positive) is taking the time, he will return and found out u left just like dat... How do u think he'll feel

U are always ready to move on shaaa... I don't like that, it doesn't fit In all situations of a relationship. I'll tell u something, there are some pple u can NEVER do without. I am an example of such guys, u would always wanna hang around grin
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by bitchcrafts: 11:05pm On Jul 08, 2016
agrovick:
Hahaha, I want to hear wedding bells
Its just a fling gee
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by AngelAhnie(f): 11:05pm On Jul 08, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
you girls are very quick to give negative advice to people struggling with their relationships. Yet you lot sit back and enjoy yours.


Will you delete him if you was in her shoe?
Thought its online relationship
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by mizzbouqui(f): 11:09pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:



Sure thing, thank you!

Uwlcm
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by agrovick(m): 11:16pm On Jul 08, 2016
bitchcrafts:
Its just a fling gee
It doesn't marra, Romancelanders endorse it.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by DucheSsMerezz(f): 11:23pm On Jul 08, 2016
Btw, You're pretty.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jul 08, 2016
AngelAhnie:
Thought its online relationship
I doubt actually
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 11:37pm On Jul 08, 2016
Ganaziah is it online relationship?
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 11:56pm On Jul 08, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Ganaziah is it online relationship?

No
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:


No
Hmmmmmmm I'll advice you don't listen to all these negative advisers

cc AngelAhnie

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