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Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Ghost447(m): 11:13pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
You ignored the red flags during courtship now you're facing the consequences. Punish her with silence for a reasonable time, if she repents forgive her, otherwise, do your wish, meanwhile spatting on a man is forbidden in my custom. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
First, she's got character issues and bottled anger. Perhaps, she's beginning to spite you for some reasons unknown to you. Stay away from her for a while. Give her the silent treatment if you must or just begin to be totally civil with her. Hopefully, she'll begin to miss things bring normal and in that time, both of you may be able to put certain things into perspective. If she begins to act remorseful, then it's time to call it a truce. Sit her down and have a proper conversation. Ask her what went wrong, if there's anything you're doing that's making her resent you, if there's anything she feels she's being denied of. Make sure you get the truth out of her and reach an understanding. You've shown yourself to be a good man and a husband. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by egedege1(m): 11:14pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
From what you've said bro, give her more attention I know her we gamers love our pads so much. Women are to be treated softly. Create a way whereby she tells y when you've offended her and vice versa. I'm single though 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by bethyz(m): 11:14pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Write to Amara van lare on Facebook she would give you the perfect answer. Opinion is what you will get here |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by handsomety(m): 11:14pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Swissheart:omo ekiti swissheart y d yu say he should forgive her....if he does his wife will still continue that attitude ..huh! and he should continue loving his work wife...hmmm. OK.. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by naijafeminist: 11:14pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Freiden: Like you don't preach forgiveness is a man errs |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by RedCapChief(m): 11:14pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Miladi: Don't be a cuck, love. Don't be a cuck |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Saicology212: 11:15pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
For all those advocating slap, kicks and other forms of sheer brute force, remember NO BE NAIJA HIM DEY O!!! E get as him go do police go come arrest am for domestic violence, even if na pinch him give her. To make matters worse, he will be asked to LEAVE HIS OWN HOUSE FOR HIS WIFE and look for a motel or friends to stay with for peace to reign. Abeg, na who lose? |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by dandostism88(m): 11:15pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
U've given ur wife 2much chance, u dnt knw wt is in her mind now, Bros dt woman may kill u 1day ooo., watch out!! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by efesmith(m): 11:15pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
what really makes a man "a man" apart from the dick and other physical attributes? is it the strength? well I believe it's relative to every guy or male specie. To me ooo apart from the physical it's the ability to face a problem head on even when you don't want to until the problem start running from you not you running from the problem. The ability to see the female short comings and know that's how most of them (not all of them) are wired use emotional intelligence to handle that part of the situation. That's the difference between real men that every woman will die for and normal men. we need people like you who will tell the children, your children to make their marriage work even when their wives spit on their face. You've done great already by not even touching her don't let all your dreams and the love you have just go back to nigeria in this state just like that. That will equal saying am not up to the task. and trust nature has a way of bringing problem you didn't solve back from the past to your future. just solve. It's not easy but it's doable. Your kind is rear. |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by nickda(f): 11:16pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
We have more than enough mad women her in nigeria. Pls keep her right where she is ATM. We don't want her here 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Barney11: 11:17pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
is it when she pushed to commit a crime u can never wipe out from your mind, that is killing her, u see anger is a great smoke that if not checked it will turn to fire, bros... she left u for another man, u took her back..... when women are angry u will know their sincere thought on u, marriage is always smooth Cos two different individuals are involved but what makes it sweet is understanding and respect! bros the present recession is enough to calm her down here. We Need Her Spittle for dos who claims that CHANGE begins with us! Imagine how it will be when kids joins her to spit at u! |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:17pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
@nameerfhtennek Seems you spend more time with FIFA and computer games than your wife. I know you dont see anything wrong in your attitude but I am here to tell you that you are wrong. #1. I picture a woman coming to ask for internet router, and you kept silent and she kept asking. How do you expect her to know whats on your mind. Is she a spirit to know you forgot it in the office ? Who keeps silent in relationships even if you had past grudge ? #2. Then, you do not have a way of rationalizing your struggle to remove forcefully the remote and console "from her pant"; I mean who does that ? If a woman hides anything in her pant or brazier, it means "dont dare". You have totally ruined your marriage, with "women are bad", "I am loyal good man" attitude. If you need my advice; It is simple. Go and apologize to your wife, for the silent treatment and promise to spend more time with your wife than the fucking video games and internet. Your wife is now addicted to internet cos you both spend more time online and not talking to each other. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Aida13: 11:18pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Omg she is sooo immature obviously!!! You need to send her back for a few months so she can get the space she needs to grow up. You can't help her she needs to help herself Seriously don't stay in the same house with this girl woman for now because she's high on something maybe love is shacking her. I just like the way you sound cool and how you took her back and married her etc but she needs a lesson in sense. Send her away pleeeeeeaaase!!! (I'm the one even begging you now sef) |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by kenx1(m): 11:18pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
I'm so scared of getting married...God help me 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by kzypher(m): 11:18pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
I can see all d females here saying 'forgive' Forgive ko forcollect ni.. .. Women like diz always feel dey deserve better my bro, send her back to naija mek she com enjoy recession for d remaining 3 years. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by laplace19(m): 11:18pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
MrMcJay: I quite agree with you.... spitting on someone to me is most degrading... Op. Do as this guy said 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by skywalker001(m): 11:18pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
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Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by zena2009(f): 11:19pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Spitting on your face is the second to the last thing she will do to you. The last is killing you or putting you into trouble. I have never had a wife spitting on the husband before. Simple she doesn't love you, unfortunately that's a bitter truth. Dating another man after you left the country shows that she never believed in you. Wake up! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by malosky79(m): 11:19pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
nameerfhtennek: I think you made a mistake by allowing it to degenerate to that level of insult. She's your wife n U shd know how to handle her. What she needed @dt instance is rough play,right there in d kitchen. If you give it to her ,it would have been another story today. Any woman dt hide smtin under bra or pant is communicating, n you should v decode. Forgive n forget bro. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Purpletee(f): 11:20pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
op please don't lay a finger on her...give her the silent treatment... it kills... if after days she doesn't apologize please serve her a divorce paper ASAP... no matter what I can never spit on a man...can't even raise my voice...where I get the strength?? will just give my partner the silent treatment. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by naijafeminist: 11:20pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
See how every one is saying beat her, send her packing. If it were the other way round, the woman would be asked to endure for a little longer. Op, as they say marriage is not a bed of roses. Be very sure you won't regret your decision in future if you want to walk out of the marriage. And I must ask, do you know why she might have made that statement about your temper? Is there a history you're not telling us about? And I think you should have told her your router was in the office the first time she asked just for peace sake. It's always worth it. Please think this through before you act. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by NovusHomo(m): 11:21pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
DTRUMPER: Pray? Lol. Send her back to Nigeria. You are in Saudi Arabia, not the USA. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by ViktorMartins(m): 11:21pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Please, send her away for the time being. Won't say you made a mistake by accepting her back but really your happiness matters most in life 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:24pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
nameerfhtennek:I don't seem to understand what women's problems are sef. It appears they're uniformly wired. You might only know 45% of their character while dating them, keeping the remaining 55% till after you're married. Men don't have any secret. The moment she rubs her palms on your head or chest, you won't know when you'd be downloading all the information you've vowed to hide from her. I stand to be corrected on this but those who are already into it can bear me witness in this forum. I'm not talking of young couples who are just one year old in marriage. Nagging isn't far from them. At times, one would be wondering if she wasn't the same girl you used to know during courtship years. If you like, date her for 10 years because you want to really understand her...na lie, you won't , until after you guys are married. Above all, for a man to really enjoy them, one has to be a gentleman to the core, even if she's abusing your parents...which many of them always do whenever they're are angry because 90% of them often find it difficult to control their anger so, they say nasty things when they're angry. Bros, please don't send her back home. They're all like that. The one who won't spit at your face could do even worse by holding your shirt and screaming for the neighbour to hear her voice. If you want to get them, don't react. They will be the one begging later. I've been married for 10 years now, blessed with kids. I've been opportuned to tour the world, seen different races and tribes and come to a conclusion that all women are the same. you can never get a dictionary that describes women to buy in the market in terms of character. One old man used to say that, maybe the reason women behave nastily is because they hardly put water on their heads like we men do. Just take it easy with her. If you want to get her, don't react whenever she's nagging. As she grows, so will she shed those nasty habits. Amazingly, our parents were not so nasty as women of nowadays. Our forefathers would marry 3 wives to help with farming and they would live under the same roof without alterations. Should we blame their nagging on civilisation? Pls forgive her. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by delors(m): 11:25pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Forgive her. But send her away afterwards. She's likely gonna kill u one day...I v met women like that. You think they are good people but their tongues can slit throats. They crumble a man's ego with unbelievable words. Plus, we are scared and tired of hearing cases when the poor husband goes to sleep in his own matrimonial bed and the wife slitting his throat in his sleep. She could do it. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by Miladi(f): 11:25pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
bigtt76: You captured my thought. I love smart people. Redcapchief read and re-read this contributor's post. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by youngdazzle(m): 11:26pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
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