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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by slinkman(m): 5:09pm On May 05, 2017 |
Honest advice bro, even if the baby is yours you can still be a baby daddy without marrying their daughter, the silly parents can't use police for anything, you didn't rape their daughter , you both had sex and even if you got her pregnant it's no crime , they can't do anything . Just inform your lawyer. Now patiently wait for her to give birth , then go for a DNA test, if the baby is yours , you can take care of your child without marrying the cheating mom. You can have other relationships and meet better girls, if the child isn't yours after the test , kick them both out of your life .. be careful not to get too attached to her and her pregnancy now because it might be too hard to let them go after that test . Make up your mind that you want nothing with her and that baby until after that test. But don't show it. Be a man and handle it within yourself . Best of luck |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by BaresiJnr: 5:09pm On May 05, 2017 |
First, Let me guess...you met this lady at a club? You showed her love and care and you believed you have her won her over.......now you are in this dilema and don't know what to do right? First, like other commentators, opt for DNA test when the child is delivered......secondly, even if the child is yours, you clearly cannot trust the lady and i dont think she is ready to change......like her character depicts.....what you should do peradventure the child is yours is this, go to a counsel, seek advice on how not to marry the young lady but with option of being willing to take responsibility for the child (single parent) things, if that doesn't work, get a court order that if she ever steps into a club or behaves in a way that endagers the future of your child (if it is yours oooo.....i doubt) that she will forfeit the child to you......what i am driving at is this.....you cannot marry her because there is no trust.......if the child is yours, u cannot abandon your responsibility.......but inorder to take responsibility for your child, their is a possibility you will be drained financially, hence the court action....... another style is this, find a correct street girl, pay her some quid to act pregnant and become commander in chief at ur house......the mumu girl will run.... |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by walexsho(m): 5:09pm On May 05, 2017 |
The story be like ... I Charged Camon C8 with pin mouth charger |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by walexsho(m): 5:10pm On May 05, 2017 |
The story be like ... I Charged Camon C8 with pin mouth charger |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by tosyne2much(m): 5:13pm On May 05, 2017 |
FreeSpirited:This is very true |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by ManTiger(m): 5:14pm On May 05, 2017 |
OP, I remember your comment on Davido's Ibadan Baby Mama...Lolz |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Charly68: 5:15pm On May 05, 2017 |
infantlion:Best counsel so far.. play the fool & go for DNA immediately after delivery...if confirmed that it is yours ,claim the baby and get rid of the hawker ... |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Kebreal92(m): 5:20pm On May 05, 2017 |
FEAR WOMEN..... |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Samabu07(m): 5:26pm On May 05, 2017 |
Bad as e bad reach make she horn then go do DNA test if no be your child, discard her and her family would refund all the pregnancy support funds you allegedly spent her. |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Nobody: 5:26pm On May 05, 2017 |
Here is what I think I don't think you are responsible.. Listen I want to see you as a guy who is well above that "maybe I did or I did not stage" Here is what I think She is pregnant for some guy ... She's Scarred of doing an abortion the only way out is to pick the one out of the two (.. Or many) guys she's with who can stand up to responsibilities... Reading how far you guys have gone.. You my friend are the better option. .... Relax don't be in a haste or rather makes a hasty decision... Have you talked to her parents about what's making you take a step back? Lay the facts down immediately. Every evidence you have got.... Yes its possible you are responsible the withdraw method is not a very reliable method but somewhere somehow you know something is wrong Play smart... I had to comment because a month ago one of my guys told me how one of his side chick got pregnant for him she told him she won't do an abortion that she has a steady reliable guy around to marry her.. Guess what she's married now. My guess is same is happening to you Your way out is to do a little more digging... Her phone, her friends... You have to first let her calm down a bit let her relax from what I read... I don't think she's that sharp, she can be caught but right now you need to find out what's happening.. People keep shouting DNA hmmm may I tell you the cost of running a full DNA test!? In Nigeria. And don't let people tell you the whole you need to stand up and take responsibilities.... What if you are right!? I think you should investigate this whole thing... And the truth can easily be found out Good luck to you 1 Like |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by tosyne2much(m): 5:29pm On May 05, 2017 |
ihec:Lmao at the last statement 1 Like |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by bolethings: 5:30pm On May 05, 2017 |
The only reason you doubt yourself is because you *thought* you met her a virgin. No virgin will have sex for the first time and comment the way you said she did. Vriginity could be faked, that's not a joke. Seeing what you have here, I think it's better you send her to her parents on the excuse that your Pastor said you shouldn't have any guest for the next 2 weeks or the guest may die, trust me your giving her space will work better and the parent's anger will be reduced. Within that 2 weeks, present your evidences. You have a case bro. Women have dealt a great deal with me too. If she suspect you are too inquisitive and you may expose her, she could poison or kill you to protect her integrity. Be warned! |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Gangster1ms: 5:30pm On May 05, 2017 |
infantlion: Don't you ever think of marrying her ok? She is a hoe! She lied to you more than once plus only God knows how many more times she has been lying and clubing without you having an idea. Bro be man! These our naija babes are beyond redemption. If u forgive her she will surely repeat those act in a more coded manner. She will tear both the nuclear and extended family apart. 4 guys... Haba! That is what we call Orgy. I won't think twice nigga. Also Do a paternity test.. if the baby is yours provide support for both of them.. make she be baby mama. But if not, make sure you av nothing to do with her ever again in your life! |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by permit(m): 5:31pm On May 05, 2017 |
this happened the time u were nt ready for marriage, 1 simple method: ask her to stay at her place 4 maternity with this parents may understand ur points,until then u go for DNA, make sure u providd till d end, right nw its clear u have lost ur trust and wit ths ant build hapy 5amly. |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Joeteik: 5:33pm On May 05, 2017 |
wait and do DNA test |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by ladychioma: 5:45pm On May 05, 2017 |
Allow her to born the baby first,then take the baby for DNA test. |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by SINZ: 5:46pm On May 05, 2017 |
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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by ladychioma: 5:46pm On May 05, 2017 |
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Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by tartarus(m): 5:47pm On May 05, 2017 |
StreetKingEnt:You're the only guy making sense here bro |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by andyanders: 5:49pm On May 05, 2017 |
infantlion: First, you have already messed up yourself by allowing her come back after your friend told you where he saw her and despite all the calls you made, she never picked your call. Later she accepted and asked for forgiveness and you forgave her. Note, there is 99% chances that you are not the father of the baby. Never look at any police harassment over this issue but face it as a man. She can never accept to let you go because she has seen you as someone she can manipulate and get away with it. For me, let heaven fall, I will stand my ground. She will still cheat on you in the future if you end up marrying her. A cheat is always a cheat. You cannot change them. Also be careful within these days for your life. |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Origin(f): 5:50pm On May 05, 2017 |
After reading comments , I learnt that: 1. If a girl lies , it means she is a cheat ( I thought it meant she was a liar) 2. A man can mistakenly impregnate a girl but a girl intentionally gets pregnant. 3. A girl in a club is a prostitute but a man in the club is just having fun. 4. Decades as a chaste lady does not count for much. A single lie means the lady has always been a prostitute in disguise. 5. The worst thing in the world is to malign a person's chastity, integrity or honour. Yet you can go ahead and do this without proof.? Apparently the lie is the significant factor here, so if you have never lied in a relationship it means you've never cheated before. Or vice versa. 2 Likes |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by MrCork: 5:56pm On May 05, 2017 |
infantlion: ..STORY... Did you pour inside? |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by tartarus(m): 6:00pm On May 05, 2017 |
Origin:Lol I'm a man and the truth is this op is just tired of the lady and wants to get rid of her but he can't cos she might be pregnant with his kid. He's just making stupid excuses so we nairalanders will perceive the lady to be wayward. 2 Likes |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by sshalom(m): 6:01pm On May 05, 2017 |
If you are doubting her sincerity and absolute commitment to you at this stage, it is better not to go ahead with marrying her. Secondly, she should give birth and have a DNA done to determine the paternity of the child. If the baby is yours, you know what to do and if otherwise, you also know what to do. Lastly, a proper relationship is not built on sex, good looks and money. The foundation should ALWAYS be both partners love for GOD and obedience to His Words. May GOD grant you the wisdom to navigate the course of your life. 1 Like |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Slazim: 6:03pm On May 05, 2017 |
Take care of the lady and stall the wedding until she puts to bed then do a DNA test. |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by Rukkydelta(f): 6:14pm On May 05, 2017 |
drdanny:Guy you get sense wella More wisdom to you. All these formulate story here in order to make fp Let say she got pregnant feb when she was found in a club by op's friend and we are in may now Then how can a 3months pregnancy show evidence of a protruding stomach? How can you give someone 458 won't your sense tell you to stop at most 20(which is even too much) Lai Mohammed dey learn from this op |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by goldedprince: 6:18pm On May 05, 2017 |
any girl wey carry belle wey i no know anything about put for my head, i go first test am, if the dna test say no be me be the papa and she still insist. i swear to all the gods wey people believe and the ones wey them no believe, I GO KILL AM |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by joe4christ(m): 6:18pm On May 05, 2017 |
I won't advice you marry an unrepentant cheat. I really wont |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by ashjay001(m): 6:23pm On May 05, 2017 |
infantlion: 1stly, what is fantastic sex to u, might seem ordinary to her. U might even have a nympho on ur hands, thats why i hate abstinence b4 marriage. 2ndly, no one, human, can force u to marry her. Accept d belle, but wait till after birth n dna tests to make tins formal. I dont tink dey av any legal backing. |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by marisdgreat(f): 6:32pm On May 05, 2017 |
No pregnancy is a mistake, if u were not ready to have a child then u would have abstain from sex or use condom. Some guys can be funny at times once a girl s pregnant for them they will start acting strange opting for an abortion as an alternative. But if a girl refuses having sex with u, u will start complaining that she doesn't love u or she s getting it from another guy. A guy was telling me today that he will like me to be pregnant for him a month before he will pay my bride price n do traditional wedding. If I should do such a thing to please him he might still behave like the OP after telling him that the bride price should come before wedding. Is that true love or condition of love? |
Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by SenatorAiyzik: 6:37pm On May 05, 2017 |
Bro this is blunt but 10bucks says that pregnancy is NOT yours |
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