kosovo:

sigh, A truly pathetic situation, well i ve had an almost similar situation, and sine then i ve seen most chicks as a completely delusional moronic excuse for a human being. M sorry,
@The seeker, m glad to hear that you were wise enough to have understood the whole situation and have equally have gotten over it, sometimes sh*t happens, and most times the greatest efforts yields no profits.

joxiri:

  @ the seeker, I dont even consider what she is doing as stalking, for some reason, i just think the babe really likes you fair enough she has bad attitude, cos you guys have not spoken face to face about the break up which I think you should do and i think when you do tell her face to face i doubt if she will stalk you anymore (as you call it)
  Your story is a bit complicated sha cos i think you can sort something out if you like the babe if not fashi her, maybe she genuinely likes you more that the guy who knows
and did she demand money from you, cos maybe she sees you as an opportunity to get money as you come across as someone who is well off, correct me if I am wrong

spikedcylinder:

First thing I realised from the original post is that you're finicky (just last night, I was accused of being finicky too ). You get irked by mundane things (something you accused her of) and you seem flippant in the way you treat people and address issues. However, that is no longer an issue since for you, the relationship has ended.

How do you think she'll respond to threats? That is a serious question.

henryhemon:

@The seeker,
I did say there is nothing you can do about it right now,i mean you can stop her from those behaviors,all you need do is keep ignoring her as if she doesn't exist and don't let her bother you. Belief me she will get tired and give up.

izeek:

a year is a long time to be out of a relationship and still want in back.

its either she does really love you, or is a stalker like claimed.

that said, i dont think you gave her enought ime to explain herslf, or u basically expected too much when she did not see it it as that.

either ways, u have moved on like u said, then ignore her and am sure she will tire out.


but bros, why u rush come tell your story, u scared she gonna spill on u soon since u said she on here too?

izeek:

well the cyber world is much smaller than we think it is.

it's not so diff finding out about ppl or things on the net.

your bedroom can be invaded in the cyber world, as long as the person has the right access.

in her case, she seems to be in your face, but u can be rid of her if you want to.

maybe u shud grant her a final audience and tell her its really over as u can't bring urself to love her again.

and after that is she bothers u, well u bera threaten her like spikey said.

tell her u r from naija delta, and u wud arrange her kidnap if she dont backoff.

Ebonyeyes:

I guess you have to have one last conversation with her and tell her that you would probably rather go to hell and have a great time with the devil _{of course you shouldnt use the exact same words} than get back with her

izeek:

well the cyber world is much smaller than we think it is.

it's not so diff finding out about ppl or things on the net.

your bedroom can be invaded in the cyber world, as long as the person has the right access.

in her case, she seems to be in your face, but u can be rid of her if you want to.

maybe u shud grant her a final audience and tell her its really over as u can't bring urself to love her again.

and after that is she bothers u, well u bera threaten her like spikey said.

tell her u r from naija delta, and u wud arrange her kidnap if she dont backoff.

Ebonyeyes:

I guess you have to have one last conversation with her and tell her that you would probably rather go to hell and have a great time with the devil _{of course you shouldnt use the exact same words} than get back with her

izeek:

well the cyber world is much smaller than we think it is.

it's not so diff finding out about ppl or things on the net.

your bedroom can be invaded in the cyber world, as long as the person has the right access.

in her case, she seems to be in your face, but u can be rid of her if you want to.

maybe u shud grant her a final audience and tell her its really over as u can't bring urself to love her again.

and after that is she bothers u, well u bera threaten her like spikey said.

tell her u r from naija delta, and u wud arrange her kidnap if she dont backoff.  

Ebonyeyes:

With the media attention we have been getting, that ought to work .

Secretz:

LOL    . . . . . but maybe, just maybe he should use those exact words . . . . she may understand then.  

ROFL . . . . You just want another NL drama!    

@ TheSeeker, your talking and ignoring doesn't seem to have been working . . .  it's time to take DRASTIC action .  . . .  

TheSeeker:

Why do you think I get furious when these bunch of akatas start bringing up cases of Naija brothers on NL? Those white chaffs are just bloody cheats and are way too bossy -- whatever they do is right as long as you're black, you have to accept their mistake with the right or wrong justification.

Ebonyeyes:

Kind of a colonisation relationship huh?

izeek:

if u have told her on countless occassions that u aint movd by her anymore,
then i guess thats it.

but u shud be old enuf to know that women hates being refused, and will continue to push cos she believes u will break.

its when u seem inaccessible to a lady, she wants to die dia like our yoruba brodas wud say.

just let her be, ignore her as much as u can.

TheSeeker:

You think threatening her will be another solution? I don't think she can be frightened but she does hate being cussed (not that I ever cussed her). Shawtie, by saying 'finicky' how do you mean? Exacting, demanding, picky, choosy, or meticulous? If you mean picky, yes, I am. Demanding? No! I give women their much needed freedom and I don't impose; can you be a bit more specific?

Yea, threatening her might make some sense but don't do it if you don't have some sort of leverage to use against her. Its the only sort of language some people understand.
Getting her to come out and talk face to face will be a mistake too. She'll think you're finally succumbing to her pleas and that won't get either of you anywhere.

Yea, finicky. You're iffy about details, picky, can't stand daft people, o man kanra (I don't know the english translation of that).

kokonets:

@ the seeker
Try ignoring her or better still when next she calls let your babe or a female ansa the call. That wuld get to her that u aint longer hers!!

spikedcylinder:

Yea, threatening her might make some sense but don't do it if you don't have some sort of leverage to use against her. Its the only sort of language some people understand.
Getting her to come out and talk face to face will be a mistake too. She'll think you're finally succumbing to her pleas and that won't get either of you anywhere.

Yea, finicky. You're iffy about details, picky, can't stand daft people, o man kanra (I don't know the english translation of that).

oyinda.:

so what's her username? and when is she coming to this topic?
me i want to see drama.

I was trying to be as brief and as graphic as possible.