Rukkydelta:

No

That's not true. And stop lying to me!

moonloved:
I concur

I couldn't help but comment on this....
Don't let people on this forum bully you into going back to your vomit. If cheating is a tie breaker for you, pls don't go back to that guy! The most he will do is make his ways more discrete probably up until marriage

What happens when you are married and he starts flaunting his cheating ways to your face? What will you do? If you come back here by then, it is still these set of people that told you to hold on that would ask you if you didn't see the signs while courting


Most of the men telling you to forgive would send their girlfriend's away for the same offence. Don't believe that bullcrap about all men cheating and what not....
I can prolly type more but I hope you make the right choice

7footre:


I couldn't help but comment on this....
Don't let people on this forum bully you into going back to your vomit. If cheating is a tie breaker for you, pls don't go back to that guy! The most he will do is make his ways more discrete probably up until marriage

What happens when you are married and he starts flaunting his cheating ways to your face? What will you do? If you come back here by then, it is still these set of people that told you to hold on that would ask you if you didn't see the signs while courting


Most of the men telling you to forgive would send their girlfriend's away for the same offence. Don't believe that bullcrap about all men cheating and what not....
I can prolly type more but I hope you make the right choice

my thoughts

Lady Believe It Or Not Only Abt 5% Of Men Barely Cheat,if U Leave What Makes U Think The Nxt Guy Wont Coz He Act All Saint,u Only Acting Up Coz U Saw Not Lik U Caught,a Guy Can Cheat On U And Stil U Wouldnt Knw If He Chooses,my Girl Did Such Yearz Back I Was Angry And All For Months But Stil Forgave Her,theres Always A 1st Time,after That Ur Decisions Can Count.

moonloved:
Hi Nairalanders,
It happened today, was supposed to visit my fiance today but i decided not to go. I was surprised he only called me once today which is very unusual of him. I felt something is wrong so i decided to visit him without calling to know if he is around or not.
Getting to his house i met him with another girl drinking wine together. Guess what i did? I greeted the lady, opened d fridge took a bottle of wine served myself, changed d Tv channel to a music station. D girl was not comfortable again and she decided to leave.
My fiance has been begging that d lady is just a friend to him and i asked him this question "if she is just a friend why didn't u introduce her to me?
Told him am no longer comfortable with him, he is pleading i shouldn't leave him now he is calling my friends to beg me but have already made up my mind to keep to myself.

Go in peace, your guy will have another girlfriend soon.