Benita27:
Sexytemi who broke your heart?.

I just love falling inlove, you know that feeling when you love someone and after having a great conversation with him you keep smiling and people around you are like " why are you smiling?" but you just can't answer.

Love is a good thing, people abuse it these days.

Benita27:
Your first sentence is the truth of the matter.

everything join

Sexytemi:
The word love should be scrapped from dictionary and replaced with deceit, because of the word called love many have perished, many have being hurt and many are now monsters.
I always thought was a beautiful thing, but I can confidently tell you its a scam, never fall in love if you want to avoid nightmares, never fall in love if you want to avoid heartaches, never fall in love if you don't want to be disappointed.
Everyone should just date with no string attached, expect less from your lover and you'd save yourself from pains, never give your all in a relationship for it might end up crushing and demoralizing you, if it was possible go into a relationship with just the sole aim of gaining and not loving.
You see people who are mean to those they are dating and you call them heartless, please don't because they've been hurt and betrayed by love.

Splinz:


You can say that again.

The thing is, people don't know what truly is LOVE. Love is simply outgoing concerns for others- putting others interest above yours.

Now when you love, do not love conditionally, i.e, expecting a return- reciprocation from the loved. For when your love is not return, you're bound to get hurt- heartbroken. So, we should simply love for loving sake.

This is love for me, and I know it's a hard saying to some people.


PS: Where there's betrayals, pains, heartbreaks and puff up; then there's no love there. But love does exist, and we're all products of it.

Benita27:
Lol.
Don't be, it means nothing to me.

Splinz:


You can say that again.

The thing is, people don't know what truly is LOVE. Love is simply outgoing concerns for others- putting others interest above yours.

Now when you love, do not love conditionally, i.e, expecting a return- reciprocation from the loved. For when your love is not return, you're bound to get hurt- heartbroken. So, we should simply love for loving sake.

This is love for me, and I know it's a hard saying to some people.


PS: Where there's betrayals, pains, heartbreaks and puff up; then there's no love there. But love does exist, and we're all products of it.

pennytrate:


♣ • → but the DP is meant for the public, and i know it means alot to them, don't complain when u start receiving random PMS ™ °°

Benita27:
Lol.
PMs are always random, or don't you receive random PMs even as guy?.

There's the dismiss button, complaining isn't my specialty.

→ ok, uhm that ass though ™

BrooklynTheBully:
Your fellow ladies did both their white and traditional wedding this year and some will also be doing the same next year, and you dey here dey yarn say "love is a scam".... My sister, continue OoO...

khiaa:


[s]Getting married isn't a guarantee that you are loved, there do many deceitful people who marry for citizenship, just because they think they should or for money, but there are rare marriages(in your culture) that take place on genuine love, caring, respect, honor, of each other[/s] .

Madame, the last time I checked you have the choice of marrying whomever you think deserves the best of you for this 20th century... So what are you tryna say??

BrooklynTheBully:







Madame, the last time I checked you have the choice of marrying whomever you think deserves the best of you for this 20th century... So what are you tryna say??

khiaa:
lol reread my post.

Nah, you proofread your post and make the necessary corrections instead

Sexytemi:
The word love should be scrapped from dictionary and replaced with deceit, because of the word called love many have perished, many have being hurt and many are now monsters.
I always thought was a beautiful thing, but I can confidently tell you its a scam, never fall in love if you want to avoid nightmares, never fall in love if you want to avoid heartaches, never fall in love if you don't want to be disappointed.
Everyone should just date with no string attached, expect less from your lover and you'd save yourself from pains, never give your all in a relationship for it might end up crushing and demoralizing you, if it was possible go into a relationship with just the sole aim of gaining and not loving.
You see people who are mean to those they are dating and you call them heartless, please don't because they've been hurt and betrayed by love.

BrooklynTheBully:







Nah, you proofread your post and make the necessary corrections instead

khiaa:


I did, that's why I said reread it. Why did you cross out everything that I typed except the part about money?

Lol, I crossed everything out now ... what did you mean??

zicoraads:

My dear, I wonder why you thought it did in the first place. Just enjoy your relationship while it lasts. _Fuck, eat, play, laugh...and when it ends, remember the good moments and wait for the next.

BrooklynTheBully:







Lol, I crossed everything out now ... what did you mean??

Sexytemi:
The word love should be scrapped from dictionary and replaced with deceit, because of the word called love many have perished, many have being hurt and many are now monsters.
I always thought was a beautiful thing, but I can confidently tell you its a scam, never fall in love if you want to avoid nightmares, never fall in love if you want to avoid heartaches, never fall in love if you don't want to be disappointed.
Everyone should just date with no string attached, expect less from your lover and you'd save yourself from pains, never give your all in a relationship for it might end up crushing and demoralizing you, if it was possible go into a relationship with just the sole aim of gaining and not loving.
You see people who are mean to those they are dating and you call them heartless, please don't because they've been hurt and betrayed by love.

Donjazzy12:

Your boyfriend stopped spending on you ba?

Sexytemi:



Must everything be about money, or do you think its every girl that cares about money?, if you know nothing about me dont judge me.

Donjazzy12:

That is usually why most girls of nowadays declare love dead!

Sexytemi:



Well,money wasn't the reason I declared love dead, betrayal, lies, deceit and unfaithfulness was why.

Donjazzy12:


Well you dont have any right to declare love dead just because you have a bad experience.

There is betrayal, lies, deceit and unfaithfulness everywhere not just in loving relationships. Besides, all those vices you mentioned just defines who has them. That is the persons character. It doesn't matter whether he loves or hates someone, he will still cheat, betray or decieve.

There are also a lot of people who do not have such character, fall in love with such people and see the difference.

Sexytemi:



in this age, I think such people are dead.

Donjazzy12:


No. I think your sense of reasoning is dead.

Sexytemi:




Hmm mm, my sense of reasoning dead?, now do you see what I'm talking about..

Sexytemi:



Break heart, I wish it was only that, but the deceit in form of "I love you" is pathetic