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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by juman(m): 5:59pm On Apr 12, 2017
Rather ladies that escape from nigeria to abroad should be determined to survive.

Struggle hard, even should prepare their minds to be able to stand alone without the support of the husband.
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by jaybee3(m): 6:05pm On Apr 12, 2017
erico2k2:

Don't forget we are 60 million only . grin.
Our consumer base is very small . With that in mind I'm sure you can re evaluate your records in this contex
Ie U might manufacture more tyres than the UK it the UK might manufacture more kinds of cars than the US

Your wahala is too much jare

I'm sure you already know you aren't debating with an illiterate

Anyhoo, here is the methodology used for the index

Obviously it doesn't compare absolute figures duhhhh

Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by erico2k2(m): 6:20pm On Apr 12, 2017
jaybee3:


Your wahala is too much jare

I'm sure you already know you aren't debating with an illiterate

Anyhoo, here is the methodology used for the index

Obviously it doesn't compare absolute figures duhhhh
Which wahal nah lie the yanks always think they are better than the brits dem 4get say we be their papa .
The brits manufacture but they outsource ie China .
The battle btw RR and the Jeep is on still grin
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by InvertedHammer: 10:29pm On Apr 12, 2017
ephi123:


Is that because they cannot easily get a loan from the bank leaving them with no option but to pay in full? What exactly is the incentive for them..

1. They are group investors (5 families will come together to buy 1 house)

2. The Chinese and saving money is like 5 and 6 no matter how little. They hoard cash. People call them stingy just as they use the same term for the Jews. Guess what the two groups have in common? Extra load of cash to invest in assets and not wasting funds on depreciable items like a group I will refrain from mentioning to avoid hurting anyone's feelings.

3. They do get near zero interest rates from their banks.

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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by ephi123(f): 10:39pm On Apr 12, 2017
InvertedHammer:


1. They are group investors (5 families will come together to buy 1 house)

2. The Chinese and saving money is like 5 and 6 no matter how little. They hoard cash. People call them stingy just as they use the same term for the Jews. Guess what the two groups have in common? Extra load of cash to invest in assets and not wasting funds on depreciable items like a group I will refrain from mentioning to avoid hurting anyone's feelings.

3. They do get near zero interest rates from their banks.

That makes sense, particularly No 3.

I think the group you are referring to is basically most households in the West, a lot do not save / spend away.
I've always admired the shrewd nature of the Jews, didn't know the Chinese are similar.
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by InvertedHammer: 10:46pm On Apr 12, 2017
ephi123:


That makes sense, particularly No 3.

I think the group you are referring to is basically most households in the West, a lot do not save / spend away.
I've always admired the shrewd nature of the Jews, didn't know the Chinese are similar.

I don't know what city you live in. You see some of those Tour buses, they are loaded with Chinese investors from China scouting for real estate investments in USA. It gets them easy permanent residency too if they invest more than $500k. Sometimes if you listen to the news closely enough, you will hear Americans struggling with downpayments bitching that Chinese investors are outbidding them in real estates deals.

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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by ephi123(f): 10:58pm On Apr 12, 2017
InvertedHammer:


I don't know what city you live in. You see some of those Tour buses, they are loaded with Chinese investors from China scouting for real estate investments in USA. It gets them easy permanent residency too if they invest more than $500k. Sometimes if you listen to the news closely enough, you will hear Americans struggling with downpayments bitching that Chinese investors are outbidding them in real estates deals.

haha, I can imagine.
The permanent residency is definitely a big appeal.

I know China is a rich country to an extent but I'm still amazed how so many citizens are well to do. Quite impressive.
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by InvertedHammer: 11:03pm On Apr 12, 2017
ephi123:


haha, I can imagine.
The permanent residency is definitely a big appeal.

I know China is a rich country to an extent but I'm still amazed how so many citizens are well to do. Quite impressive.

China is very rich not just to an extent. A country that extends credit facilities to US cannot be said to be rich to an extent. Once last year, they passed US as the biggest economy in the world per GDP.

I travelled through Hong Kong, Shenzhen and Guangzhou a few years back. Chinese cities are as mordern as it can get with evidence of a booming economy. My impressions about China changed after that. US does not respect and kowtow to a country for nothing.

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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Apr 12, 2017
InvertedHammer:


1. They are group investors (5 families will come together to buy 1 house)

2. The Chinese and saving money is like 5 and 6 no matter how little. They hoard cash. People call them stingy just as they use the same term for the Jews. Guess what the two groups have in common? Extra load of cash to invest in assets and not wasting funds on depreciable items like a group I will refrain from mentioning to avoid hurting anyone's feelings.

3. They do get near zero interest rates from their banks.
Apart from pissing me off with their driving, the Chinese are very good at managing resources. They come together to buy big houses and buy spacious as well low gas consumption vehicles for their families. 80% of Toyota sienna and Prius hybrid in LA are driven by them.

But when it comes to investment, no one gets close the Jewish.
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by ephi123(f): 11:12pm On Apr 12, 2017
InvertedHammer:


I travelled through Hong Kong, Shenzhen and Guangzhou a few years back. China cities are as mordern as it can get with evidence of a booming economy. My impressions about China changed after that. US does not respect and kowtow to a country for nothing.

No wonder. Nothing beats a country with a resilient economy, it's def one of the reasons they are in a position to call the bluff of the US (when need be). I wonder when Nigeria will achieve just a fraction of that.
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by InvertedHammer: 11:12pm On Apr 12, 2017
SirJeffry:
Apart from pissing me off with their driving, the Chinese are very good at managing resources. They come together to buy big houses and buy spacious as well low gas consumption vehicles for their families. 80% of Toyota sienna and Prius hybrid in LA are driven by them.

But when it comes to investment, no one gets close the Jewish.

You are right. The Jews have one of them (The Rothschild family) owning the whole world already. They rallied around the family for seed money in the olden days.

The Chinese are up there too especially considering how quickly they closed the gap with the West.

Talking about their driving, there are two schools of thought: One group believe that their vision is impaired by the slanting configuration of their eyes. The second group believe that they are too stingy to step on the gas pedal. grin

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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by bameyi(m): 12:54am On Apr 13, 2017
MsNas:

Lmao. Oya please tell me how many immigrants have $45K cash to pay on a car immediately. Lolol. So I won't buy a house because I do not wanna have credit cards? Or I won't marry because I don't have cash to pay for a $400K house? Lol.

Key is to educate yoursel sir. I have never paid one cent on CC interest and I have gotten more than $1K back in cash backs.

Let's address this do I have to drive a $45k car to be comfortable in the US With a Manufacturer's Suggested Retail Price (MSRP) of $23,905, the 2017 Toyota Camry holds its starting price from the previous year. At $24,675, the Camry SE model is also a solid value with more distinctive looks. XLE and the sportier XSE begin at the same price, $27,145.. am comfortable with that.

I live in a $200k house three bed room you wand the detail of that too .. so when we Nigerian try to make things look different let's stop it most Nigeria drives Camry. Which is good enough for me.. woman that refuse to marry me because I don't live a $400k house na her problem be that..

Guys make we stop to dey show too big.. this woman wey we dey show big boy for. Nigerian statics they will arrive here and live your ass after 5 years.

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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Nobody: 1:05am On Apr 13, 2017
bameyi:


Let's address this do I have to drive a $45k car to be comfortable in the US With a Manufacturer's Suggested Retail Price (MSRP) of $23,905, the 2017 Toyota Camry holds its starting price from the previous year. At $24,675, the Camry SE model is also a solid value with more distinctive looks. XLE and the sportier XSE begin at the same price, $27,145.. am comfortable with that.

I live in a $200k house three bed room you wand the detail of that too .. so when we Nigerian try to make things look different let's stop it most Nigeria drives Camry. Which is good enough for me.. woman that refuse to marry me because I don't live a $400k house na her problem be that..

Guys make we stop to dey show too big.. this woman wey we dey show big boy for. Nigerian statics they will arrive here and live your ass after 5 years.
You must live in the East Coast to have bought house at that price.
Even Condos in some part of SoCal aren't sold at that price now.
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by MsNas(f): 3:43am On Apr 13, 2017
bameyi:


Let's address this do I have to drive a $45k car to be comfortable in the US With a Manufacturer's Suggested Retail Price (MSRP) of $23,905, the 2017 Toyota Camry holds its starting price from the previous year. At $24,675, the Camry SE model is also a solid value with more distinctive looks. XLE and the sportier XSE begin at the same price, $27,145.. am comfortable with that.

I live in a $200k house three bed room you wand the detail of that too .. so when we Nigerian try to make things look different let's stop it most Nigeria drives Camry. Which is good enough for me.. woman that refuse to marry me because I don't live a $400k house na her problem be that..

Guys make we stop to dey show too big.. this woman wey we dey show big boy for. Nigerian statics they will arrive here and live your ass after 5 years.

Calm down. Everybody's wants and needs are different. You can get a $200K 3 bedroom house. I can't even get a $200K 2 bedroom in a good part of town in the city where I live. I have a kid, I don't wanna compromise on his education by buying a $200K house in a bad part of town with horrible schools. Or you forgot that kids go to school based on where they live? As per the car thingy, yes... you can buy a Toyota, a Lexus or a BMW...your choice. My grouse with your earlier post was you saying that people can always buy a car with no payment. If I want a $45K car, I can as well get a loan and get one.

As per the bolded part: DO NOT EVEN START! Nobody is showing off here. I work. I work a hell of good job at that, benefits and all included. No man needs to bust his ass to show off for me or cater for me. Even at that, my husband is more than capable of picking my tab. Lastly, I am not intending to leave my husband now or in the nearest future. So please, reserve that comment for your wife or girlfriend. Thanks.

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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by MsNas(f): 3:44am On Apr 13, 2017
SirJeffry:
You must live in the East Coast to have bought house at that price.
Even Condos in some part of SoCal aren't sold at that price now.
You dey mind am? Make I go dey live for ghetto, with bad schools because I wan cut cost. Orisirisi

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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Nobody: 4:15am On Apr 13, 2017
MsNas:

You dey mind am? Make I go dey live for ghetto, with bad schools because I wan cut cost. Orisirisi
Lol. I'll rather spend more to live in a good neighborhood for the sake of my family. Random shooting often happen in low cost areas where Latinos even urinate in streets and shoot people anyhow. Compton and Wilmington in LA area come to mind.
Just like you said, wherever kids grow often determine their future interests. They need to grow where their mates have good dreams not plans to smoke weed and join gangs.

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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by egbabiekperemo1: 4:18am On Apr 13, 2017
MsNas:


Calm down. Everybody's wants and needs are different. You can get a $200K 3 bedroom house. I can't even get a $200K 2 bedroom in a good part of town in the city where I live. I have a kid, I don't wanna compromise on his education by buying a $200K house in a bad part of town with horrible schools. Or you forgot that kids go to school based on where they live? As per the car thingy, yes... you can buy a Toyota, a Lexus or a BMW...your choice. My grouse with your earlier post was you saying that people can always buy a car with no payment. If I want a $45K car, I can as well get a loan and get one.

As per the bolded part: DO NOT EVEN START! Nobody is showing off here. I work. I work a hell of good job at that, benefits and all included. No man needs to bust his ass to show off for me or cater for me. Even at that, my husband is more than capable of picking my tab. Lastly, I am not intending to leave my husband now or in the nearest future. So please, reserve that comment for your wife or girlfriend. Thanks.

Naija people and bragging. .. smh... you look like someone living from hand to mouth. Seriously.

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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by bameyi(m): 4:28am On Apr 13, 2017
MsNas:


Calm down. Everybody's wants and needs are different. You can get a $200K 3 bedroom house. I can't even get a $200K 2 bedroom in a good part of town in the city where I live. I have a kid, I don't wanna compromise on his education by buying a $200K house in a bad part of town with horrible schools. Or you forgot that kids go to school based on where they live? As per the car thingy, yes... you can buy a Toyota, a Lexus or a BMW...your choice. My grouse with your earlier post was you saying that people can always buy a car with no payment. If I want a $45K car, I can as well get a loan and get one.

As per the bolded part: DO NOT EVEN START! Nobody is showing off here. I work. I work a hell of good job at that, benefits and all included. No man needs to bust his ass to show off for me or cater for me. Even at that, my husband is more than capable of picking my tab. Lastly, I am not intending to leave my husband now or in the nearest future. So please, reserve that comment for your wife or girlfriend. Thanks.

MaMa's this trend was started by Sirjeffry how another person post come take concern you..I went and looked at the trend there's no place I quoted you.. so how does SirJeffry wahala come concern you.
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by AngelicBeing: 4:33am On Apr 13, 2017
egbabiekperemo1:


Naija people and bragging. .. smh... you look like someone living from hand to mouth. Seriously.
l am just reading and laughing my ass off, so many posters on here are making sense and while several others are plain ridiculous, l dont want to get into their arguements grin grin
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by bameyi(m): 4:42am On Apr 13, 2017
Empty barrel make the most noise and this is my zip code 9212 1 those of you that can use Google look it up. I don't live in ghetto..
See me on Google Maps! https://maps.app./RHznb325q09cVwzj2..
When Nigerian gives bad advice instead of the to back off they want fight to dead. I just shared my location make the too share their local @MsMa's and @SirJeffry
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Nobody: 5:23am On Apr 13, 2017
bameyi:
Empty barrel make the most noise and this is my zip code 9212 1 those of you that can use Google look it up. I don't live in ghetto..
See me on Google Maps! https://maps.app./RHznb325q09cVwzj2..
When Nigerian gives bad advice instead of the to back off they want fight to dead. I just shared my location make the too share their local @MsMa's and @SirJeffry
Baba, there's no need for this. This was not my intention for opening this thread. I'm sorry if I harmed your ego by saying what I said. I live in Carson 90745 and to be sincere, if I see a 4bedroom of $200k in Carson, Torrance or Gardena, God punish me if I dont put up my current house for sale. Maybe you mistook my saying East Coast for ghetto. By saying that, I meant i thought you bought the house in East Coast states like Arkansas and Oregon where one can buy even new and bigger homes for less unlike SoCal.

Please, once again I apologize bro.
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by MamaOO: 11:31am On Apr 13, 2017
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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by MsNas(f): 11:35am On Apr 13, 2017
bameyi:


MaMa's this trend was started by Sirjeffry how another person post come take concern you..I went and looked at the trend there's no place I quoted you.. so how does SirJeffry wahala come concern you.
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SirJeffry's topic was on a public discussion forum. Mi can quote you or anybody here for that matter. In as much as I don't insult your personality or anything like that. Learn to respond to posts without throwing subtle insults. This is a learned discuss. Have a great day.
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by MsNas(f): 11:37am On Apr 13, 2017
egbabiekperemo1:


Naija people and bragging. .. smh... you look like someone living from hand to mouth. Seriously.
cheesy cheesy NL people will not kill me. Living from hand to mouth? Hahahaha. You wish. Anything else? cheesy cheesy cheesy. I obviously hit a nerve with you? Lmfaooo. Bye. Hehehe
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by MsNas(f): 11:39am On Apr 13, 2017
bameyi:
Empty barrel make the most noise and this is my zip code 9212 1 those of you that can use Google look it up. I don't live in ghetto..
See me on Google Maps! https://maps.app./RHznb325q09cVwzj2..
When Nigerian gives bad advice instead of the to back off they want fight to dead. I just shared my location make the too share their local @MsMa's and @SirJeffry
Hian!!! Now you're taking it personal. Make I dey share my location because say I wan validate myself for NL Lmao, I'll pass. But carry on though. cheesy Where is the bad advise I have? I urge you to go and reread my earlier posts.

Btw: Nobody said you live in a ghetto. I said the houses that cheap in my area (if there's any) is in the bad part of town.AKA: ghetto. Yo might live where houses are cheap. Lmao. So please, calm down for God.
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by adundayo: 3:03pm On Apr 13, 2017
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200k house in atlanta is considered a good neighborhood with good school district.
Pls be specific with your arguments.


quote author=MsNas post=55531281]
Hian!!! Now you're taking it personal. Make I dey share my location because say I wan validate myself for NL Lmao, I'll pass. But carry on though. cheesy Where is the bad advise I have? I urge you to go and reread my earlier posts.

Btw: Nobody said you live in a ghetto. I said the houses that cheap in my area (if there's any) is in the bad part of town.AKA: ghetto. Yo might live where houses are cheap. Lmao. So please, calm down for God. [/quote]
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by MsNas(f): 4:36pm On Apr 13, 2017
adundayo:
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200k house in atlanta is considered a good neighborhood with good school district.
Pls be specific with your arguments.
Please read my earlier posts before jumping on my posts. I clearly stated there that I live in SoCal. Thanks!
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Nobody: 10:33pm On Apr 13, 2017
I really think those questions are very important in addition to yours. It may not determine the success of a relationship but it helps with the surprises. At least, women who care will wake up one day to realise that their better half is an illegal immigrant or has illegal/no means of income. It is important for that woman to-do her due diligence by asking questions and carrying out her investigation. Some women have become stuck abroad because of these marriages (Yeah..I blame them and their stu.pid culture and society) and I can't for the life of me imagine living in a foreign land with such burden.




jaybee3:


Majority of the suggested questions won't necessarily provide valuable insight on the likelihood of them having a successful relationship

How do you even go about verifying the claims if you focus your attention on them?

Yes it's good to find out what he does but the onus is on you to pay attention to his/pattern as words alone don't go far in my books

How does a fancy car being owned/financed turn into a predictive measure used in determining the outcome of a potential union? Any smart person should realise spending habit is usually dictated by age and responsibilities or lack thereof. It's not unusual to see a 21 year old buying an expensive car whilst still living at home since his/her disposable income isn't necessarily dictated by the liabilities.


What's wrong with these sort of questions:

Where do you see yourself in a couple of years
Why didn't your last relationship work
What views do you have with marriage especially around finances
Are you comfortable with empowered women or prefer sit at home bimbos
et al
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by mikolo80: 4:32am On Apr 15, 2017
FelixFelicis:
What is the guarantee that he won't lie to you just to score a pass mark at that moment? Later you'll be crying, he deceived me angry angry
you de mind dem
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by mikolo80: 4:32am On Apr 15, 2017
SirJeffry:
When a woman asks a man these questions, he will flee from her except if he's serious.
learner

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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by mikolo80: 4:34am On Apr 15, 2017
Tazdroid:
And that bobo no fit arrange beta lies for each of these questions??

Hmmm, by the way, all these questions are closely related to materialism. Na only money una dey find? Na gold diggers dey ask these kain yeye questions.
guy Abeg chop knuckle
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by InyinyaAgbaOku(m): 4:10pm On Apr 15, 2017
InvertedHammer:


You are right. The Jews have one of them (The Rothschild family) owing the whole world already. They rallied around the family for seed money in the olden days.

The Chinese are up there too especially considering how quickly they closed the gap with the West.

Talking about their driving, there are two schools of thought: One group believe that their vision is impaired by the slanting configuration of their eyes. The second group believe that they are too stingy to step on the gas pedal. grin

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Please explain the seed money concept and owing the world

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