Well here it is as dry as possible she was only a friend that is married her husband in Iraq. When i first met her she was already having problems with her husband. Quick story on her husband army reservist and law enforcement. He is on his 3rd deployment volunteer for this one she said she told him if he volunteer she is done he went ahead and went. Wait let me finish she says they were having problems already and he still left and she cant do this anymore. Look i know it is wrong i know i was not expecting this but it happen now what do i do she is still married she is still lives in their house. He is coming back soon and I would never make her pick me over her marriage. what should i say its not that I'm scared but she is married and I'm prepared if she dumps me the second he gets back and i will deal with that. Yet i have that thought in the back off my mind what if she is really in love the way she say she is with me I'm in my early 30's divorced once after i got back from Iraq yes so i know what she is going through maybe. Don't reply and tell me its wrong cause i know already but put urself in my shoes and what if you were in love with someone like this what would you do and she tells you she loves you to.

Dude im really struggling to read your post, i couldnt even finish . Are you Nigerian

i totally feel for you. sometimes the feeling is very strong and it's hard to manage.
however, use your brain more than feelings. you should totally back off, you have
no right on her till she divorce, even if she promise to leave her husband, the marriage
bond still exist.

vercetti:

Dude im really struggling to read your post, i couldnt even finish . Are you Nigerian

obviously not he's talking about Iraq and stuff

What exactly do u want us to tell u? Do ur culture permit a woman and two husbands? If so go ahead, if not u could be charged!

There is only one type of love but there are thousand imitations. So ro be sure what you are talking about.

poster good luck

dude, u just dey write the english as e dey come ur brain, as if sey u dey speak am. I salute you ooo.

how can u love a married woman when there are millions of single girls

^^ good question.




@ poster:

her husband is in the military?

Do you need spelled out in the sky the dangers of him finding out you're the one seeing his wife behind his back?

what am I missing here abi na fake story.

what would it profit a man if e die for the love of one woman when he can love thousands of others? i think affairs
with a marriage woman is like signing your death warrant - when she already has a husband - i could be wrong.

I read your story and ended up having migraine!

Why not wait till she's legally divorced before making a move.
She's having problems with her marriage, give her time to sort things out-by staying out of the picture.

Ewu, stay there. U beta read Prov 6 & 7. Im sure ur failed marriage had similar probs & ur yet 2recover from d pains it caused u!

This slowpoke must loving the problem between the woman and her husband. Poster, u are a selfish fool for trying to destroy another's man union. Remember that what goes around comes around. If u pray for someone else marriage to fail so u can take other, another man will do d same to u. U suppose to be giving that woman an advice to work things out with her husband. U divorced doesn't mean u should destroy other people marriage so can go tru divorced in other 4 u to take over. Fcukin asshole.