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QueenSuccubus:



SmellingAnus plz enlighten me with the phrase

QueenSuccubus and SmellingAnus be like...........abeg someone should get me mugabe pic

Ineedinfo:
Lol. who knows? Me too...you totally understood my view on this. This situations only comes out of bad situations.

yea and I am happy I did... Anyway, will miss you...

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Funny the same girls who advocate for this will cry foul when the man adopts a similar ideaology

Lol. No one is supporting unfaithfulness here, u know? We think this advise becomes an option when the partner involved especially men, realizes his woman is in love with him or has invested much in the relationship. If he begins to play the "indifference" card. Says he wants an "open" relationship. The lady here who isn't yet ready to move on because of the fear of heartbreak, could go on "casual" dates, just to prepare herself for the inevitable unless her man decides at this point to work on areas threatening their relationship.
I don't know if you get what I'm trying to say here. I don't think this is about "cheating" a partner. I think this is mostly a defense mechanism.

SmellingAnus:
yea and I am happy I did... Anyway, will miss you...

Lol. Thank you!

Ineedinfo:
Lol. No one is supporting unfaithfulness here, u know? We think this advise becomes an option when the partner involved especially men, realizes his woman is in love with him or has invested much in the relationship. If he begins to play the "indifference" card. Says he wants an "open" relationship. The lady here who isn't yet ready to move on because of the fear of heartbreak, could go on "casual" dates, just to prepare herself for the inevitable unless her man decides at this point to work on areas threatening their relationship.
I don't know if you get what I'm trying to say here. I don't think this is about "cheating" a partner. I think this is mostly a defense mechanism.

The way I see it is Ure either in or you're out.
If your man acts indifferent , leave .
Dont cry about lost investment shìt happens

BUTCHCASSIDY:

The way I see it is Ure either in or you're out.
If your man acts indifferent , leave .
Dont cry about lost investment shìt happens

Lol. That's the best option, I agree. If you are tough. The other approach is also cool to me if one isn't tough enough. People simply choose what works for them. A faint-hearted lady/man might choose the second approach to absorb his/her pains, summons the courage then leaves.

Ineedinfo:
Lol. That's the best option, I agree. If you are tough. The other approach is also cool to me if one isn't tough enough. People simply choose what works for them. A faint-hearted lady/man might choose the second approach to absorb his/her pains, summons the courage then leaves.

Yes o U have to toughen up.
It comes down to what you want
Make it clear what you want from the partnership
If the other partner isnt giving you that then why are you together.. leave. No time dear

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Yes o U have to toughen up.
It comes down to what you want
Make it clear what you want from the partnership
If the other partner isnt giving you that then why are you together.. leave. No time dear

Hmm...so what advise would you give those that accept open relationships? You know people accept such for a reason best known to them. Just because it's frowned upon won't stop it. I feel this euphemistically issued advise if for them and not for those in a "defined" relationship. Just my opinion though...

Ineedinfo:
Hmm...so what advise would you give those that accept open relationships? You know people accept such for a reason best known to them. Just because it's frowned upon won't stop it. I feel this euphemistically issued advise if for them and not for those in a "defined" relationship. Just my opinion though...

I take it by "open relationship" you mean each partner is free to do or see other people shey
If one is in such a relationship and both parties understand that its an open thing then fine no qualms
Problem is after declaring your relationship open, dont come back and start actin jealous or posessive.
Me Im not judgemental O. I understand why peoplle do these things and I believe people should do as they please as long as it doesnt hurt others.

BUTCHCASSIDY:

I take it by "open relationship" you mean each partner is free to do or see other people shey
If one is in such a relationship and both parties understand that its an open thing then fine no qualms
Problem is after declaring your relationship open, dont come back and start actin jealous or posessive.
Me Im not judgemental O. I understand why peoplle do these things and I believe people should do as they please as long as it doesnt hurt others.

Exactly my point too. If one suggested an open relationship and the partner accepted, then jealousy/possessiveness is uncalled for. In such scenario accepting casual dates shouldn't be termed "cheating."

Ineedinfo:
Exactly my point too. If one suggested an open relationship and the partner accepted, then jealousy/possessiveness is uncalled for. In such scenario accepting casual dates shouldn't be termed "cheating."

Absolutely
Thats why I advocate that people should always know where they stand in a relationship. Ask questions, demand answers, make sure everything is clear.

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Absolutely
Thats why I advocate that people should always know where they stand in a relationship. Ask questions, demand answers, make sure everything is clear.

Lol. Same here...I always ask upfront though I've been told it's unladylike and "too forward" for a lady.

Ineedinfo:
Lol. Same here...I always ask upfront though I've been told it's unladylike and "too forward" for a lady.

Dont mind them. Thats what every relationship needs. If people did more of what you just said so many heartaches would be avoided. Times have changed even women have changed in tgeir approach to stuff.

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Dont mind them. Thats what every relationship needs. If people did more of what you just said so many heartaches would be avoided. Times have changed even women have changed in their approach to stuff.

Lol. Abi oo, I believe so too.