JSmart4u:


Hmmm...I always take my girlfriend for granted.Seems like I gotta be careful from now on,i won't wanna get into one of her wrong books hehehe

ZoneBslayer:

because 'good people' tend to see the good in 'bad people'..it is their nature to be hopeful, optimistic and forgiving...

Bumbae1:

Oga Marin how body

tmgold007:
TRUSTING HIM....I REALLY REGRETED TRUSTING HIM AND BEEN FAITHFUL TO HIM...AND I REGRETTED GIVING HIM MY FLOWER TO DISFLOWER ON MY BIRTHDAY...

Northmall:


Lmao, you sure have my time young man don't you? Redirect you anger elsewhere, people like you are part of the problem we have in this country. Empty pocket really? It's all good lol

Northmall:


Lmao, you sure have my time young man don't you? Redirect you anger elsewhere, people like you are part of the problem we have in this country. Empty pocket really? It's all good lol

ZarZar:


Guys do that from time to time & it's definitely one of the reasons some women either end the relationship or cheat. Nobody wants to be taken for granted, especially since there's plenty to choose from out there. You'd be surprised at the kind of guys she turns down because of you. Some are probably even 10x better

unclezuma:




You get strength ooo...wallahi

JSmart4u:


You are right. Its just that girls sometimes give alot of problems which causse guys to cheat. How can a girl just give sex once in one or two months,to their guys and expect them not to cheat. We can't turn gay because she refuses intimacy for no apparent reason,not to mention the nagging too.

ZarZar:


Lol @ konji. Sorry but I can't relate. All I know is that I fall in love rarely but when it happens it's genuine for me. I don't play games or waste my time on meaningless things. Other than jealousy, I've never acted out of character because of love. I don't even know how I'd handle myself if I were to find myself in a position where I'm completely irrational over someone. I'd probably check myself into a mental hospital

nandyz:
I pick her up. From ND 1, when the road was tough, her friends were like, how I wish am dating this ur guy... I do her assignments, I gave her tutorial on most of her courses,, I drew her technical drawing, I cloth her, transportation fee even feeding.. The one that peice me off most is bearing her name in exam hall... Nna Check this kind thing na... The day we have a little problem,, what she told me that if I did not do all this thing for her,, some one will do it better that I did... Nna,, I come pack well ooo.. Jus dey observe her.. After some years, she realized that am different but it is too late...

tobianthony:
Sold my ps4 and all my other game CDS to buy an engagement ring .

Sold my big ass screen TV to buy clothes for her for 30k, for introduction .

Broke the engagement via bbm after introduction .

I bought another TV and ps4 but I'm still mourning my stupidity .

But I forgive her ...all the best . I am doing extremely well.

" Money is cold comfort in the absence of love " - Trip Darling - Dirty ,sexy money .

We will look at all these things and just laugh jor

HARDDON:



If u cant relate n wano check urself into a mental health facility cos u cant explain , for once in ur life, the feelings , I make bold to tell u then that u hvnt really luvd.

Havent really let go. Stiff , not willing to soak it in n ride d foggy unknown tide that so many hv crashed from.

@Bolded, if u r capable of jealousy induced by lust, u mos def r capable of luving deeply.

This is why i said : worry less.

He is comin, only him can make u melt.

ZarZar:


LOL! That's strange. I mean the long intervals between sex. The nagging, well it comes with the package. Act right & there won't be none

Northmall:
Omg. What's the problem? Going through this thread and reading most of the comments hurt my eyes. A lot of Nairalanders can't even make correct sentences. Typing with short words has become the new trend or y'all are just lazy?

JSmart4u:


HEHEHE...U said act right??

I remember an ex-girlfriend i had( i broke up with her though),She had the same problem. Not the nagging though. These were the reasons i couldnt take anymore from her before i broke up with her
1. She saw some text messages from girls on my phone,but she never confronted me about it,in other words,she pretended like nothing happened at all.
2.She gave sex probably once in 2 month or so,giving excuses of pregnancy or some sort of religious stuffs
3.She stored numbers of some guys who were hitting on her but never made mention of it to me,unless i heard it from somewhere else. We still taked a few times after the break up,but she always insinuated that she never cheated on me.she said i dumped her because i was tired of her bcuz she didnt give me sex the way i wanted. So in that situation,i dont think i did anything wrong.

ZarZar:



Hmmmm, are you sure the problem is not you here ? Why are they "all" avoiding sex with you? To each their own lol. I don't know what to say.

ZarZar:


We'll see lol. Meanwhile, I'm waiting for the challenge like...

JSmart4u:


Lolzz i never said "all". It was only that ex. I used her as emphasis bcuz she's the only one i got such experience from. If she never behaved as such,i couldn't av broke things off.

HARDDON:


Wow! To d your spectacles about tins. U must hv bn tru alot.

Btw,

This is no challenge..... itz life. Itz bonding , itz magnum living.
The heart was made to share. N d one that shares not truely, withers.

Hotfreeze:


Congrats bro.

You escaped marrying someone who didn't love you and she missed marrying someone who truly loved her.

Ladies at her age choose swag over class. In a decade, she would see you and be hiding in shame.

My ex left me for a guy in Zenith cos I was a student back then. When I got to my final year on school, he lost his job and couldn't get others so quickly. Then, I was preparing to go to Law School.

When I started working, she started calling me and all. She was crying, begging me to forgive her. This was someone who had already done introduction with the other guy. I told her I accepted, we hung out, had sex a couple of times (na my pension) before I told her off.

Now, I show love to my parents and my siblings' kids and I'm so happy. I remember when I called my mom and told her 'Mommy, I love you', she was crying. She thought I was going to die.

My brother, leave those girls o. In 5 years time, she'll know the difference between swag and class.

360command:
I feel your statement but.....

ZarZar:


Guys do that from time to time & it's definitely one of the reasons some women either end the relationship or cheat. Nobody wants to be taken for granted, especially since there's plenty to choose from out there. You'd be surprised at the kind of guys she turns down because of you. Some are probably even 10x better

dadaadec:
I regret fucking my ex....


After fucking her silly many times.

she came one day to ask me dat are we dating?

Bla bla, bla... She say "We just friends" and she go marry anoda man.

Feel like taking my bleeps back coz she ova enjoy am.

I hate myself and hate her 4 dat action..

Toks2008:


And it will blow your mind that it will work out.

Dating and long courtship is for boys and girls who just want to catch fun.

How long will it take me to know if a lady is sexually pleasing to my eyes,a good cook and of course has a character good enough to risk marrying her? It does not take forever.

Just a simple background check in her place of work,house,family circle and among friends will give you a clue.

I wish you the best bro.

davidif:


A better topic would have been What would your Ex say about You? Now I would like to see the responses to that because most people tend to claim things are not there fault so it would be good to hear what the exes think about that.

uzoclinton:
but what?

samuel051:
I don't even do relationship again,my main aim is aiming something bigger,sometimes I thank God for what happened, who knows what will happen when I start sending money back home to her,she may start giving it out to another lazy nig*a while I work my arse away in another country.