Believe it or not , sex plays a very important role in any marriage / relationship . Though it has done more harm than good in today's society , But depriving your partner of sex takes a toll on your happiness, closeness, and relationship security, experts say. "Going without sex in a marriage can deliver a hit to your self-esteem, engender guilt, and cause all other problems that could easily be avoided if only you choose to remain intimate with your partner .

Break-ups. Work. Travel. Work travel. There are a lot of reasons your sex life may be stalled. And, like knocking over that first domino, your dry spell in the sack can affect your health in many ways—both good and bad.

Here are 7 things that can happen when you lose that loving feeling:

1. You'll feel more anxious.

Sex helps people blow off steam. People who abstained from sex struggled to cope with stressful situations like public speaking, compared with those who had intercourse at least once over a 2-week period. During sex, the brain releases feel-good chemicals, such as endorphins and oxytocin, which help you feel more at ease . Stop all these and feel the wrath of a sex starved spirit inside your partner .

2. Prostrate cancer men develop in men .

Guys who stop having sex may miss out on the prostate-protecting perks of frequent trysts. A study presented to the American Urological Association found men who got it on all the time enjoyed—along with the sex—a 20% drop in their risk for prostate cancer. One reason? Frequent ejaculations may remove potentially harmful substances from the prostate. So technically , as a lady , refusing your partner sex could kill him which would eventually turn you into a murderer thereby disobeying the fifth commandment which simply states thou shalt not kill . Dont want to be a murderer , give your partner constant sex .

3. Colds and Flu's start kicking in .

Less sex may reduce your exposure to germs. Unfortunately, you’ll also skip the immune-boosting benefits of a weekly roll in the hay. Researchers at Wilkes-Barre University in Pennsylvania found people who had sex once or twice a week enjoyed a 30% boost in immunoglobulin A (IgA), compared with those who had sex seldom or never. IgA is one of the body’s first lines of defense against viruses, the study authors say. Prevention they say is better than cure , why go though all the hassles of curing when you can have regular safe sex with your partner and boost your immune system ??

4. Your risk for a UTI drops.

Nearly 80% of urinary tract infections occur within 24 hours of intercourse. During sex, bacteria in the vagina can end up pushed into the urethra, where it causes an infection. So the bright side—at least for women—when you stop having sex, your risk for the painful peeing condition plummets.

5. Insecurities about your relationship could start creeping in.

Not having sex takes a toll on your happiness, closeness, and relationship security, experts say. "Going without sex in a marriage can deliver a hit to your self-esteem, engender guilt, and decrease levels of oxytocin and other bonding hormones," says Les Parrott, PhD, a psychologist and author of Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts. "It can also increase fears that one of you will look to others for your sexual needs, which can breed a little paranoia." However, Parrott points out this doesn’t mean a sexless couple can’t be happy. "Sex is just one expression of intimacy for couples," he says. Kissing, handholding, and giving compliments or unexpected gifts can help you feel connected with your partner emotionally—even if you’re not spending time connecting physically. This is a personal killer and im sure a lot of you reading this can attest to this point . Some girls are now like their partners sister because they choose to abstain . Continue .

6. Your risk for erectile dysfunction rises.

Use it or lose it: Men who have sex infrequently are twice as likely to experience erectile dysfunction as men who do it once a week or more, according to a study published in the American Journal of Medicine. The study’s authors suggest that, since the penis is a muscle, frequent sex may help preserve potency in a similar way that physical exercise helps maintain strength.

7. You may feel down in the dumps—but not for the reason you think.

Women feel more depressed the longer they go without having sex, reports a study in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior. But it may not be the lack of sex that got them down. (Take our quiz to find out if you're depressed or just bummed out.) The study team found that women whose partners wore condoms felt just as blue. The researchers say some compounds found in semen—including melatonin, serotonin, and oxytocin—may have mood-boosting benefits for women who have unprotected intercourse. Of course, there are plenty of drawbacks to unprotected sex, too.

whywhyogun:
is self masturbation "having sex"?

ayaside:
Bull crap..I have avoided sex for 7 years now and don't have any of these nonsense.Folks be writing stuff using human as Lab rats.I have control over my body and want it that way.F this stats.

TheSlyone2:
7 Things that will happen when you become sex slave

1. High risk of STDs

2. Unwanted Pregnancy

3. Drastic reduction in Sperm quality for male

4. Incessant use of Contraceptive could destroy the womb

5. Erectile dysfunction in males

6. Infantility after series of Abortion and contraception

7. Waste of useful time, energy and Resources

mrkels:


7 years ?

I smell lies .

ayaside:

People have lived all their lives without sex.7 years is nothing compared to that.Some folks have vowed never to have sex again until they get married.If you can't do it.Don't doubt those who do.

lefulefu:

@ 5
you sure its frequent sex that causes erectile dysfunction in men? Was thinking excessive alcohol plays a major role in that.

mrkels:



Number 5 is actually not proven . Infections could lead to that .

it can be corrected though .

lefulefu:

@ 5
you sure its frequent sex that causes erectile dysfunction in men? Was thinking excessive alcohol plays a major role in that.

mrkels:


even the ones that vowed are getting more action than the sexually active guys in town.

If in doubt ask most young girls .

they would tell you .

TheSlyone2:

Actually, your point is valid and I'm not disproving that. Sugary drinks could contribute largely to erectile dysfunction and impotence, no doubt.

Inspite of this, I have every reason to believe that excessive exposure to sexual activities could always contribute largely..

If you have ever watched porn before, you will discover that most of the males find it difficult to get hard on. In fact many times too many, their dicks have to be spurred into action. Some actors, even in the sight of 2-3 p**sy, they still find it difficult to get a hard on

www.covenanteyes.com/2015/02/27/porn-cause-erectile-dysfunction/

However, I have every reason to believe that most of the people who engage in constant sexual Intercourse feels bored with time. They get disinterested because they've seen it all. Nothing appeals to them anymore. The urge get reduced with exposure..

In order to maintain strong penile erection, porn stars have resulted into taking varieties of drugs.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MvmtROYP3Nk

Now, people who doesn't engage in sexual Intercourse always are healthy, agile and functional. In fact, they don't need to be spurred before they get hard on. They've anticipated the moment for a while. So their dicks is more functional erectorially. The only contending issue here is the fact that they may lack experience and may erupt so fast...

ToriBlue:
You draw closer to God, this is for unmarried people .

firstking01:
Few points there are true but still, it's more advantageous to abstain from sex until you are married.

ebukaOtika:



Yeah my Pastor said that today in Church ⛪

lefulefu:

@ 5
you sure its frequent sex that causes erectile dysfunction in men? Was thinking excessive alcohol plays a major role in that.