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Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Seanjay(m): 4:32pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
ZarZar: Now you just get what am trying to say, The love is now one sided with me been the only person trying to make it work and she been the boss and whenever i stopped calling and stuff she will still come after me, like the last time because of her i had to change my numbers and didnt wished her happy birthday so as to get her upset and mad at me, after a while that she couldnt reach me she came to my house, and have tried to talk to her several time to make a decision, yet she couldnt she kept fluctuating like nepa light i just tire for the girl after 5 to 4yrs of relationship... |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Nobody: 4:39pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Seanjay: Wow, I'm sorry. Move on. That sucks. I'm sure you don't wanna be nobody's 2nd option. If she can't make a snap decision then she's obviously weighing her options. F her! 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by enshi(m): 4:45pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Titilayooni: Gbam!!! This one got to me wella *correct Babe is coming jare* |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Seanjay(m): 4:47pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
ZarZar: Thank you ooo thats why i was surprised when you called me a stalker, am never one and will never be, i just go extreme to make anyone am with happy thats all... But not anymore ooo them don teach me.. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by seangy4konji: 4:49pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
So u really travelled t see her in another state and she intentionally did nt see u and you still call her bae What oath.one rude boy is scattering that office and don't spend on her again. U r a confirmed mumu 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by aamstih: 4:51pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Brother, First and foremost, the oath is inconsequential, you can't be involved in a sexual relationship and you expect the Holy Bible to serve as the referee. The oath only instilled some fear in you inorder for you to keep away from other girls sexually it did not really do much good, self discipline would have done better. On her part, she has been very inconsiderate which is a very big turnoff. Pick her calls, listen to what she has to say (she could be trying to apologise for her earlier overreactions). Personally, if you know that the apartment she wants to get is way out of her income dont assist her, if what you have been saving money for is very important and would add to you think harder about parting with cadh, if when you finally call and all she is saying is 'I' and not condidering why you were saving the cash pls she's not worth the stress. You may not appreciate all the counsel about leaving her for good, we perfectly understand, 'love' has beclouded your objectivity but you would be glad you took the right step 7 months from now. By the way, were you guys planning to get married or just having fun and how old are you guys cos I tend to see some juvenile inclinations (no insult intended) from both party? enshi: 2 Likes |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by aamstih: 4:53pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Brother, First and foremost, the oath is inconsequential, you can't be involved in a sexual relationship and you expect the Holy Bible to serve as the referee. The oath only instilled some fear in you inorder for you to keep away from other girls sexually it did not really do much good, self discipline would have done better. On her part, she has been very inconsiderate which is a very big turnoff. Pick her calls, listen to what she has to say (she could be trying to apologise for her earlier overreactions). Personally, if you know that the apartment she wants to get is way out of her income dont assist her, if what you have been saving money for is very important and would add to you think harder about parting with cadh, if when you finally call and all she is saying is 'I' and not condidering why you were saving the cash pls she's not worth the stress. You may not appreciate all the counsel about leaving her for good, we perfectly understand, 'love' has beclouded your objectivity but you would be glad you took the right step 7 months from now. By the way, were you guys planning to get married or just having fun and how old are you guys cos I tend to see some juvenile inclinations (no insult intended) from both party? Don't put unnecessary stress on yourself she may have found a new love and trying to play a hard ball on you. enshi: |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by enshi(m): 4:55pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
aamstih: She is 23 and i am older by a few years... And yes marrige was the terminus |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Ryocaj(m): 5:13pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Do people still date? with all these Instagram n Snapchat girls everywhere.. no one is loyal again o..na 2 just bleep n gboju o.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Nobody: 5:13pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Seanjay: My apologies about that. I thought you were being sarcastic. Too many annoying people on NL. But now I get that you were being serious & I truly sympathize. It does feel off when people make half-ass attempts, so I get how you must be feeling. Whatever. Their loss. Fresh starts are always better than some people's bs anyway. On to your next adventure if she doesn't wanna meet you halfway. Nobody is irreplaceable. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by OgbeniSamm(m): 5:21pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
enshi: Be a man, she needs to be properly guided and since she's refusing guidance. Let her be. Never let that lady (whose character uv described) teleguide. Stand on ur ground and be a man. About the oath, talk to a man of God to guide u. |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by OgbeniSamm(m): 5:22pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
enshi: Be a man, she needs to be properly guided and since she's refusing guidance. Let her be. Never let that slaymama (whose character uv described) teleguide u. Stand on ur ground and be a man. About the oath, talk to a man of God to guide u. |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Seanjay(m): 5:34pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
ZarZar: Thank you for having this conversation with me, i dont know but i feel so much relieved... You are a wonderful person.. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Nobody: 5:38pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Seanjay: Awww, thank you. Although I should be the last person to give relationship advice lol, but I guess it favours objectivity when you're not the one emotionally involved. All the best. Glad I could help lessen some load 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Nobody: 6:01pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Onnasucs1(m): 6:07pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Lawlahdey:
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Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by 30secs(m): 6:19pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
My brother, wetin you want make we do now? |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Bwaal(m): 6:21pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
enshi: |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Nancy2016: 6:23pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Freewoman: Is he her father? What has she been doing with her money? The guy has been so nice, trying to reason with her. You see why men call women liabilities. So relationships are now a money-making business for women? So the guy's needs are not important too? He has already said the money is earmarked for something, so why should he spend it? 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by sambisa5: 6:52pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
enshi: Do u know if he a male in disguise But you were just too fast in deleting her from everywhere around your life, barring her lines etc,,, u know ladies are rarely able to think straight when they are annoyed or emotional down,,, .. No oath is meaningless and therefore should not be handled carelessly,,,,the Bible is also involved,,,, God is not mocked whatever a man sows he reaps.... .. Ecclesiastics,,, says ''do not let ur mouth put you to sin,,,,,do not make vows and then not fulfil them,,, it has great consequences,,, the end is not always good,,,,cos the power of life and death is in the tongue. I said this becos i already sense fear shaking away from your voice because of the so called oath. .. My advice is that you go back and reconcile with her ,,,, there are so many ways you can resolve this issue without giving her that money,,,, Don't endanger your life,,,, be wise 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by NaWetinDey(m): 6:59pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Pussy oath! smh Don't dare waste that money on something you had not planned. You are obviously her slave, how could you have taken oath with a woman who does not respect your plans, who gives you conditions? Go and ask questions about what to do with your oath abeg. Men easily fail in the oath thing and you know why? 1. the woman can derive a level of happiness from men flirting around her and she can get money from them without having sex. 2. you, on the other hand, cannot be that close with a woman without wanting to penetrate. In fact, a woman can choose not to fall for a man no matter how much he tries but a she can get most men to sleep with her if she is beautiful enough and determined. You have given her a level of freedom to flirt (and maybe without having sex with others) and it will continue killing your heart. Don't dare cheat because you think she does, it could bring you to your knees or worse still. Look for a way to get her to break the oath with you in agreement. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by TinaAnita(f): 7:08pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
What is so important that you can't touch that particular money and yet you claimed you love her? She should just move on with her life and forget about you. You must be stingy! |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Nobody: 7:25pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Pussy made you loose your senses. |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Adeebiwa09(m): 7:44pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
enshi: Good evening sir many people have actually dealt with it I have read through it I just want to make two fresh points before then "I stand with you" I am glad you stood your ground not just with the money but the rules matter (it's just absurd and annoying) I highly commend you. Now to my point 1. The Bible is not an agent for oath taking its just religion (you won't find a proper place where that was done in scriptures) and diabolical (we copied the culture of occults who swears by idols diety and the likes). Bible says let your yes be yes and no be no 2. From comments I think you have been sexually involved with each other why then do you use an Holy entity when you are not doing what it teaches this not only nullifies your oath but makes it a joke but not as much as it made the use of the Bible in this context I admonish you that you do what the Bible teaches and not make it a joke remember the Lord knoweth those who are his (2 tim2:19) do not call him Lord if you won't do what he says God bless you 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Nobody: 8:01pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
yomi007k:Lol @ the Italic! But e be like say dah thing still dey work ooh |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Menscoli(f): 8:46pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
oath...dats serious!!! I think you av not convinced her Enough...you can still try talk to her again...if she doesn' t listen,then let her be.... |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by mira4u: 8:48pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Lol this reminds me of when I was still in school. My bf then wanted blood oath by all means. Today am glad I didn't give in2 his pressure. Op your case is mild. I see no reason why you are bothered if you really want to call it quits. |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by flyforall: 9:18pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
pray to God |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Seanjay(m): 9:50pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
ZarZar: you might thought in yourself that you should be the last people to be given advice about relationship but God just made an angel today to help someone lessen his load in your words, For Today Youve Been An Angel And Much Helpful To Me.... LMAO |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by BBBlaze: 9:52pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
enshi: we dey try put heads together to find a solution to ur problem, u dey anoda side dey call anoda woman SEXY...come dis man, u sure say u take dat oath soooo? |
Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by Nobody: 9:53pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Seanjay: You're so sweet 1 Like
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Re: I Had A Bible Oath With My Babe To Stay Together, Now Things Have Fallen Apart by BBBlaze: 9:56pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
TinaAnita: Tina, tina, tina...how many times i call u sooo? |
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