Happy new year to all our lovely sisters and brothers in the house.

It's me again, Remember my last post about men breaking my heart,
Hum, am being careful this time oh, but at the same time also thinking of how careful i will be in order not to be a fool again,

There is this dark, tall handsome looking dude that i meet on 1st of janaury, am really scared about this thing call love, i don't understand the way he preaches love, am confuse.

Plz my people is it not too early for this guy to demand for a kiss for just 4 and half days old relationship?

I knelt down and pleaded just to have a kiss,
Plz i need advise on how to handle this guy

Just a kiss? I know some guys who want to get down with girls after they say hi . Anyway if you want to kiss him too then just do it but if it goes any further this early then he probably just wants you for that thing only. Good luck babes

yeah Ebony u're right.

Thanks so much at ebony, I think i wud abide with this first, just a kiss , i will give him a trial by kissing him if he goes more than that then i will warn him.

ammamat:

Thanks so much at ebony, I think i wud abide with this first, just a kiss , i will give him a trial by kissing him if he goes more than that then i will warn him.

What if it feels like a kiss from the rose and you could not resist any other move he makes?

Be prepared for any kind of outcome if you are going to be extra cautious.

question,
wats th difference if u do it today or next 6 months?
in the end, two of u have done it

Are you sure he's asking for just a kiss?

What if it feels like a kiss from the rose and you could not resist any other move he makes?

Be prepared for any kind of outcome if you are going to be extra cautious.

@ eyonig

Hum, yeah but the kiss must be in a neutral place, , i can't even be with him in private.

@ kipolli

question,
wats th difference if u do it today or next 6 months?
in the end, two of u have done it

there is different and the difference there is the time ,compare 4 days and six month,
Though in the other hand , there none coz have kiss him,

You wud have said if he want to stay, the time won't determined

@ Ujujoan

Are you sure he's asking for just a kiss?

hum, since am not a mind reader so i can't tell , am yet to see.

If you open your heart, Love opens your mind. Be careful sis.

@poster.
i sorry for u, from kiss there will be a hug from hug to caressing from that to the main thing

U GO SEE FIRE THIS TIME

chelseabmw:

@poster.
i sorry for u, from kiss there will be a hug from hug to caressing from that to the main thing

U GO SEE FIRE THIS TIME

Ujujoan:

Are you sure he's asking for just a kiss?

Ebonyeyes:

Just a kiss? I know some guys who want to get down with girls after they say hi . Anyway if you want to kiss him too then just do it but if it goes any further this early then he probably just wants you for that thing only. Good luck babes

Common, no cause for control, every thing is under alarm Its just a kiss now!Yes, he might decide to kiss your forehead, your chin,your cheek or he might decide to be more humble and go lower by kissing your twin towers, or your , you know and lastly, he might want to use his kini to kiss your kini and while you guys are doing this kissing, make sure you use the appropriate protection!

Word is:be careful, I can smell a hunter on the prowl!

Hello Ammamat, my name is atilla, ive been here since 2006 and i mostly post in money section, autos and romance section.

Can I have a kiss toooo im waiting

atilla:

Hello Ammamat, my name is atilla, ive been here since 2006 and i mostly post in money section, autos and romance section.

Can I have a kiss toooo im waiting

Lol. . guy its too early o!

@ atilla,, if u need kiss i can tell u where to get it,

stay cool

hum, though i tried it yesterday oh , on my way to see him off, guess what happen on the road hum,

From kissing he was telling me stories,

Wht stories pls,i wnt 2 hear it!

Baby girl i kw u want to kiss him too,isn't it ?so since his only asking of that, i see no big deal in it but anything aside that u have to be very careful, go ahead n have fun don't allow your pass mistake to put you in prison girlfriend.

Thanks @ angel P

Yeah just a kiss i did it, , but after then, he don't call has he do before,

but i call him some times, but i don't know if is okay the way i called him sometimes if he dose not call,

i think i should stop calling him,

what do u guys say about that.

Did you ask him why he is not calling you? perhaps he is busy or maybe he isnt feeling you as much and just wanted a night thing with you either way, its not your fault and if its meant to be, it will most definitely be.

Haba madam. . .its barely 48 hours now wetin. . . .he will call oh.

yeah @ Ebony, , when fake people are more than real people hum, i just believe that all is well.

He said i don't send him text, i don't come to his place and i don't allowed him to come inside my room,

Am just living everything in God's hand, though guys has made me to like being a spoil person from first of of this month,

Have started seeing myself doing what i hate so much ( like keeping late, drinking alcohol  which i don't do before) am pleading for his Marcy

This is the right time to determine the kind of relationship you want with the guy,and create boundaries. believe me,you dont want to get taken for granted. If he really has the true love for you,there are other interesting things to do than get personal.go to public places .with time,you will know what he has in mind for you.occasinal hugs and kisses on the lips are o.k for now.
Cheers gal!

Girl a little drinky drinky is ok as long as its not out of control and I agree with HOTCHYK. Define the boundaries.

WOW
on ds section u knw ol wifout even seeing or tryin,

Nywae has he kuld yet?
jus curios

thanks @ hotchy and angelp,

That is really right , atleast lets us remain that way for now,

@ammamat,

seriously, if he does nt call u after the first kiss then u should be on a rocket dat will take you far away from him

besides, there is more to a dude than him being tall & handsome, infact thats d spec of a real player

my sister, put your attention on other things and Mr Right will fall into your hands

and i really hope you do not speak the way you type, if not meself go run oooo, well afta,

Like Ebony mentioned, if you want to kiss him too, then why not, to me it does sound a little class-less, after 4 days of meeting him, and you probably met him at a New year's party right?

Is he even trying to get know anything about you other than the lips on your face?

You should make sure that you have a good idea of the type of guy he is, because one kiss could be a green light for him to think that you and him are on the same wavelength, and maybe his wavelength is telling him that he wants to have intimacy with you.

If you're looking for love, follow your heart, the fact that you're here means, something just isn't making sense with your heart and mind right now.

Approach cautiously.

*Reads more*

From what you've replied to others, I can tell that you know that this guy really wants some sugar from you, but you want love.

He shouldn't really have to ask for a kiss, if both of you understand each other and are on the same wavelength. You sure he understands the kind of relationship you're looking for?

ammamat:

Happy new year to all our lovely sisters and brothers in the house.

It's me again, Remember my last post about men breaking my heart,
Hum, am being careful this time oh, but at the same time also thinking of how careful i will be in order not to be a fool again,

There is this dark, tall handsome looking dude that i meet on 1st of janaury, am really scared about this thing call love, i don't understand the way he preaches love, am confuse.

Plz my people is it not too early for this guy to demand for a kiss for just 4 and half days old relationship?

I knelt down and pleaded just to have a kiss,
Plz i need advise on how to handle this guy

1. You are recovering from a heartbreak
2. You have known him for 7 days
3. You don't understand his way of love

How can you even have a relationship with him?

michelin89:

1. You are recovering from a heartbreak
2. You have known him for 7 days
3. You don't understand his way of love

How can you even have a relationship with him?

exactly, she attracts cheap guys, go through her profile, if i meet a guy even for the first few weeks the dude will be struggling to win my heart over that he wont remember to ask for a kiss, but 4 days? that means he got you quickly the very first min he saw u, look i am not the play hard to get type in those days, but at the same time, no man ever asked for a kiss 4 days after we met, not even my husband

ammamat:

Thanks @ angel P

Yeah just a kiss i did it, , but after then, he don't call has he do before,

but i call him some times, but i don't know if is okay the way i called him sometimes if he dose not call,

i think i should stop calling him,

what do u guys say about that.

u r cheap n u attract cheap guys, sorry its the truth