prechbills1:


and what is your business if a lady has sex with more than 50people?

are you the owner of her body?

Holymann:

I have no problem with you having 50 sexual partners, but I do have a problem with you telling other girls that "having several sexual partners doesn't make them promiscuous."
That you're loose doesn't mean everyone will be like you..

Safiaa:
LMAO

You're entitled to your opinion, as well as i'm entitled to encourage ladies in what i believe.
Hopefully you'll marry a lady who doesn't divide her body count by 5 and substract by 10.


Wake up, this is 2017 !!

Safiaa:
LMAO

You're entitled to your opinion, as well as i'm entitled to encourage ladies in what i believe.
Hopefully you'll marry a lady who doesn't divide her body count by 5 and substract by 10.


Wake up, this is 2017 !!

EWAagoyin:
proud of bodycount abi.... only a prostitute will have more 2 body count before marriage... as a woman u need to have respect for ur body.... only male dogs sleep around the females don't.... dere is different between a male and a female.... u don't sleep around because u like sex.... u sleep around because u think its right and that's what makes u to be an in-house olosho... stop the rubbish.

juche:
I miss surprised by the comments I be read on this thread. Also the bashing of the Op from guys is incomprehensible. The level of hypocrisy is unbelievable. The op only advised her fellow ladies to honest with their spouses or boyfriends. She didn't anywhere encourage promiscuity or casual sex. So what do we prefer guys? The lies and deceit? Is pathetic how guys easily bash and call ladies names on this forum. Does it give some sense of satisfaction and achievement? Or do some of see it as winning a laurel or trophy?. I think the level of stupidity being exhibited by some guys is beyond human comprehension.

dairykidd:

The greatest bullsh!t i ever heard.. Stop living in denial

Safiaa:
Honestly. You wanna get married to a girl in her mid to late 20s, and she’s been sexually active for 5-10years, you really think her body count is 2 and below loool. Yeah the chances are low.

dairykidd:

Sexually active for 5 - 10 years..Yeah maybe one in 200 for a body count of under 2.5

BossLaifay:
Lolol. 2.5 got me.

DonPiiko:
True, I guess people change and it's the raging hormones from the youths that made them wild. We are too judgemental that's why we haven't progressed, most of the things we condemned in public are things we take delight in doing privately. I don't judge people your past belongs in the past but make a conscious effort to be a better person and change

igetjoyfromthis:
lmao

These ladies are just trying to console themselves after fvcking over a thousand different D I C K S

Miss Safiaa the op, I am sure your own bodycount is over 100

Safiaa:
maybe

daewoorazer:



To show us u mean business, tell us ur body count.... Lest we believe ur own body count is low yet encouraging such

People are afraid of what others will say. Guys are also guilty, ask them of their body count and it's always 2 or 3. What happened to the rest?.

iamdurent:


You had better tell him!!
Before he wastes millions of naira to marry a hoe with wide toto.

P.S - Keep ur perversion to yourself and stop "encouraging" ladies to follow ur path.

Its obvious u lack home training.

Safiaa:
I have absolutely nothing to hide.I don't live in a life full of pretense. I live in my truth and i'm happy with that. My future husband will definitely know the amount of guys I've had sex with. That's what i'm trying to encourage other ladies to do.

Safiaa:
Now, I know that know that not everybody is going to agree with me, but this is strictly my opinion. This is a thread strictly dedicated to the ladies.
If you're a virgin, kudos to you! I applaud you as it takes a lot of self control. However, this thread is not aimed at you.

We all have a past, and as we know most ladies these days are sexual active. A lot of girls are sexual active from the age of 18 +. I don't have time for hypocrisy on this thread, because we all know what happens behind closed doors. We live in a society where women are not allowed to be comfortable sexually. We are shamed for talking about our sex lives and labelled with derogatory names for having more than the average sex partners in our lives. This needs to stop and it starts from us.

The reality is that women enjoy sex just as much as men do. Probably even more. If you like to have sex, make yourself happy and do you! If you have slept with more than 5 men in your life, so what? Now i'm not promoting women to sleep with every tom dick and harry, but stop with the lies! Stop lying to your partners about sleeping with 1 or 2 guys when you know its 6 or 7. Be real and live in your truth. I'd rather someone judge me for my truth than for my lies. Stop with the pretense. If we accept our sexuality more, we could be looking at a positive change. Its okay to like sex, it doesn't make you a hoe! It's okay if you've had more than 1 or 2 sexual partners, doesn't make you promiscuous. STOP TRYING TO FIT IN WHAT SOCIETY WANTS YOU TO BE, BE YOURSELF!!!!

There's someone out there, who will love you for you.