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LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by omonighoblessing(f): 9:59am On Sep 17, 2016
If your man seems to be losing interest in you – Never chase, plead with, or beg a guy to come back to you. You are worth more than that. When the man you love seems to be distancing himself, it’s understandable to get caught up in over-analyzing, worrying, and stressing about what’s going on in your relationship and what you should do.
This is the time to breathe through things instead of figuring out how to get his attention back. Here are 3 things you need to do:


1. Give him his space.
You might think by giving him his space, you may lose him. Trying to win his attention andaffection back when he’s pulling away only puts more pressure on him and yourself. It also increases the possibility of putting more distance between the two of you and him possibly taking advantage of you, and here’s why.
During this time, you will feel confused, uncertain, and most likely a bit desperate. Trying to reel him back under these conditions won’t let you to shine. And if he is having doubts about you, the energy of desperation that comes from trying to keep his interest, confirms his doubts.
Instead, be still and pay attention to his actions while giving him his space. Don’t read into things, because you may misinterpret what’s really going on.
Without pressure, his true intentions will be revealed through what he does. It’s possible thathe may have realized how much he loves you — he may be scared, feeling overwhelmed, and is coming to terms with this. It’s also possible he is thinking of leaving you, and if that happens, things weren’t meant to be.


2. Focus on yourself.
During this time, your self-esteem may take a hit. If this happens, work on building your self worth back up and getting to a place where you feel calm during this time of uncertainty. Take care of things you have neglected, explore new interests, and get to a place where you feel okay with uncertainty.
When you feel okay again (i.e. no feelings of desperation, no negative energy, etc.), reflect on your relationship with him.
Is he really the right guy for you or do you have doubts? If you could design your ideal relationship, is what you have with him truly ideal? Do you feel happy most of the time when you think of him or when you’re together?
Or do the times of unhappiness outweigh the moments of happiness? Be honest with yourself as you may find that you may be better off without him.


3. Let him come back to you.
If you believe in your heart that he is the right guy, let him come back to you. Be your best self and respond accordingly.
When he experiences the woman he fell for, this eases the doubts he has and may renew his interest. If he makes the effort, there is more desire for him to work through the issues that originally caused him to distance himself.
If you’re meant to be together, he will make his way back to you and you won’t have to guess how he feels.
Whatever you do, don’t chase him. You should never have to chase, plead with or beg a guy to come back to you. You are worth much more than that. If he doesn’t realize your value on his own, he doesn’t deserve to be with you.
Source: Yourtango


http://theinfong.com/2016/09/ladies-man-seems-losing-interest-3-things-immediately/

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Re: LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by herzern(m): 10:04am On Sep 17, 2016
*still readinq...

MODIFIED

Concludes Readinq....

I'll use this opportuned space derived by me to say;;...


EmperorLee.....fu¢k yhu grin.....
Re: LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by speedyconnect3: 10:06am On Sep 17, 2016
cliche
Re: LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by Gladiator1: 10:06am On Sep 17, 2016
grin
Re: LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by naijaboiy: 10:06am On Sep 17, 2016
So what if it's the other way round? We men should beg and chase you right? So you'll feel important and act anyhow.

It's you girls who always try to act up and test your man to see if he will chase you. I think this same method should be applied in any gender case.

You people should stop making things one-sided. undecided

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Re: LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by naijaboiy: 10:07am On Sep 17, 2016
speedyconnect3:
cliche
Very!
Re: LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by EmperorLee(m): 10:11am On Sep 17, 2016
herzern:
*still readinq...

MODIFIED

Concludes Readinq....

I'll use this opportuned space derived by me to say;;...


Emp erorLee.....fu¢k yhu grin.....



Hahahahaha Phuvk you bruh grin
Re: LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by omonighoblessing(f): 10:24am On Sep 17, 2016
speedyconnect3:
cliche
well a reminder isn't bad.is it
Re: LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by speedyconnect3: 10:26am On Sep 17, 2016
omonighoblessing:
well a reminder isn't bad.is it
its not oo.
How u dear
Re: LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by Mrbigman1(m): 10:29am On Sep 17, 2016
What re u know?

An analyst?

For ur information, dia is no rule to a good relationship. Just follow trend and enjoy.

If u stick to rule and it work for Mr A, mr B dose not come with same orientation as B.

So dnt be the one to blame when ur rules fails for people.
Re: LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by omonighoblessing(f): 11:05am On Sep 17, 2016
speedyconnect3:
its not oo. How u dear
am very well thank you dear.
Re: LADIES: If your man seems to be losing interest in you.. by ucnwafor(m): 2:23pm On Sep 17, 2016
And with all diz points of mine, am here 2 sAy ladies should continue chaSing men always



Thank u



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