Whytelyon:




Na their way ma brother. But see, what would you do, be honest? girl don collect money from you go do abortion way another guy fire her the belle? come day warn you on top say make you no ever call her number again? Abi girl don cheat on you before, come your house, pretend like she's begging you, only for you to leave she come back, Jack your door and move with all your properties,gen set, TV, mattress, upto spoon? abi girl way you day date don call boys beat you before? If she hasn't done this, my brother your own still good

That one your guy see na small compared to what I've seen or what my friends have seen. But still we let them be. The greatest thing I do is I let their conscience fight them. They'd get married, thoughts of what they did to you,will never leave them. Sometimes many of them end up with broken homes when they don't do things correctly again.

Just relax, I don't want to go into stories, if I do, you'd shed tears. They are all the same my brother but if you serve God, you let them be. No greater judgement than "I dumped this boy for this my boyfriend,look at him today.. if I had known..."

I let God fight for me,i don't fight for God. Don't take laws into your hands.

Kalatium:

Thanks mehn... Being nice to a girl sucks, I have experience it and it's very terrible

2dice01:
seems you dont get i bro..so you will leave it in God hand
A girl will use the card you sent to her call one guy that is making her crazy begging him while doing i will leave it for God better wise up my guy.

Kalatium:

That's what I'm saying, you can even see that your nice guy attitude prevented you from having a girlfriend, probably because you are afraid or many other reasons stated above. You have a nice guy Syndrome and you really need this therapy.

Whytelyon:


I won't lift a finger. I'd let her go, when I know I stand nothing to loose. That's me.

2dice01:
cool seems maga is in some people dna enjoy

LordZero:
Watch out!!, them white knights are going to derail your thread.

nah they wont nairaland has none

man below is a typical example of 'the nice guy'
He claims himself nice and good 2 women but is clearly the opposite,evident from his statement below

There are many more "Nice guys" like him but few actual nice guys

Whytelyon:


kudos to all of you way day deal with them sha. Na una type we need. But me o, I just let them be. Girls are stupid and cunning, in the end na beg them go day beg.

ILuvGummyBearz:


man below is a typical example of 'the nice guy'
He claims himself nice and good 2 women but is clearly the opposite,evident from his statement below

There are many more "Nice guys" like him but few actual nice guys

Whytelyon:



Since you don't know me in person, I won't talk back at u. take care.

i know enough here is a good place 2 learn about people.

Ok then bye

ILuvGummyBearz:
nah they wont nairaland has none

LordZero:

I see a lot of them around here, as5licking (f) up and down like their lives depend on it..


We know 'em when we see them.

where u see them?? Point me in they direction,please

ILuvGummyBearz:
where u see them?? Point me in they direction,please

ILuvGummyBearz:
i know enough here is a good place 2 learn about people.

Ok then bye

LordZero:


Take a stroll around romance section. .....

i done been here and these gentlemen (yes gentle men ) ,i have not

ILuvGummyBearz:
i done been here and these gentlemen (yes gentle men ) ,i have not

LordZero:

I guess the as5licking you've been receiving here is your form of consolation for chasing that guy that doesn't give 2 fvcks about you. .

hahahaha
Bein respectful and reasoning without bias is not "a*sslicking"

ILuvGummyBearz:
hahahaha
Bein respectful and reasoning without bias is not "a*sslicking"

LordZero:

That's your own rationale for as5licking right? .

I bet when you see your bros as5licking, you just encourage them..



ENOUGH.......I don't wanna derail the OP's thread..

go on an run

ILuvGummyBearz:
go on an run

LordZero:

Madam, I will not let you drag me into your whatever you are doing. . I've been seeing your moniker around a lot and derailing threads seems to be ur specialty. .

Good day..

hehehe that wasnt me

xxxtedyxxx:
True talk op.... Gbayi bro.


Any guy in 2017 who still doesn't understand this concept highlighted by Op is unknowingly lowering his chances of scoring hot babes.

Being overtly nice and failure to show boyfriend potential is the number one reason why many guys get friendzoned.

DonMekino:
op....a nice guy isn't an ass licker....u need to separate the two concepts....with ur write up u hv stereotyped girls....the person dat used recharge card as an example...sbd else can use the same recharge card to land a sweet chick..in as much as I hate ass licking n mumness towards girls....the concept of *nice guys* isn't properly defined and girls can react differently in some situations.....it's not a rock science

my opinion though.... through experiences

note....sm ppl forming John Cena hardcore guys here won't tell u how their bad boyness made dem lose out somewhere.

Whytelyon:


kudos to all of you way day deal with them sha. Na una type we need. But me o, I just let them be. Girls are stupid and cunning , in the end na beg them go day beg.