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Married At School, Single At Home... by Champa(m): 3:55pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Pls share with teens, youth and Group Chats
that care to read and be Enlightened. Welcome
to Nigerian campuses where little girls are
practising 'wifely functions'! Just visit the
boys' hostels and you would be disappointed
to find out that it is now common for a girl to
live in with a course mate. It is now common
for her lover to give her the popular
compliment 'you look sexy my gal' and she
would gladly reply 'thank you honey' with a
flirty voice and a romantic smile. Who is her
lover? A 300 level student whose CGPA is
barely up to 1.78! And they are aiming for the
next best couple award for the session by the
departmental association. So, the girl need to
live in with him to prepare along. What
nonsense! It seems that some girls suddenly
loose their senses immediately they gain
admission. I've seen that some of them have
no more sense of caution, honour and dignity.
They would change their wardrobes and
acquire a new set of make ups just to look
'campussy' and sexy enough for the guys. In
months, they would start sleeping around with
little boys. I mean boys who collect pocket
money from their uncles! Dirty boys who most
of the time are infected with sexually
transmitted diseases. Hey! I want you to know
that you were sent to school to obtain a
degree not a disease. The campus is called a
school; school not sex! You are on campus to
receive education not expulsion. You are here
to master the use of a pen not the pleasures
of a joystick. Wake up girl! Do some thinking.
Your future is greater than the 'best couple
award'. You cook for a boy you are more
intelligent than. You give your virginity to a
boy who will definitely leave you after
graduation. You play wife to a boy who
cannot even care for himself. Oh, you have
given too much. Enough! Open your eyes!
Can't you see you're being foolish? You are
passing through the fears of unwanted
pregnancies yet you are opening your legs to
a coward who cannot stand before your
father. And when you eventually gets
pregnant, he would brutally advise you to
abort it and you would timidly agree; then
face the consequences later. What a shame!
You may master the use of condoms but you
can't master the punishment of your
conscience. Don't you know you are bringing
shame to your family? Don't you know that
you are cursing your mother by accepting to
sleep with a boy (not even a man) without her
consent? I cautioned a girl against sleeping
around and she replied 'Sheddy, I don't sleep
around; its only one boyfriend I have and am
faithful to him'. What impunity! That's
classified harlotry. And don't you know that
sleeping with a man without your father's
blessings is bringing a curse to your future?
What happened to your cultural values?
Somewhere in your heart you know he would
use you and dump you; so why are you setting
up yourself for a heartbreak? I want to remind
you that you are a lady and one day you may
get married. And your husband would know
that you are such a dirty Dam who sleeps with
anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady
would give to her husband on the wedding
night is her virginity less lost it out of (rape)
not the certificate of best couple of the year
on campus! The other gifts for the rest of her
life are her care and character not her curves
and complexion! Real men know this; so, get
it screwed in! Those treacherous boys would
call you 'sexy' and you would answer? Oh,
sorry! They touch your breast and you would
smile? They would ask you out and you would
oblige? Oh, you are indeed a mistake. Am not
saying that you should be rude or never live a
'social life' but I want you to think deeper
than you are currently doing. I want to turn
your attention back to your books. You are
not in school for breast exhibition. So, pay
less attention to those boobs and give more
attention to your books! You are not in school
for cat walking show. You are rather here to
show us the dignity of womanhood. You are
here to prove to us that you are costly. So,
why make yourself so cheap? I am writing this
with both love and pain in my heart and that's
why am sounding stern. I know about two
girls now that have been living with their
boyfriend since year one and as it is now they
can't even even count how many abortions
they had for that same boy at sch bae it's now
like a normal thing to them, the last one she
did almost took her life and that made her
bleed for 4months, imagine how you do feel
with ordinary 4 days of menstruation left
alone living with it for months.. As a matter
of fact one of them have damaged her
fallopian tube due to excessive use of
contraceptives she has taken to prevent
pregnancy. I want you to look beyond now and
think of what advise you would give your own
daughter when you become a mother. I hope I
have not offended you...if I have, please
repent. To the decent girls I have seen on
campus: do not be swayed by these evil. Be
consistent and keep celebrating your purity. I
am always proud of you. And God is more
proud of you. Please share this message with
all our youths and our teens. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Married At School, Single At Home... by majamajic(m): 4:03pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
They are preparing for the future |
Re: Married At School, Single At Home... by pweetylivia(f): 4:08pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Nice one. I wonder when our girls will learn. It has really become a norm in school for girls to move in with their boyfriends once they start dating especially those staying off campus. Dear girls, where is your dignity and pride?. Where is your common sense?. The annoying fact is that most of this relationships end at the school gate and then regret comes later A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: Married At School, Single At Home... by rosalieene(f): 5:17pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
nice one! |
Re: Married At School, Single At Home... by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
This is really nice |
Re: Married At School, Single At Home... by bitchcrafts: 5:32pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
See how dem wan brainwash ppl! hin no concern me sha |
Re: Married At School, Single At Home... by Jay542(m): 5:34pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
pweetylivia:It happens but most of the girls that do it are homeless or pple they are squatting with are treating them badly. What you expect them to do? |
Re: Married At School, Single At Home... by Ak47young(m): 5:39pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Guy no spoil market abeg |
Re: Married At School, Single At Home... by pweetylivia(f): 5:51pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Jay542:Truth is that 70% of them are not homeless or squatting. I have some friends that purposely packed out of their lodges just to stay with their boyfriends. |
Re: Married At School, Single At Home... by Jay542(m): 5:59pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
pweetylivia: Then that is wrong. Cos the ones I know it's cos they wer homeless |
Re: Married At School, Single At Home... by pweetylivia(f): 6:04pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Ak47young:lolz. |
Re: Married At School, Single At Home... by Vikky014(f): 6:25pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
honestly... it is quite bad. i evn wrote an article concerning dis in our final yr magazine |
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