goldeno10boy:
and zero number of children born out of wedlock (bastards)
There is no body that will be happy with his/her parents for making him/her a bastard

OLAADEGBU:


You said for the fact that a partner (fiance) would begin to cheat with someone else as to the reason why you advocate for pre-marital sex. Correct me if am wrong. What will you advise your daughter if she asks you this (OP) question?

madridsta007:
#TeamAbstinenceTillMarriage

#TeamCelibateTillMarriage

#TeamWaitingForThatSpecialNight.

queenfav:
True o,i did a divorce where the wife was knacking her husband's younger brother living with them in their matrimonial home.

Jamean:


and I put it to you that some people are so committed to abstinence that they don't even embrace/hug each other, talk less of kissing or pre-intimacy. It's just like saying it is impossible to be great and affluent in life without been through formal education at any time in life, and that if you investigate they probably dropped out of school at some point.

The fact that it seems impossible to you doesn't mean people have not totally abstained in the past even till this present terrible end time.

Ok bye.

joseph1832:


Kindly look at my post again and see the meaning behind the message there.

I'll advise my daughter to do whatever she believe is right.

joseph1832:
LOL. That's usually the message they preach to fool those who want to be fooled.

At times, even one of the couple is abstaining, the other might not be. I've seen this instance countless of times. That's why I'm a staunch advocate of pre-marital sex.

Seun:
Nobody practices abstinence before marriage.
Those who claim to be abstinent, if you investigate, are often doing everything except penetration.
There must be some exceptions though.

OLAADEGBU:


Does this mean that abstinence is not a realistic message?

joseph1832:
Kindly look at my post again and see the meaning behind the message there.

I'll advise my daughter to do whatever she believe is right.

eph12:


Some Church goers still go ahead to steal even after hearing the message against stealing. Does that means message against stealing is not a realistic message?

OLAADEGBU:


Maybe preaching against stealing is not the right message.

Nobleking2000:


Stories we get from "Abstinence teachings" on social Media.
1. Help!!! My husband has a small ddick. What should I do?
2. Help!!! My Husband is a 1 minute man. He cannot satisfy me in bed. What should I do?
3. Help!!! My Wife does not like sex, I am tempted to go outside. What should I do?
4. Help!!! My Husband touches me once in 6 months since after our marriage. What should I do?
5. Help!!! My wife cries each time we make love. I am even afraid to touch her. What should I do?
6. Help!!! My husband has a weak eerection. I don't feel his ddick inside me. What should I do?
7. Help My wife is not Good in bed. She lies like a lug of wood. I don't enjoy sex with her . What should I do?
When you refused to check what your buying before you pay, please don't come to me for any silly advice. I have stopped contributing on threads on such topics for a very long time now.
Sexual compatibility is key to a successful marriage.
Be wise + Be smart

cliquevibes:
Dats y it good 2 use condom

eph12:


And what do you think should be the right message?

OLAADEGBU:


That is the question. If preaching abstinence falls on deaf ears what then should be the right message?

happney65:
Nonesense..Me wey i go still have Sex this evening..If you dont want to fuckkkk,dont have a Boyfriend..Sogboo.... omolola15 how far that babe jare..I even forget to ask you,any update?

OLAADEGBU:


Is this not post in question?

eph12:

You definitely wouldn't have any problem with her bringing guys to your house to sleep with her. I am sure you wouldn't

omolola15:


She's still forming voltron jare.....

joseph1832:
There's a time for everything.

OLAADEGBU:
"Is abstinence before marriage a realistic message?" Most people are going to have sex anyway, so why bother even teaching abstinence?

Many in the modern culture have declared that sexual morality is dead, that abstinence isn't realistic, but it is instead old-fashioned and outdated. Is abstinence before marriage even reasonable in today's "hook-up culture"?

lilyqueen:


It has a lot of advantages and no disadvantage