OluKayy:


Leave him to be fooling himself. My ex bled a little on the first and shorty was no V at that point.

Seenyo:
Hmmm...be cautious! I've potted non-virgins, yet they bled.

sumborri:
How are u sure the blood wasn't a period thing. These women tell a lot of lies and should never be taken seriously by stories they tell. If you don't like her no more wrt distance. Then leave her early so she can find another man to tell lies to. Cheers

don4real18:
Oga, she was on her menstrual period and seeing that you are a JU guy, she told you a super story

JayJayGee:

You too dey talk shit... Nothing like disvirgin...
And if a girl is being deflowered like is there any particular noise you'll hear...

Be talking rubbish

Miztadynamix:
I will just cut the long story short and make it brief. I went on a business trip to the UK and during my stay I met a nice young Nigerian girl that we really clicked from the very first day we met. Along the line we got so close and all that, then on this particular night the moment really set in and trust me the senerio was just too irresistible that the shit happened then she left to her house.
The next morning I know I woke up feeling really fly after the most romantic moment I have ever had in my entire life lol (maybe because I hardly have time for ladies sha), I noticed some little stains of blood on the sheets and my heart skipped. Later that evening after the whole work stuff, we most deff got to see and then along the line I had to chip in the whole blood stains ish and trust me her response kept me dumbfounded. She opened up to me that she was a virgin and she actually gave me her virginity that night before. Like seriously it really touched me and I asked her why she didn't tell me because if she did there was no way I would have done anything knowing am most deff coming back to Nigeria. Then she said she has only dated one guy while she was in secondary school in Nigeria and she really liked him but he broke up with her before she left for UK just because she refused having sex with him and just wanted their relationship to grow without the idea of sex. Now then she said because of how much it hurt her when they broke up then, she really liked me from day one and we honestly clicked wella, she didn't want to loose me just like her first boyfriend which is why she just allowed us flow to that level without saying a word about it.

I am now back in Nigeria and we seem to be apart but just trying to keep up this whole distance relationship stuff but I am someone that hardly believe these distance relationship do work. Though am single and without any kid as well, I am thinking telling her to move on so that I dont make her feel tied down with a guy she is far away from and not yet sure when we going to meet again except she comes to Nigeria and it's so obvious that's till around December next year when she must have graduated.

Do you guys think it will be a wrong move to let her go?

firstking01:
Lol, fanta will do

luorquay:

Ohh.....since na fanta, give am one crate

Miztadynamix:


Don't be ridiculous like you are a professional in virgin ish. I didn't pick her from the street. And incase you ain't reading and getting it right, I didn't need to just take off a skirt and insert the D. We didn't just f*** but made love, and if you know what that means, would it have been possible to kiss a lady inbetween her legs while she is in her period without knowing and common why will any down to earth lady allow you do that. I can see you roll with girls that you can have sex with without knowing she is on... Do girls move around when they are on without protecting themselves from the mess?

Miztadynamix:


See talk. Comparing the Lady am talking about already shows your reasoning. And if I may ask did yours tell you she was a virgin when she bled? How does your ex bleeding relate to her being honest? Or your trying to advertise how you can still make a non virgin bleed lol... Focus bro

OluKayy:


Funny. You think I'm out here trying to make jest of you? Dude you aren't the only person who's been in this type of situation where you feel trapped in a relationship you never envisage a long-term prospect for. The opinions you seek here are going to come from our experiences. If you like it fine, if you don't ignore.
No one is bragging about his sexual escapades here. However, delete that notion that blood stains imply defloration.
Mine told me she was a V but as a persuasive guy, she caved in one day and although there were little stains, it was an unhindered passage to Canaan and only after did she admit what wasn't. My point is to get it to the back of your brain that these hoes ain't loyal. Stop getting carried away by guilt and use your head to make appropriate decision.
Just a bro looking out for a bro. Peace!!!

Okuchris:
if you never had feelings for her you wouldn't have slept with her which means you both had feelings for each other that was why she allowed you do it.If you truly love her then you will keep the relationship going. I have seen a long distance relationship that has brought two people together as a couple, but if you do not like her, then go ahead with your plans of telling her to move on.
Next time don't don't sleep with someone you do not intend to love

tochez24:
Guy keep that gal oo
Jst try nd make it work cos likely u aint gonna find a gal dat truthful again in ur lifetime definitely nt here in nigerian.nigerian ladies r born lies mayb ur gal grew in uk dats y she s nt rooted in lies like her likes over here
A word s enough for d smart shaaaa


Wetin concern me sef,nah ur pussy joor do wetin u want

OluKayy:


Funny. You think I'm out here trying to make jest of you? Dude you aren't the only person who's been in this type of situation where you feel trapped in a relationship you never envisage a long-term prospect for. The opinions you seek here are going to come from our experiences. If you like it fine, if you don't ignore.
No one is bragging about his sexual escapades here. However, delete that notion that blood stains imply defloration.
Mine told me she was a V but as a persuasive guy, she caved in one day and although there were little stains, it was an unhindered passage to Canaan and only after did she admit what wasn't. My point is to get it to the back of your brain that these hoes ain't loyal. Stop getting carried away by guilt and use your head to make appropriate decision.
Just a bro looking out for a bro. Peace!!!

bdavis:
@OP, if you guys can m m work, I'll do her bridal makeup for free...no jokes

TrapQueen77:





Business as usual I guess...

This is a common mistake of every man on earth... Leading these innocent girls with false hope...obviously u juz want her borehole ..why u didn't tell her the truth from the onset of ur whirlwind love affair?


Now, she aint virgin... She can't stitch tat back and what's the worse part here is u will juz dump her like a tissue paper.. hope she read this..

Badgers14:
Op, hold your 2 ears with your hand and listen

"Good" ladies are scare this days.... If you really have sth for her and you thing both of you are items... Hold on my brother...

Just talk to her about your concerns and you never know.. She might have a better plan on how to handle the long distance relationship...

Just remember, " COMMUNICATION" is key in every relationship..

Good luck my guy..

Cheers

Cc:mynd44, lalasticlala

gypsey:
Girl already found herself another negroe in peckam.
and you are here asking nairalanders for Advice.

Badgers14:


You are welcome my guy... Not trying to blow my trumpet here but i am speaking from experience... I never believed in long distance relationship but after so many trials and fails... I caught one that i couldn't let go and i didn't plan the long distance relationship.... U. S consulate in Lagos did

After her visa interview, her visa was placed on administrative processing with no timeline of completion... It took almost a year to be ratified whatever they felt was the problem so that a year unplanned long distance relationship right there but my guy... That was the best decision i ever made...

Don't forget to invite me for the wedding