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Is It Not Too Early by ammamat(f): 2:43pm On Jan 05, 2010
Happy new year to all our lovely sisters and brothers in the house.

It's me again, Remember my last post about men breaking my heart,
Hum, am being careful this time oh, but at the same time also thinking of how careful i will be in order not to be a fool again,

There is this dark, tall handsome looking dude that i meet on 1st of janaury, am really scared about this thing call love, i don't understand the way he preaches love, am confuse.

Plz my people is it not too early for this guy to demand for a kiss for just 4 and half days old relationship?

I knelt down and pleaded just to have a kiss,
Plz i need advise on how to handle this guy
Re: Is It Not Too Early by Nobody: 2:46pm On Jan 05, 2010
Just a kiss? I know some guys who want to get down with girls after they say hi grin. Anyway if you want to kiss him too then just do it but if it goes any further this early then he probably just wants you for that thing only. Good luck babes smiley
Re: Is It Not Too Early by Abbeycity4(f): 2:48pm On Jan 05, 2010
yeah Ebony u're right.
Re: Is It Not Too Early by ammamat(f): 2:59pm On Jan 05, 2010
Thanks so much at ebony, I think i wud abide with this first, just a kiss , i will give him a trial by kissing him if he goes more than that then i will warn him.
Re: Is It Not Too Early by eyoniggar(m): 3:15pm On Jan 05, 2010
ammamat:

Thanks so much at ebony, I think i wud abide with this first, just a kiss , i will give him a trial by kissing him if he goes more than that then i will warn him.


What if it feels like a kiss from the rose and you could not resist any other move he makes?

Be prepared for any kind of outcome if you are going to be extra cautious.
Re: Is It Not Too Early by kpolli(m): 3:20pm On Jan 05, 2010
question,
wats th difference if u do it today or next 6 months?
in the end, two of u have done it
Re: Is It Not Too Early by Nobody: 3:23pm On Jan 05, 2010
Are you sure he's asking for just a kiss? wink wink cheesy
Re: Is It Not Too Early by ammamat(f): 4:31pm On Jan 05, 2010
What if it feels like a kiss from the rose and you could not resist any other move he makes?

Be prepared for any kind of outcome if you are going to be extra cautious.
@ eyonig

Hum, yeah but the kiss must be in a neutral place, , i can't even be with him in private.
Re: Is It Not Too Early by ammamat(f): 4:36pm On Jan 05, 2010
@ kipolli
question,
wats th difference if u do it today or next 6 months?
in the end, two of u have done it


there is different and the difference there is the time ,compare 4 days and six month,
Though in the other hand , there none coz have kiss him,

You wud have said if he want to stay, the time won't determined
Re: Is It Not Too Early by ammamat(f): 4:38pm On Jan 05, 2010
@ Ujujoan

Are you sure he's asking for just a kiss?

hum, since am not a mind reader so i can't tell , am yet to see.
Re: Is It Not Too Early by infobut(m): 5:12pm On Jan 05, 2010
If you open your heart, Love opens your mind. Be careful sis. wink
Re: Is It Not Too Early by chelseabmw(m): 6:42pm On Jan 05, 2010
@poster.
i sorry for u, from kiss there will be a hug from hug to caressing from that to the main thing

U GO SEE FIRE THIS TIME
Re: Is It Not Too Early by santanovva(m): 10:31am On Jan 06, 2010
chelseabmw:

@poster.
i sorry for u, from kiss there will be a hug from hug to caressing from that to the main thing

U GO SEE FIRE THIS TIME

Ujujoan:

Are you sure he's asking for just a kiss? wink wink cheesy

Ebonyeyes:

Just a kiss? I know some guys who want to get down with girls after they say hi grin. Anyway if you want to kiss him too then just do it but if it goes any further this early then he probably just wants you for that thing only. Good luck babes smiley

Common, no cause for control, every thing is under alarm Its just a kiss now!Yes, he might decide to kiss your forehead, your chin,your cheek or he might decide to be more humble and go lower by kissing your twin towers, or your , you know and lastly, he might want to use his kini to kiss your kini and while you guys are doing this kissing, make sure you use the appropriate protection! grin grin

Word is:be careful, I can smell a hunter on the prowl! angry
Re: Is It Not Too Early by atilla(m): 12:22pm On Jan 06, 2010
Hello Ammamat, my name is atilla, ive been here since 2006 and i mostly post in money section, autos and romance section.

Can I have a kiss toooo im waiting
Re: Is It Not Too Early by kokonets(m): 2:30pm On Jan 06, 2010
atilla:

Hello Ammamat, my name is atilla, ive been here since 2006 and i mostly post in money section, autos and romance section.

Can I have a kiss toooo im waiting



Lol. . guy its too early o!
Re: Is It Not Too Early by ammamat(f): 4:04pm On Jan 06, 2010
@ atilla,, if u need kiss i can tell u where to get it,

stay cool

hum, though i tried it yesterday oh , on my way to see him off, guess what happen on the road hum,

From kissing he was telling me stories,
Re: Is It Not Too Early by temi4rea(f): 4:53pm On Jan 06, 2010
Wht stories pls,i wnt 2 hear it!
Re: Is It Not Too Early by AngelP1: 7:41pm On Jan 06, 2010
Baby girl i kw u want to kiss him too,isn't it ?so since his only asking of that, i see no big deal in it but anything aside that u have to be very careful, go ahead n have fun don't allow your pass mistake to put you in prison girlfriend.
Re: Is It Not Too Early by ammamat(f): 3:15pm On Jan 07, 2010
Thanks @ angel P

Yeah just a kiss i did it, , but after then, he don't call has he do before,

but i call him some times, but i don't know if is okay the way i called him sometimes if he dose not call,

i think i should stop calling him,

what do u guys say about that.
Re: Is It Not Too Early by Nobody: 3:22pm On Jan 07, 2010
Did you ask him why he is not calling you? perhaps he is busy or maybe he isnt feeling you as much and just wanted a night thing with you either way, its not your fault and if its meant to be, it will most definitely be. smiley
Re: Is It Not Too Early by Nautillus(m): 3:27pm On Jan 07, 2010
Haba madam. . .its barely 48 hours now wetin. . . .he will call oh.
Re: Is It Not Too Early by ammamat(f): 3:38pm On Jan 07, 2010
yeah @ Ebony, , when fake people are more than real people hum, i just believe that all is well.

He said i don't send him text, i don't come to his place and i don't allowed him to come inside my room,

Am just living everything in God's hand, though guys has made me to like being a spoil person from first of of this month,

Have started seeing myself doing what i hate so much ( like keeping late, drinking alcohol  which i don't do before) am pleading for his Marcy
Re: Is It Not Too Early by Hotchyk(f): 3:51pm On Jan 07, 2010
This is the right time to determine the kind of relationship you want with the guy,and create boundaries. believe me,you dont want to get taken for granted. If he really has the true love for you,there are other interesting things to do than get personal.go to public places .with time,you will know what he has in mind for you.occasinal hugs and kisses on the lips are o.k for now.
Cheers gal!
Re: Is It Not Too Early by Nobody: 3:52pm On Jan 07, 2010
Girl a little drinky drinky is ok as long as its not out of control smiley and I agree with HOTCHYK. Define the boundaries.
Re: Is It Not Too Early by Abbeycity4(f): 3:56pm On Jan 07, 2010
**breath deep**
Re: Is It Not Too Early by baybbootz(f): 3:57pm On Jan 07, 2010
WOW
on ds section u knw ol wifout even seeing or tryin,

Nywae has he kuld yet?
jus curios smiley
Re: Is It Not Too Early by ammamat(f): 4:01pm On Jan 07, 2010
thanks @ hotchy and angelp,

That is really right , atleast lets us remain that way for now,
Re: Is It Not Too Early by Tmoni(m): 11:54pm On Jan 07, 2010
@ammamat,

seriously, if he does nt call u after the first kiss then u should be on a rocket dat will take you far away from him

besides, there is more to a dude than him being tall & handsome, infact thats d spec of a real player

my sister, put your attention on other things and Mr Right will fall into your hands

and i really hope you do not speak the way you type, if not meself go run oooo, well afta,
Re: Is It Not Too Early by topup: 3:32am On Jan 08, 2010
Like Ebony mentioned, if you want to kiss him too, then why not, to me it does sound a little class-less, after 4 days of meeting him, and you probably met him at a New year's party right?

Is he even trying to get know anything about you other than the lips on your face?

You should make sure that you have a good idea of the type of guy he is, because one kiss could be a green light for him to think that you and him are on the same wavelength, and maybe his wavelength is telling him that he wants to have intimacy with you.

If you're looking for love, follow your heart, the fact that you're here means, something just isn't making sense with your heart and mind right now.

Approach cautiously.

*Reads more*

From what you've replied to others, I can tell that you know that this guy really wants some sugar from you, but you want love.

He shouldn't really have to ask for a kiss, if both of you understand each other and are on the same wavelength. You sure he understands the kind of relationship you're looking for?
Re: Is It Not Too Early by Nobody: 3:47am On Jan 08, 2010
ammamat:

Happy new year to all our lovely sisters and brothers in the house.

It's me again, Remember my last post about men breaking my heart,
Hum, am being careful this time oh, but at the same time also thinking of how careful i will be in order not to be a fool again,

There is this dark, tall handsome looking dude that i meet on 1st of janaury, am really scared about this thing call love, i don't understand the way he preaches love, am confuse.

Plz my people is it not too early for this guy to demand for a kiss for just 4 and half days old relationship?

I knelt down and pleaded just to have a kiss,
Plz i need advise on how to handle this guy

1. You are recovering from a heartbreak
2. You have known him for 7 days
3. You don't understand his way of love

How can you even have a relationship with him?
Re: Is It Not Too Early by amebono1: 3:56am On Jan 08, 2010
michelin89:

1. You are recovering from a heartbreak
2. You have known him for 7 days
3. You don't understand his way of love

How can you even have a relationship with him?

exactly, she attracts cheap guys, go through her profile, if i meet a guy even for the first few weeks the dude will be struggling to win my heart over that he wont remember to ask for a kiss, but 4 days? that means he got you quickly the very first min he saw u, look i am not the play hard to get type in those days, but at the same time, no man ever asked for a kiss 4 days after we met, not even my husband
Re: Is It Not Too Early by amebono1: 4:01am On Jan 08, 2010
ammamat:

Thanks @ angel P

Yeah just a kiss i did it, , but after then, he don't call has he do before,

but i call him some times, but i don't know if is okay the way i called him sometimes if he dose not call,

i think i should stop calling him,

what do u guys say about that.

u r cheap n u attract cheap guys, sorry its the truth

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