How do you feel about a man who is obsessed about his looks? I remember my ex had a lot of creams, perfumes, soaps and I somewhat felt "dirty" when I was with him, as in I didn't take care of myself as much as he did.

I have nothing against handsome men but when they are overly confident it can become disturbing. I the woman should be making shakara, not him.

sucks in bed too

Ahhahahaha. Gosh a lot like that on NL.

They are whack.

I dont get it. What do you mean?

When a man's confident about his looks. . .  Free him!

When a woman's confident about her looks. . .  Free her!

How they are in bed doesn't count

Only those who aint got it whinge about these things

Abeg shakara nor good for man.

michelin89:

Abeg shakara nor good for man.

But e good for woman abi?

whitelexi:

When a man's confident about his looks. . .  Free him!

When a woman's confident about her looks. . .  Free her!

How they are in bed doesn't count
Only those who aint got it whinge about these things

who says it doesnt
it counts and it is very important

michelin89:

Abeg shakara nor good for man.

lol

whitelexi:

But e good for woman abi?

nope

guys who are too confident about their looks ain't that good looking after all, the
most good looking people are the humblest people who act as if they are not even
fine.

Even for woman too much shakara s bad. She is likely an empty vessel. But for a man to even make shakara that sucks. Sounds gay.

michelin89:

Even for woman too much shakara s bad. She is likely an empty vessel. But for a man to even make shakara that sucks. Sounds gay.

It sucks cos u dont like it, free the guy to feel funky with himself abeg. All the double standards wey una dey introduce dey confuse person. . .  today it is if u've got it then flaunt it, tomorrow na "it sucks", haba!!

y me:

who says it doesnt
it counts and it is very important

Its always an added advantage to have both looks and skills, everybody sabi that one.

u wey dey talk, u get skills? u fine??

rokiatu:

guys who are too confident about their looks ain't that good looking after all, the
most good looking people are the humblest people who act as if they are not even
fine.

Its the same with una girls, but thats not always how its percieved.

If the women nor give them so much attention then these guys would not be doing shakara, therefore not allowing them to be too confident about their looks.

y me:

who says it doesnt
it counts and it is very important
lol
nope

I concur!  

Secretz:

If the women nor give them so much attention then these guys would not be doing shakara, therefore not allowing them to be too confident about their looks.


I concur!

u don run concur

its not one-sided, and its not only about words

My guy is exactly like that, he is very good-looking with the most amazing dimples and he knows it, he is so so vain, he takes pictures every second and he has almost 500 pictures on his phone all him and just a few of me, his mummy and siblings.

Double standards? You men brought up the myth of the macho man.

@ vanitty

I am sure he never compliments you.

becomes arrogant and as an end product at least most times gets free ride to pus.yland.
Some girls love 'em when they are arrogant. na lie secretz?

vanitty:

My guy is exactly like that, he is very good-looking with the most amazing dimples and he knows it, he is so so vain, he takes pictures every second and he has almost 500 pictures on his phone all him and just a few of me, his mummy and siblings.

what a turn off try telling him that humility is more hotter.

When a man is too confident about his looks makes him dumb. He only cares about himself alone and he is selfish. He thinks he is the most handsome guy on earth but what he has is a broken mirror. Too confident = Pride.

@ Michellin Nope he never Kidding he does
I am actually used to him by now, when we first started i used to be so annoyed and irritated but now it is just normal, i tell him a lot that his looks will fade then what?

rokiatu, how does humility relates to liking yourself a bit too much

Just cos a guy is confident, u say he's dumb and boring??  Jeezzzz

I think some people here are not so confident about their own looks

I get irritated by guys like that and eventhough I may like them, I end up telling them off and asking them to buzz off. You wan come dey compete with me for shakara?

@ Lexi

My ex had more creams than me! Nor be say he fine oo, but he was always so concerned about his looks. He spends his salaries in shoes and clothes.

Whether u fine or not, thats how u were created. . .  u should find one aspect of u that gives u confidence and stick to it otherwise u will be moody and boring and so conscious of it that u'll even be dumb!

michelin89:

@ Lexi

My ex had more creams than me! Nor be say he fine oo, but he was always so concerned about his looks. He spends his salaries in shoes and clothes.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

thats a different case altogether

Why na? The boy thinks he is the most handsome boy on Earth and even girls who thought he was ugly have changed their minds.

I find that the not so attractive ones are the ones that shout too much about their looks . The goodlooking ones dont need to talk.

jay bee:

becomes arrogant and as an end product at least most times gets free ride to pus.yland.
Some girls love 'em when they are arrogant. na lie secretz?

Yes oooo, there are plenty of girls that like that kain rubbish. I hate arrogant-ness especially when it's derived from thinking they are soo hottt.  

iice:

Too confident about his looks = boring.  That usually takes up the whole conversation, life and beyond.  Same goes for women.

Exactly. Their brains are often empty.  

Ebonyeyes:

I find that the not so attractive ones are the ones that shout too much about their looks . The goodlooking ones dont need to talk.

You are sooo right.

vanitty:

rokiatu, how does humility relates to liking yourself a bit too much

offcourse everyone ought to like themselves but too much leads to arrogance and
arrogance and humility do not get along.

and where in my post did i say he was arrogant?