o.val:

wether na st remmy or st remo,i go wash the yeye luff commot for my system."behold old thins are pass away and alas i am new again" (abeg no vex i no sabi quote bible)

have you not heard the saying that old friends are better than new ones?
abeg take am easy o! the new bobo fit harsh pass the old one wey you wan 'wash'
comot oooo!

George_D:

have you not heard the saying that old friends are better than new ones?
abeg take am easy o! the new bobo fit harsh pass the old one wey you wan 'wash'
comot oooo!

LIFE IS A GAMBLE, WE TAKE THE RISK

Money doesn't grow on tree so I will need the ring back for my next fiancee.

Personally i will keep it.Tlking form experience.It brought me closure

benelt:

Money doesn't grow on tree so I will need the ring back for my next fiancee.

bros, forget about the ring. let her keep it.

well, i remember once when i was engaged to this yoruba son of a female dog. i later called off the engagement but he refused to take his ring back. does that mean we are still engaged?

idstar:

well, i remember once when i was engaged to this yoruba son of a female dog. i later called off the engagement but he refused to take his ring back. does that mean we are still engaged?

Go easy sista, past are meant to be buried no matter what.

idstar:

well, i remember once when i was engaged to this yoruba son of a female dog. i later called off the engagement but he refused to take his ring back. does that mean we are still engaged?

post it to him or drop it off.
Am of the opinion that if u break up with someone, it should be a clean break, hence every ties must be severed and things like rings returned, joint accounts closed, joint property sold etc or else its difficult for both paries to move on

@idstar,
you must be very upset to call your once sweetheart a yoruba son of a female dog. no matter how bitter you are, please take it easy. there's no hurt that cannot heal with time. just keep the ring and take it as a souvenir from a once sweet affair.

@kenny _g and george@d : which of the two conflicting opinions do i go for?

go 4 mine

you're better off with the ring for sure, trust me.

But what will lead to the break-up

na to free the ring even if na diamond.
what about wetin u sef don chop times without number?



Nigeria Is Blessed.

any nunber of issues could lead to a break up, sister.

Each of the marriage partner is entitled to his or hear own marital engagement ring

Whoever paid for it. An engagement ring is not a gift.

are we still on this topic? 

George_D:

are still on this topic?

^^ Jog on, there are new people on nairaland everyday!


This isn't rocket science! It's not about if he can afford it, it's about the purpose of the ring.

Will you marry me?, that's what he asked
The lady said "Yes", and then he placed a ring on it to symbolise that commitment.

When the lady came back to say "No", I believe the symbol of the commitment should be returned to truly affirm her "NO-ship". If she's got shame she should return it even if it costs the guy =N=5. If the guy takes the situation to any court of law, he would win without a single sweat or the lady be asked to pay back the equivalent in cash.

dude, this topic is over and done with.

rolls his eyes and clicks the unsusbcribe botton

Well, I didn't ask for the ring but she returned it anyway. I felt so bad when I saw it, but it's done already. Well, am too young to let that wear me down.

fyneboi: When a guy break up an engagement, is the girl suppose to return the engagement ring or keep it?

the guy should get it ofcourse. it's his money.

benelt: Money doesn't grow on tree so I will need the ring back for my next fiancee.

u want 2 give her another girl's ring? u no well