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Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by ezdozit: 2:36am On Jan 10, 2010 |
true say, all in the past now. dumped back in '09!! but points on, gaggi, thanks |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by topup: 3:50am On Jan 10, 2010 |
Hi, I definitely believe you can get over him, you just need to stop thinking about him when considering other guys, you need to go back to the basics and think about what you want in your perfect guy, you haven't really mentioned anyhting about this guy that makes him indispensible (sp?) so I believe you can find another nice guy. Don't lose hope and stop competing with him, if you two don't end up together - which you say is highly likely - then you will both end up with (hopefully) other loving spouses. Who cares if he gets married first, focus on you, maybe worrying about him is what has got you going into your relationships with the wrong mentality anyway. Try doing you from now on, and accept that you will think about him, we all think about people who've made an impact in our lives, it's just he is a bigger deal because you don't want to think about him. |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by ezdozit: 12:45pm On Jan 10, 2010 |
@topup, You are correct. I have made this peace with myself. I have accepted that he'll cross my mind sometimes until he completely goes off. God has been of great comfort. I prayed about it and even when i do think about him, i don't feel like i lost anything. I have found peace. I miss my husband already. I know i'm going to be a blessing to him and can't wait to at least meet him. Whoever he is, he's one lucky man! Thanks you all. |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by mindeh(f): 1:28pm On Jan 10, 2010 |
the question should be how do i get him back |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by ezdozit: 1:38pm On Jan 10, 2010 |
^^^^^^ Its funny but i don't want him anymore, I want a breath of really fresh air, |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by ssumpta(f): 4:31pm On Jan 10, 2010 |
Hi girl. I totally feel ur sitn coz i can say i'm goin thru d exact same thing. wat everyone's said here is true, however, u n i both know it ain't dat simple. In my case, i've diagnosed the guy to be a commitment-phobe. Even afta i relocated to anoda city, thoughts of him kept flowing. Its like ur under a spell rite? Goin out n socialising, shopping, etc helps but only for the few hrs ur'e at it. once u step bck indoors, d cycle continues, But i know its only Time (gave myself 5 months) dat'll do it. n of course, our lovin father upstairs. will admit i made a few mistakes along the way, so i'm living with d sitn. And so shud u, coz u've gotta prepare urself for ur future husband. Hit me up on ssumpta@yahoo.com. in case u wanna talk some more. ciao |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by Princek12(m): 6:12pm On Jan 10, 2010 |
@poster, You need to move on and forget him. If the love was for real, you guys would have sorted your relationship rather than playing the cat and mouse game. I believe your problem is that you were involved with someone with whom you were comfortable, which is understandable, and the reason you think about him is because you have not met someone else to fill the void in your heart. Try to involve yourself with social activities and date so that to your mind will be occupied, for thinking about him all the time may interfere with your quest to find to love. Further, he is probably not thinking about you as much as you think of him, and he may ignore you completely if and when he finds someone he loves. Move on baby girl. |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by ezdozit: 11:50pm On Jan 10, 2010 |
thanks, all true, for me, love is on the way and i can sense it's very near. @ssumpta, thanks, you will do well by just praying that God takes this guy off your mind, Else, ordinarily before the heat really came on, i used to make myself forget him for sometime but just like a spell, he always came back. Now, i'm confident last year's moments were the last time. i have moved on and there is no looking back, not on this matter. |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by coolfaced8(f): 10:16pm On Jan 11, 2010 |
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Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by ezdozit: 5:31pm On Jan 12, 2010 |
^^^^^^^ great poetry!!! all true, taken on board. thanks! |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by coolfaced8(f): 2:58am On Jan 16, 2010 |
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Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by ezdozit: 2:57pm On Jan 29, 2010 |
^^^^^^^ i know. it's true, the grace of God always counts in all processes. |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by Youngpo413: 9:41am On Dec 05, 2014 |
ezdozit:both of you are meant for eachother,but you shouldnt had dumped him in the first place. |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by Youngpo413: 7:20pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
ezdozit:what manner of people do you date?...absurd isn`t it? |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by Youngpo413: 7:32pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
ezdozit:"it just ended" how? you dumped him for another dude but ashamed to admit it...now you want him back...shame on u! |
Re: How Do I Get Rid Of This Ex?! by Youngpo413: 11:58pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
firedancer:you are dickmatized |
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