Radiant said, Radiant says, Radiant will say. . ._*sigh*  while big dicks are good not all black men know how to use it. By the way some look like my black crayon, sorry. Stop all this black d!ck campaign.

see no evil Fhemmmy and read no Evil.
You people get off my screen and no spoil me for my Mama

Fhemmmy:

see no evil Fhemmmy and read no Evil.
You people get off my screen and no spoil me for my Mama

funny!

chocoLove:


funny!

not funny

Wetin deh do Candy today?

Radiant:

Wetin deh do Candy today? 

lol

Radiant:

Radiant said, Radiant says, Radiant will say. . ._*sigh* while big dicks are good not all black men know how to use it. By the way some look like my black crayon, sorry. Stop all this black d!ck campaign.

All this talk talk of Black thing is just dat, Talk Talk!! Una no dey think of brown or yellow thing?? look at the population of CHINA and INDIA alone!!
LOL

why are u resurrecting a dead thread

He's different alright different because he has not had the struggle a black man has. He wont be abused at work or looked down on . He proberbly is blinded that most nigerian women are not worth bothering with that they will sting him so its a whole lot different. i hate black women who diss their own for whites.

It's true that it's a wrong thing to généralise a whole race.
For me i would say that both havé their qualities. (Better than CAN mean in many areas) i dont really know, but if u say romantic, i CAN say yes for a white Man.
But not all white m'en are caring, our black men are like them in this area.

Everybody is entitled to his/her personal opinion.

"white" men better than "whatever" men, so if the guy wasn't white u wldn't date him??

r

@OP

How long have you been together?

One argument too many, too heated and your name turns from my wife to "MY NIGGA."

White men can be quite abusive as well, they are well versed in foul words and fast fists as much or worse than a black man. Who can forget Mel Gibson, Judge William Adams (beats his daughter, we can only imagine what he does to his wife).

If things ever get out of hand between the two of you, routinely and traditionally speaking let's see who the police will believe. Not trying to put you off from that WHITE LOVER OF ALL TIMES who you are waving around for all to admire but hey - ya never know, http://www.conservativecrusader.com/articles/chgo-sun-times-violent-white-men-not-held-accountable-for-their-actions,

perchance, where are you and your "white is right - ball and chain planning to reside"? The U.S. or the U.K.? Be careful that you don't choose an all white neighborhood in an area that has no diversity. Your longing for home will make your head spin. It will speed up your "longing for those who look like you."

Most races, will love you yet still can hold hatred about "where you come from, including your family." Are you nerves wound tight? Year in and Year out, you will have to keep at bay, his words dropped here, there and everywhere that might be race-laced about you, your choices, your likes and dislikes, he will have a tendency to associate who you are as being a "person of color--so now I see that black people like this and black people like that" vs. seeing your choices as just "who you are."

Let's hope and pray you aren't the first black person he has dated. If you are his very first toe-dipping pilot-project, be prepared to have to repeatedly and constantly edit/explain --- him, his words, his actions and his deeds --- to yourself and to everyone you know. You dream come true will dim and fade as it could very well evolve into a living nightmare. As you introduce and educate your white knight with what is and isn't acceptable in his action, words and deeds with your friends, family, acquaintances and whatever he does with his own circle when you are in their presence.

He also will not favor, nor sympathize much with your cultures "special needs." Maybe in the beginning to impress you as he might be excited about your newness and your culture. As time goes by, expect to see that He won't see the necessity in helping family (Unless he is a White Nigerian, but it doesn't sound like it). Many whites are very "nuclear" - they concern themselves with immediate "under the same roof family members," not many are into extended ANYTHING, Grandma is acceptable to help, but Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, etc. Maybe they will help but once the requests are too frequent and continuously add up. He will divorce you and your family. I encourage you to sign a prenup that will at least provide for your upkeep and maintenance when he dumps you and your over-confidence touting "White Men are Better Than Black Men."

White men as the "so-called superior race" - can be as traditional as your Nigerian brotherhood and even worse, be prepared to happen upon the fact that secretly he believes he knows everything and you "know nothing" - because NOT ONLY ARE YOU A WOMAN, but you are a black woman to boot, he still holds a certain inherent idea about your color/race. Very similar to a large percentage of white woman who date black males (not all white woman but a large percent of white women are this way especially those who are educated and come from money, they want that black male in their bed, but when making decisions about them and their finances, you will soon find out who is "really in charge and refuses to give over the reins"

The majority of what he does that is "family related" such as real estate purchases, vehicles, etc, will flow with his likes and dislikes and he will provide reasons to justify why--unless you are bringing in a large % of income, be prepared to be treated as someone who when "hard decisions are to be made" you should agree, say very little, and just enjoy the ride. I have found white men to be very bull-headed, though you are well-versed in many areas, he can and will naturally assume that he excels in all areas, whatever you do, he can do it better. Though he will give you the kitchen, laundry room, bedroom and grounds (Outdoors). When his friends and family come over, if you are too ethnic, prior to their appearing, he will even take over in those areas----especially if you have a stair-climbing white male as appearances are everything to many of them.

Enjoy your white male, but realize that EVERY RACE houses men that are desirable to "women" - because personally, I like my meat well-done, blackened, educated, treats women well, but is masculine in every sense of the word. Black men look younger longer, can associate with the struggle of being "black." I love all people, but I have been around whites my entire life and have many white friends and some white family members. In my bed and between my thighs and in the shower it has to be black skin I see---Casper the friendly ghost sharing my sheets is NOT AN OPTION. i don't like the nauseous smell of caucasians when they are wet and when they sweat, they have a very different scent.

Nothing wrong with it, if you enjoy it. I just cannot stomach the smell because it is too different and smells so much like wet dog (their hair). YES, It can be masked with shampoos and perfume, but I don't want to have to spray the air in my own home every time my mate climbs from the shower. I love my black men, REALLY DARK ONES. Their rippling muscles, silky smooth skin, rich laughter, shining, glossy eyes, white teeth, NICE SIZEABLE extremities, intellect, quick thinking.

Ain't nothing like HOME. I LOVE HOME.

2yrs on, i'm sure congratulations are in order for Radiant.

can anyone tell me how to stop this topic from appearing again on my updated topics list? have tried replying "r" and unchecking the "notify me of replies" and return to the topic boxes. please help before i tear my hair out.

guess its safe to say that white women are better than black women

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sneaking out of here so fast b4 they know I was here

please

Shy-One:

@OP

How long have you been together?

One argument too many, too heated and your name turns from my wife to "MY NIGGA."

White men can be quite abusive as well, they are well versed in foul words and fast fists as much or worse than a black man. Who can forget Mel Gibson, Judge William Adams (beats his daughter, we can only imagine what he does to his wife).

If things ever get out of hand between the two of you, routinely and traditionally speaking let's see who the police will believe. Not trying to put you off from that WHITE LOVER OF ALL TIMES who you are waving around for all to admire but hey - ya never know, http://www.conservativecrusader.com/articles/chgo-sun-times-violent-white-men-not-held-accountable-for-their-actions,

perchance, where are you and your "white is right - ball and chain planning to reside"? The U.S. or the U.K.? Be careful that you don't choose an all white neighborhood in an area that has no diversity. Your longing for home will make your head spin. It will speed up your "longing for those who look like you."

Most races, will love you yet still can hold hatred about "where you come from, including your family." Are you nerves wound tight? Year in and Year out, you will have to keep at bay, his words dropped here, there and everywhere that might be race-laced about you, your choices, your likes and dislikes, he will have a tendency to associate who you are as being a "person of color--so now I see that black people like this and black people like that" vs. seeing your choices as just "who you are."

Let's hope and pray you aren't the first black person he has dated. If you are his very first toe-dipping pilot-project, be prepared to have to repeatedly and constantly edit/explain --- him, his words, his actions and his deeds --- to yourself and to everyone you know. You dream come true will dim and fade as it could very well evolve into a living nightmare. As you introduce and educate your white knight with what is and isn't acceptable in his action, words and deeds with your friends, family, acquaintances and whatever he does with his own circle when you are in their presence.

He also will not favor, nor sympathize much with your cultures "special needs." Maybe in the beginning to impress you as he might be excited about your newness and your culture. As time goes by, expect to see that He won't see the necessity in helping family (Unless he is a White Nigerian, but it doesn't sound like it). Many whites are very "nuclear" - they concern themselves with immediate "under the same roof family members," not many are into extended ANYTHING, Grandma is acceptable to help, but Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, etc. Maybe they will help but once the requests are too frequent and continuously add up. He will divorce you and your family. I encourage you to sign a prenup that will at least provide for your upkeep and maintenance when he dumps you and your over-confidence touting "White Men are Better Than Black Men."

White men as the "so-called superior race" - can be as traditional as your Nigerian brotherhood and even worse, be prepared to happen upon the fact that secretly he believes he knows everything and you "know nothing" - because NOT ONLY ARE YOU A WOMAN, but you are a black woman to boot, he still holds a certain inherent idea about your color/race. Very similar to a large percentage of white woman who date black males (not all white woman but a large percent of white women are this way especially those who are educated and come from money, they want that black male in their bed, but when making decisions about them and their finances, you will soon find out who is "really in charge and refuses to give over the reins"

The majority of what he does that is "family related" such as real estate purchases, vehicles, etc, will flow with his likes and dislikes and he will provide reasons to justify why--unless you are bringing in a large % of income, be prepared to be treated as someone who when "hard decisions are to be made" you should agree, say very little, and just enjoy the ride. I have found white men to be very bull-headed, though you are well-versed in many areas, he can and will naturally assume that he excels in all areas, whatever you do, he can do it better. Though he will give you the kitchen, laundry room, bedroom and grounds (Outdoors). When his friends and family come over, if you are too ethnic, prior to their appearing, he will even take over in those areas----especially if you have a stair-climbing white male as appearances are everything to many of them.

Enjoy your white male, but realize that EVERY RACE houses men that are desirable to "women" - because personally, I like my meat well-done, blackened, educated, treats women well, but is masculine in every sense of the word. Black men look younger longer, can associate with the struggle of being "black." I love all people, but I have been around whites my entire life and have many white friends and some white family members. In my bed and between my thighs and in the shower it has to be black skin I see---Casper the friendly ghost sharing my sheets is NOT AN OPTION. i don't like the nauseous smell of caucasians when they are wet and when they sweat, they have a very different scent.

Nothing wrong with it, if you enjoy it. I just cannot stomach the smell because it is too different and smells so much like wet dog (their hair). YES, It can be masked with shampoos and perfume, but I don't want to have to spray the air in my own home every time my mate climbs from the shower. I love my black men, REALLY DARK ONES. Their rippling muscles, silky smooth skin, rich laughter, shining, glossy eyes, white teeth, NICE SIZEABLE extremities, intellect, quick thinking.

Ain't nothing like HOME. I LOVE HOME.

Nice post and well articulated. I am not attracted to white people either even though I have been around them since I was born. The physical attraction is not just there and I have been discriminated against by them one time too many so I ain't dating them for nothing.

Hey guyss !!!
Well as for myself I am probably as white as snow, loll Even tho I am attracted to guys with bluee eyees I dont really care if a men is caucasian, azn or black,
cause I really know there is good humans everywhere!
see ya'll!!!

@ topic I dont know which if its ok to say one race is better but what i do know is white dudes are more affectionate n romantic. Im a hopeless romantic n i find it sweet wen a guy brings me flowers but im married to an african man so there's no chance of that happening. Lol

trekkie:

can anyone tell me how to stop this topic from appearing again on my updated topics list? have tried replying "r" and unchecking the "notify me of replies" and return to the topic boxes. please help before i tear my hair out.

Na crase go make u wan pull ur hair not this topic. Mumu

David, lol

ignorance of the highest order, what a silly thread

Yes they are. I guess I'm a self-hating black. No scratch that, I'm a self-hating Nigerian. African.

All these cos of green card. . . . . Ku ise oooo

vicishow: From my experience as a black man, i think we are much more better. Check yourself!!

No you are not better...check yourself!

I am naturally attracted to white men. My dad prefers that I bring home an Igbo man, but he knows deep down that the chances of that happening are very slim to none. He also knows that he cannot choose a spouse for me.

lol

am enaged to a biracial guy ,but he has a very kind mentality and does not behave like a demanding nigerian man. he lets me make my own decisions and he supports it.i would say on average abroad men are better than 9ja base mwn,9ja base men behave like cave men