I fvcking hate introverts

Andrella, I didn't quote you cos I feel most of us(introverts) go through similar things,tho i've never thought about death but i've gone through depressions.
Music has helped alot,that's the only thing that helps me when I am depressed and then I write a lot, I write the things that troubles me and the stroll around until I feel better

you know the problem I have been an introvert... people always think am being proud... the truth is am not.. or we r not... we just find certain tins uninteresting... especially wen too many people are involved..
my siblings call me weird.. but it can be fun being an introvert.. I listen to music all day long sometimes write.

MarshRiley:
Andrella, I didn't quote you cos I feel most of us(introverts) go through similar things,tho i've never thought about death but i've gone through depressions.
Music has helped alot,that's the only thing that helps me when I am depressed and then I write a lot, I write the things that troubles me and the stroll around until I feel better

alright thanks for the advice, though I also write about my troubles.. it doesn't seem to help, but music does help me a little

Andrella51:
i think mine is the worst kind, am an introvert back in university I had 5 female friends only, I rarely go out, and when my friends invite me out, I always look for excuses not to go,
....I write a lot, am a good story teller
....I love my space
....I hate unnecessary attention other girls think am proud
...I hate crowded places and being around people am not comfortable with.
... a lot of thoughts go through my mind positive ones and negative ones and I can be alone at home all day long.

I don't mind, this is just me but...........

I suffer from depression, mine is really bad sometimes I think about my own death. I am currently trying to manage this depression especially the mood swings... is there anyone who has similar feelings ?

how do you cope

5 friends ? Your own beta, i have just two.

Andrella51:


alright thanks for the advice, though I also write about my troubles.. it doesn't seem to help, but music does help me a little

You have a bestfriend?

MarshRiley:
Hello everyone, I just want to know if there are people in my category,especially guys, I am an extreme introvert and everybody is complaining, I don't really have friends and I am ok that way,just that my parents are beginning to complain,they believe I should have outgrown this "quietness". I don't knwo if I should panic...Pls house,is there anything wrong with keeping to myself?

You think you're introverted? Oh boy I'm extreme with extra dose. I didn't say much in school & girls would conclude I'm a proud snob, I like to show off, which put me off even more to isolate myself. People just don't understand that some people just don't like making conversations with strangers. I love being introverted just that I feel forced to develop outgoing, social skills do you don't "stand out" cos when you're quiet & by yourself with your thoughts, people tend to pick on you cos it looks odd to them.

I'm introverted and shy, but thank God I hv grown up and hv overcome my shyness, especially among the opposite sex.
Introverts re gifted, just try and mingle with friends, make an intelligent contributions to a group conversation.
Start dressing smart with confidence.
Walk up to a girl that ur admire and say hi, try to start a conversation with her, even if she turns u down pick up urself and move to next girl next other time.
Itz normal to get rejected at times, it's not a big deal, super cute guys get rejected.
Try to look people in the eyes when making a conversation.
NYSC, also helped me to overcome my shyness, especially when u re serving as a teacher in a school of the opposite sex with whole lots of busty teenage girls high on oestrogen, making a lustful eyes contact with u #Crush.
Don't, be the 1st to look away when the opposite sex gazes at u.

ThinkSmarter:
I'm introverted and shy, but thank God I hv grown up and hv overcomed my shyness, especially among the opposite sex.
Introverts re gifted, just try and mingle with friends, make an intelligent contributions to a group conversation.
Start dressing smart with confidence.
Walk up to a girl that ur admire and say hi, try to start a conversation with her, even if she turns u down pick up urself and move to next girl next other time.
Itz normal to get rejected at times, it's not a big deal, super cute guys get rejected.
Try to look people in the eyes when making a conversation.
NYSC, also helped me to overcome my shyness, especially when u re serving as a teacher in a school of the opposite sex with whole lots of busty teenage girls high on oestrogen, making a lustful eyes contact with u #Crush.
Don't, be the 1st to look away when the opposite sex gazes at u.

Hahaahaha,glad you overcame yours,maybe some of us will be able to breakfree with time

MarshRiley:

Hahaahaha,glad you overcame yours,maybe some of us will be able to breakfree with time

definitely, but being an introvert z not bad but being shy z bad, as I do enjoy solitude than been around crowds for a long period of time.
I am my best friend, I hv friends but been with them for a long time drains me of my energy. So, I do steal out time to be alone. But people around me like me due to my honesty and good sense of humour, this attitude hv also attracted d opposite sex to me.
But don't try be over nice guy, just stay @d middle of the road, be a niceguyBahdguy, that's what ladies like.

Nesso:

I tell you and we are misunderstood 70% of the time by pple with small minds.

this is one of the useless pride, i dont like about you guys. answer me:who told u been an introvert makes u a great thinker? were is the statistic? because i have met many dump, dull and unmotivated introvert...one sure thing about introverts is that, some of them are the most boring and selfish people the world has ever made.although some have made excellent contributions, i dont see how them been introvert makes them superior to extrovert who have also made excellent contributions in their own way.

firstking01:
Introverts?...[s]one of the worst people to make friends with[/s]...well, forget about trying to change cos you can never cheat nature...just seat back and start learning how to love yourself cos that's the greatest love of all

not true

sinaj:
not true

The first statement might not hold true entirely but the later is true....as an introvert, nobody can change you....you must learn to love yourself the way you are cos that's the greatest love of all according to whitney houston.

Dating an introvert while bin one urself is awesome, we wud rather stay with each other than with our friends, we can stay indoors, chatting. Loving up or just lost in tot all day everyday, she was like another part of me, well before her family married her off tho, still pray I get to find a woman like her someday

firstking01:
The first statement might not hold true entirely but the later is true....as an introvert, nobody can change you....you must learn to love yourself the way you are cos that's the greatest love of all according to whitney houston.

was only referring to d sentence I struck

sinaj:
was only referring to d sentence I struck

Not seen you on here lately??

firstking01:
Not seen you on here lately??

being busy lately

sinaj:
being busy lately

It's a norm for young people who are thriving for a greener pasture...done with U.P now i guess?

firstking01:
It's a norm for young people who are thriving for a greener pasture...done with U.P now i guess?

yea m done

sinaj:
yea m done

There's a programme i want you to attend??

firstking01:
There's a programme i want you to attend??

what programme

sinaj:
what programme

You should know Dr stephanie orahe of the hiltop int'l church??

akins56:
5 friends ? Your own beta, i have just two.

lol urs is beta u gat 2

Agat none!

People think m weird, arrogant, nd pompous but it's fine.

M tired of explaining nd apologising for being me.

firstking01:
You should know Dr stephanie orahe of the hiltop int'l church??

I dnt knw her

Andrella51:
i think mine is the worst kind, am an introvert back in university I had 5 female friends only, I rarely go out, and when my friends invite me out, I always look for excuses not to go,
....I write a lot, am a good story teller
....I love my space
....I hate unnecessary attention other girls think am proud
...I hate crowded places and being around people am not comfortable with.
... a lot of thoughts go through my mind positive ones and negative ones and I can be alone at home all day long.

I don't mind, this is just me but...........

I suffer from depression, mine is really bad sometimes I think about my own death. I am currently trying to manage this depression especially the mood swings... is there anyone who has similar feelings ?

how do you cope

Depression? Death? You just spoke my mind. Couple of things that help me deal with that...music and movies...especially comedy series really put me in a good mood.

Vick4rill:
this is one of the useless pride, i dont like about you guys. answer me:who told u been an introvert makes u a great thinker? were is the statistic? because i have met many dump, dull and unmotivated introvert...one sure thing about introverts is that, some of them are the most boring and selfish people the world has ever made.although some have made excellent contributions, i dont see how them been introvert makes them superior to extrovert who have also made excellent contributions in their own way.

Its not pride, its who majority of us(introverts) are. U sound like someone who can't stand introverts because deep down you know there are unique in ways u can't understand.

sinaj:
I dnt knw her

Ok, if you are very observant you'd discover her billboards on strategic positions in ph advertising her programme tagged "lasting love"...the programme will be held at UST convovation aren on the 13th of feb...she's a regular tv series host of h2h, that's heart to heart talk show on silverbird tv...i'm sure you'd come?

Andrella51:
i think mine is the worst kind, am an introvert back in university I had 5 female friends only, I rarely go out, and when my friends invite me out, I always look for excuses not to go,
....I write a lot, am a good story teller
....I love my space
....I hate unnecessary attention other girls think am proud
...I hate crowded places and being around people am not comfortable with.
... a lot of thoughts go through my mind positive ones and negative ones and I can be alone at home all day long.

I don't mind, this is just me but...........

I suffer from depression, mine is really bad sometimes I think about my own death. I am currently trying to manage this depression especially the mood swings... is there anyone who has similar feelings ?

how do you cope

. I feel like u r in my head. I go through these nd more.

Most times my fears plays out nd it drives me crazy!

firstking01:
Ok, if you are very observant you'd discover her billboards on strategic positions in ph advertising her programme tagged "lasting love"...the programme will be held at UST convovation aren on the 13th of feb...she's a regular tv series host of h2h, that's heart to heart talk show on silverbird tv...i'm sure
you'd come?

o! yea I remember her now. I know the h2h show

sinaj:
o! yea I remember her now. I know the h2h show

Try and avail yourself you'd be glad you did.

firstking01:
Try and avail yourself you'd be glad you did.

will try