All card to be on deck, if the gf doesn't like it she should leave. If there is no trust,just prepare for an unhappy marriage. Like sergeant Voight usually says"tell me d truth so I can cover for u".

prettythicksme:
My past?nope,i cant and i dont want to knw about his past as well.

what if it it comes back haunting at you a day before your wedding when he has no choice that to cancel the wedding have seen one before....it happened in my presence where the best man was having an affair with bride, and the truth bursted out at the eve, d wedding had to be canceled and d lady was pregnant.... so remember Kama is a bastard cus what goes around comes around.

zeus2412:
what if it it comes back haunting at you a day before your wedding when he has no choice that to cancel the wedding have seen one before....it happened in my presence where the best man was having an affair with bride, and the truth bursted out at the eve, d wedding had to be canceled and d lady was pregnant.... so remember Kama is a bastard cus what goes around comes around.

Anyway,i dont have a bad past.

TINALETC3:
Yeah bt make sure u do Dat at d beginning of d relationship, so dat i
f he cnt cope, he shud beta leav on time

So if u tell him/ her at d beginning n he breaks up n u tell anoda person at d beginning n dey break up n so on, hw many pple will nw knw abt ur past?

Dc4life:
The past is the past and should remain in the past,
Don't sweat it or regret it, just move on and forget it.

true talk abeg..... What will talking about it do to the relationship?

sometimes sharing the past helps the future oh.. Like you getting married to a woman / man who enjoyed wild sex /rough sex/ bondage and all... imagine keeping that away from him/her and you didnt know ... you always gave her d daddy and mummy style.. one day he/she go locate one of em ex for that serious fucking..before i marry u i will do my research on you.. both spiritual and physical. I want to know your history.... some girls have been banged by all men in one state only.. some boys are cold blooded rapist/////

Shit, with a past as boring as mine hell I would tell the hell out of it

As a man, There are some secrets that should follow you to the grave.

if any man is in a new relationship, he is a new lover, old things yaf passed away, behold, all things yaf become new...



if you try doing i'm open minded to my spouse on your past poo, you're writing a love letter to divorce.


cus because one day one day will come that fight go fight between 2 of una... and the poo u opened to your spouse shall be used against you....


#IdonTalkMyOwn

Divay22:
I will

midehi2:
sure, more reason he loves me so much

for ur mind

Depends o....don't tell me you were a runs girl but now repented...I will act cool for 2 months and start giving you attitude that u may have only one option which is to quit lolz and if you don't tel me make sure I don't find out as well #Gbam

No do oversabi! Somethings are better left unsaid,dead and buried period!

as for me i cant coz d last time i did dat,my then gf started taking me for a fool and i cant repeat such mistake

deusp:
Bro if she's a Yoruba girl please don't reveal your past to her#she will definitely use it against you in the future..lol

Lmao.. wetin Yoruba gal do you??

Dc4life:
The past is the past and should remain in the past,
Don't sweat it or regret it, just move on and forget it.

To mw there re Some things in the past that will guide and make you understand people better.

marshalcarter:
dats if she's an understandin person ...no need to hide anything but if she's the wanama type...abeg just STFU nd play along cos a little bit of misunderstandin...even CNN go hear am

why should you marry d wanama type

[quote author=jmoore post=52070665]Team virgin, nothing to hide .

sex is not the only things people have as past,some virgins are cultist,murders,sent innocent souls to jail cos of lies,sex is overrated n everything dnt have to revolve around it

The past is recalled to clarify the present well most people have ugly pasts which they don't want to share it's normal but when it has to do with your future spouse you just have to share it as long as he/she is trustworthy and reliable ,cause who knows someone out there might be waiting for the slightest opportunity to ruin your relationship .since it is your past he/she should be able to understand as long as you guys love each other besides,no human is perfect.

dingbang:

what?.....i know you won't tell

Divay22:
what?.....i know you won't tell

tell me urs and i will tell u mine

dingbang:
tell me urs and i will tell u mine

OP said future spouse,SO?

Divay22:
OP said future spouse,SO?

ehen, i came from the future to ask u na.... Se ti gbo

dingbang:
ehen, i came from the future to ask u na.... Se ti gbo

cool...Now do me a favor,pls go back to the future and wait for me.....I'll meet you there

Divay22:
cool...Now do me a favor,pls go back to the future and wait for me.....I'll meet you there

lol

dingbang:
lol

How was your day.....i hope it was fine?

Divay22:
How was your day.....i hope it was fine?

not really, buh it will be tomorrow

jmoore:
Some folks are of the opinion that "what happens in vegas stays in vegas".

A- A woman who has aborted, should she tell her fiance?

B- A man that was a serial rapist, should he tell his fiancee?

C- A man that was a murderer and ritual killer, should he tell his fiancee?

D- A woman that was a prostitute, should she tell her fiance?


If you find any of these ugly past about your partner five years into the marriage, what would be your reaction?

What's ugly about option A?

vanhayor:
why should you marry d wanama type

many re mad but na few don land for street...odas still dey insyd aus

dingbang:
not really, buh it will be tomorrow

alright.

Divay22:
alright.

wah abt urs

dingbang:
wah abt urs

stressful but I thank God