We should be, especially considering the sex filled society of today, too many unmarried virgins running around

Yes if you can show me one

pureminded:

I Hate virgins!

That is not a surprise. You hate them because you can never be one anymore and neither
can you find one that will agree to be deflowered by you
Keep on hating. It's your call.

4 a gal 2 stil be a virgin in dis 21st century and she's in her 20's den she's got a whole lotta self control especially if she's fine.cos dis days virgins seem 2 be extinct

Any man that doesnt respect a woman who kept her sexuality till wedding day despite pressure from other men needs help!

Yes oh.I Respect them.all girls get toto but them own has got a value tag.4me,can never in dis life marry tokunbor(2nd hand chick) when men don dig,cement&paint sef 2 give them label.make them vargin shift jor.no mata who a girl is as far she not a virgin,i go dead on my feeling.that mine.

Good to know V's re still respected.

Some pple like to down play Virginity by saying it doesn't guarantee a happy marriage.
But they 've forgotten that it takes a lot of self-control, will-power, determination, focus, and in some cases, spiritual strength to resist sex.
And these are all good qualities in a person.

Yes,they'r respectd. Bt am scared of something.it pains me wen i knw dat i'l giv it out 1day 2a man dat has slept wit alot of ladies,while am keepin it 4him. Wat if am keepin it 4a man who'l giv me std or aids after wedlock? It hapens nd cn't stp tinkin abt it.

amaka, looks like your in a bad mood

i see. and your writing in pink too. i get your drift

Its not like they are conderming those who aint virgins but rather trying to say that virtue is still valuable.I have read a lot from nairaland and at a certain stage was scared that being one was like a crime especially when the guys say they want experienced ladies and wont settle for a virgin.Believe me really scary that what you had tot all along was priceless wasnt the rave anymore to the guys that mattered. I will be 27 soon,with a degree, pretty , still a virgin and waiting for the right time.[b][/b]

Virgin or not?

Who cares? Is the love that matters!

why's this all about girls!? Guys are also virgins, not so?

islet:

Its not like they are conderming those who aint virgins but rather trying to say that virtue is still valuable.I have read a lot from nairaland and at a certain stage was scared that being one was like a crime especially when the guys say they want experienced ladies and wont settle for a virgin.Believe me really scary that what you had tot all along was priceless wasnt the rave anymore to the guys that mattered. I will be 27 soon,with a degree, pretty , still a virgin and waiting for the right time.[b][/b]

I'm not surprised

islet:

Its not like they are conderming those who aint virgins but rather trying to say that virtue is still valuable.I have read a lot from nairaland and at a certain stage was scared that being one was like a crime especially when the guys say they want experienced ladies and wont settle for a virgin.Believe me really scary that what you had tot all along was priceless wasnt the rave anymore to the guys that mattered. I will be 27 soon,with a degree, pretty , still a virgin and waiting for the right time.[b][/b]

. . . actually you are not waiting for the right guy, you are waiting for me, me. . . . u forgot?

islet are u a virgin , ? why do ppl try to praise d virgins in a bid to nail the non-virgins, marriage shudnt be based on dat as whn 4 those self centred men am not sayin i will get married to a woman wit a pit hole lol
but serious they are both respected , but also well virgins are respected i did love to disvirginn a gal this i vnt dne b4 lol
ehn islet edo pikin werin dey wc h way na make we relate

I respect Virgins and people who decide to wait for marriage before s ex in the true meaning.

But it makes no sense for a so called virgin to be performing fell atio on the regular, that I dont have revernce for.

If you're doing because you want to respect your body, then do so in ALL sense of the word, but if you're doing it for a "title" while still doing other things sexually . .  . then you are no better than non-virgins.

Means you are just human

islet,
looks like we are two of a kind. I think we share a lot in common as i'm also
waiting for mrs right. lets hook up together and discuss more about it

come on people! there's certainly nothing fan.tastic in being a virgin, and virgins shouldn't make attempts to annouce their intimacy status so they can get advances. . . .islet, r u placing an ad. . .?

sauer:

come on people! there's certainly nothing fan.tastic in being a virgin, and virgins shouldn't make attempts to annouce their intimacy status so they can get advances. . . .islet, r u placing an ad. . .?

My Exact thots

George_D:

islet,
looks like we are two of a kind. I think we share a lot in common as i'm also
waiting for mrs right. lets hook up together and discuss more about it

LWKMD

George_D:

islet,
looks like we are two of a kind. I think we share a lot in common as i'm also
waiting for mrs right. lets hook up together and discuss more about it

       

@ topic,
it depends on the people & culture discussed.

nich and preggy please leave me and islet alone oooo! since you guys don't appreciate us
leave us to do the appreciation ourselves!

female virgins should be respected, i've seen some cases of husbands calling their wives families after marriage for more celebration after discovering that their new wives are virgins. I don't understand why women can't just keep their body together for their husband to-be. It's a shame!

Why can't they find true love? Are they not humans?

Contrary 2 what u guys think,i aint for the life of me begging for attention. I can get it whereever and whenever i please. Most times i browse through this forum without commenting but at rare times like this you just feel akin and want to comment.You want to know and let others know they aint alien.After some tot i guess i shouldnt have added my pics cos seriously i aint an attention seeker.But shit happens.But that doesnt change the facts,does it?So pls ignore my pix if u will cos what has been done cant be undone.

^
Your post is the kind that could close this topic. I understand you. I think. I know. Youre the type I like to make friends with - before. Cos after, when you see the other side you somehow see things differently, but then we'd have established a good basis for friendship which we'd both easily maintain.

Well I'd say, dont lower your ideals for any if its not gona be worth it, cos its not worth it. HE has made a one for that purpose and you should just be patient enough to let HIM show you. YOU GO TIRE!

Keep it up!

@ poster , they r still respected o big time , as a matter of fact if marry my wife a virgin i ll surely WORSHIP her . lol

Rooneyboy:

@ poster , they r still respected o big time , as a matter of fact if marry my wife a virgin i ll surely WORSHIP her . lol

if i hear that one more time im gonna scream!!! cause all your insecurities will be out the window?
the only people that have the right to say such must be virgins themselves, if not, it will be very hypocritical.

the amaka, that's exactly why islet and myself want to hook up
because we understand each other better.