Am just so upset. .any time i visit my boyfriend. he won't even care if am there

always pressing phone .always I don't know if he is addicted to phone


today I called him and told him I'm not feeling fine ..he came didn't even asked what is wrong with me all he did was to sit down and press phone ..the next thing was to get up and say he was going without saying anything to me

I've told him about this phone issue at least when I'm with him, he should at least minimize the use of his phone let's have a conversation ..almost five times he didn't even care about what I told him
and I can't take it anymore,, maybe I should just quite he is not paying attention to me



pls I need an advice on what to do to get my man back I can't take it anymore









Hello guys, thank you so so much for the advice I really appreciate

Dextology

teaser

Divay22

Adeola

Abdulkaybee

And anyone who gave a wonderful advice thank you

my man is back ..it took so much work , without your advice won't have known what to do ...........Am just so happy

Chai, if he is not doing something productive with that phone then you are dating a kid. Anyways talk to him
if it doesn't work show him how sweet it is, when next he is so interested in being with you, give him ur back, and face your phone

Dvicman:
Chai, if he is not doing something productive with that phone then you are dating a kid. Anyways talk to him
if it doesn't work show him how sweet it is, when next he is so interested in being with you, give him ur back, and face your phone

I have talk to him ,,,his not doing anything about it ...OK thanks

Had similar issue sometimes back till the day I realise the significance of communication in relationship. Phone addiction is one of the killer of relationship.
I noticed that the habit was becoming obvious even among friends.

Gradually, I learnt how to be without my phone for days and I also put my phone away from me (either inside my pocket or where I know my hands wouldn't reach).

If he values you, he should learn how to curb or reduce the phone addiction when you guys are together. Communication matters a lot in relationships.

SNOWCREAM:

Back then we thought ladies were only jealous of themselves Now you're jealous of the relationship between your guy and his phone

I don't have a solution or suggestion for you, whatever action you take in the end, let me know

hmmm. I'm not the jealous type but its just too much ..OK

Dextology:
Had similar issue sometimes back till the day I realise the significance of communication in relationship. Phone addiction is one of the killer of relationship.
I noticed that the habit was becoming obvious even among friends.

Gradually, I learnt how to be without my phone for days and I also put my phone away from me (either inside my pocket or where I know my hands wouldn't reach).

If he values you, he should learn how to curb or reduce the phone addiction when you guys are together. Communication matters a lot in relationships.

how I wish he is reading this now

Emm.. The only way out is no way out. Phone sweet die.

Then you do yours.....even add earpiece to it
Laugh so loud even if what you are reading is not too funny When he's around.......
Discuss things he likes with him,just make sure he talks.

Sometimes people don't learn what they are doing to others hurt them so much,Until same thing is done back to them...

Is he introverted?

redbeans:
Emm.. The only way out is no way out. Phone sweet die.

this ain't funny

Divay22:
Then you do yours.....even add earpiece to it
Laugh so loud even if what you are reading is not too funny When he's around.......
Discuss things he likes with him,just make sure he talks.

Sometimes people don't learn what they are doing to others hurt them so much,Until same thing is done back to them...

Is he introverted?

No his not an introvert. I will try that. thanks

adajoe555:




how I wish he is reading this now

Since you said you have talked to him about it, I can give you a simple but sincere solution.

1. When next you are together and he is engrossed with his phone, pick your own phone and form busy too. If he's sensible enough he should be able to detect that there's a problem.

2. Give him space, less contact with him, lesser attention.

FYI: there's someone on the other side of the line keeping him busy, either it's a social network app or a game. Everything he's doing is a sign that the relationship is heading for the rocks. Imagine, he can't even ask the nature of your illness, that's not fair.

Dextology:


Since you said you have talked to him about it, I can give you a simple but sincere solution.

1. When next you are together and he is engrossed with his phone, pick your own phone and form busy too. If he's sensible enough he should be able to detect that there's a problem.

2. Give him space, less contact with him, lesser attention.

FYI: there's someone on the other side of the line keeping him busy, either it's a social network app or a game. Everything he's doing is a sign that the relationship is heading for the rocks. Imagine, he can't even ask the nature of your illness, that's not fair.

he didn't say anything to me


thanks for the advice. I'm getting relieved now

adajoe555:



he didn't say anything to me


thanks for the advice. I'm getting relieved now

You're welcome

Next time he does dat dive on him take d phone, take his shirt ,take his watch ,take his time ,take his shorts n bounce on his flag n ask him if he doesn't fyn u sweet,sexy or doesn't want u (still b drilling ) dnt stop , act weird bring out d freak in u ,its in u.....

Somebody said he's a kid. dts nt true.

repetition is a law of deep and lasting impression....it took him time to get there and it will take him time to unlearn it....so talk to him over and over again....collect d fone from him whenever u are together...make him understanding hw offensive d situation is...

i mean heart to heart talk.....nt d "girl attitude talk"

ehinmowo:
Somebody said he's a kid. dts nt true.

repetition is a law of deep and lasting impression....it took him time to get there and it will take him time to unlearn it....so talk to him over and over again....collect d fone from him whenever u are together...make him understanding hw offensive d situation is...

i mean heart to heart talk.....nt d "girl attitude talk"

OK thanks I will

PrinzCarter:
Next time he does dat dive on him take d phone, take his shirt ,take his watch ,take his time ,take his shorts n bounce on his flag n ask him if he doesn't fyn u sweet,sexy or doesn't want u (still b drilling ) dnt stop , act weird bring out d freak in u ,its in u.....

lol ...ok

He is sure nairalanding...Nairaland can addict somebody i swear.

firstking01:
He is sure nairalanding...Nairaland can addict somebody i swear.

I don't think he is...if he is I hope his reading this

adajoe555:

I don't think he is...if he is I hope his reading this

Believe me he is...Btw, where you based in ph?

firstking01:
Believe me he is...Btw, where you based in ph?

yes ph

firstking01:
Believe me he is...Btw, where you based in ph?

yes Ph

adajoe555:


yes Ph

Where in ph are you

firstking01:
Where in ph are you

lol ..somewhere In ph

Sorry can't advise u........ Because we r indsame group.

adajoe555:
Am just so upset. .any time i visit my boyfriend. he won't even care if am there

always pressing phone .always I don't know if he is addicted to phone


today I called him and told him I'm not feeling fine ..he came didn't even asked what is wrong with me all he did was to sit down and press phone ..the next thing was to get up and say he was going without saying anything to me

I've told him about this phone issue at least when I'm with him, he should at least minimize the use of his phone let's have a conversation ..almost five times he didn't even care about what I told him
and I can't take it anymore,, maybe I should just quite he is not paying attention to me



pls I need an advice on what to do to get my man back I can't take it anymore

Someone said you should collect his phone when next you visit. You will soon find what u are looking for

adajoe555:


lol ...ok

dnt forget to share d testimony

adajoe555:



lol ..somewhere In ph

When I was doing this to my girl, I had concluded that I would never be tempted to marry her, but I needed her just around because I didn't even want a new relationship soon. Anytime she told me of her personal problem, "it serves you right" was what I would say in my mind, and would give fake advice to her.

Then, she would seize my phone and use it to browse my favourite website beside me, while I would be peeping at the screen. I wasn't happy with that but I endured it because at least it's my fav site I was peeping at.

Now I have accepted to marry her after so many serious fights that ought to have separated us. What hated most in her behavior is that she was demanding for too much. And I was giving her whatever she requested for.

He doesn't love you enough..

How can he forget what he came for, and faced his phone.. He didn't ask after your health, press phone, come waka comot..

Chai.. Sis, if he doesn't change such attitude, just know you need a better man.. It's an opinion tho

thank you all for your advice. I will talk to him today ..and see how it goes