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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by magnificientzaz(f): 4:34pm On May 16, 2017 |
you better not copy the western people on this. Their government have made provisions to cater for the old (old people's home). Here in Nigeria, the only hope for old people is their immediate family (children and grand children). If u try that here, suffer na your own when u don old 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by KanwuliaExtra: 4:40pm On May 16, 2017 |
Happiness comes from WITHIN. Others around you may or may not make you happy. If you are a miserable soul, no one can make you happy. If you are a happy soul, NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU SAD. You were born alone, YOU WILL DIE ALONE. Your happiness is IN YOUR HANDS ONLY! Never give any one the power over YOUR HAPPINESS! I speak from example. MYSELF. I don't care WHO is in my life. I ALONE can make myself happy. Single o, married o, children o, no children o. . . . I HAVE MY OWN LIFE TO LIVE, separate from ALL OF THEM. **** drops mic**** 8 Likes |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by cuedish: 4:58pm On May 16, 2017 |
SuperBlack: *Vacations *Gadgets *Fu*king around........what more. |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Ncsamuel(m): 5:16pm On May 16, 2017 |
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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Ncsamuel(m): 5:16pm On May 16, 2017 |
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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by shinarlaura(f): 5:29pm On May 16, 2017 |
Ncsamuel: Thank you |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by SalamRushdie: 5:43pm On May 16, 2017 |
shinarlaura: How will it feel ? The truth is that sooner or later all your kids will still leave you to set up their own families and will only show up for short visits |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Ncsamuel(m): 5:44pm On May 16, 2017 |
shinarlaura:am not a womanizer o. But very soon i must visit DOUALA. lol |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by shinarlaura(f): 5:54pm On May 16, 2017 |
Ncsamuel: Lol... strangers are very much welcome |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by sisisioge: 6:00pm On May 16, 2017 |
Happiness is relative. Different folks find happiness in different things. As for me o, I find happiness in sharing my world with loving eyes and arms. I can't be single to do that. I'm cat...a cuddle cat. I love hugging babies, children and adults. I wanna have my own set of cuddle team...my Loves for life! You just took me back to the days of Westlife...everybody is looking for that something. Find your something dude. |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Ncsamuel(m): 6:55pm On May 16, 2017 |
shinarlaura:i had no idea there is an english speaking part in cameroon until recently,taught it was just french throughout the country! How do you guys cope with french as the major language in ur country? And i heard the english speaking parts like limbe,bamenda are being marginalized by the govt, does dat affect you? Sorry i ask too many questions, i read a lot. |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by saasala(m): 7:14pm On May 16, 2017 |
Tokziby: RB007 ... Listen to this guy. He is King Solomon reincarnate. |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by saasala(m): 7:15pm On May 16, 2017 |
Tokziby: Seun, read this guy's post carefully and do the needful asap |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by shinarlaura(f): 7:16pm On May 16, 2017 |
Ncsamuel: Yeah Cameroon is make up of English and French cuz we were colonised by the French and Bristish but as u rightly said French is the majority. It's not easy for Anglophone especially when go to Yaounde (the capital) or any other french speaking region. Every thing is in french. Almost all the states universities teaches in french. So all these affects us like seriously |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Akinwale14(m): 7:32pm On May 16, 2017 |
3kay945:Ok thanks |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Akinwale14(m): 7:34pm On May 16, 2017 |
Noel1:I can eat my cake and still have it man |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Ugosample(m): 7:40pm On May 16, 2017 |
Emmacj19: What is this one saying? |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by mark2sunny(m): 7:50pm On May 16, 2017 |
shinarlaura:You very pretty |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by mark2sunny(m): 7:50pm On May 16, 2017 |
shinarlaura: You very pretty |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by shinarlaura(f): 7:54pm On May 16, 2017 |
mark2sunny: Thank you |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by BadlikeRIRI: 7:56pm On May 16, 2017 |
Not possible |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 8:04pm On May 16, 2017 |
RB007: absolutely! a lot of ppl's problems in life stem from marital issues and responsibility that comes with parenting. not everyone is maternal/paternal, some ppl struggle to cope on their own let alone compound issues by bringing in more ppl, not everyone is meant to marry, some cant commit, some prefer to be reclusive and hate having ppl in their personal space. marriage and parenthood are choices, they're not compulsory at all. many ppl are out there living very happy fulfilled lives, single and childless by choice and they wont have it any other way. |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by nzubeokafor: 8:31pm On May 16, 2017 |
Mujaheeeden:bros no vex, if it is you will you be happy? |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by sweetrace(f): 8:50pm On May 16, 2017 |
obataokenwa: I asked the aunties. They said they are so happy. In fact they are ecstatic! 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by tiswell(m): 8:50pm On May 16, 2017 |
Artorius:Jesus got married to Mary Magdalene and they had kids 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 9:07pm On May 16, 2017 |
RB007: Are there people that are married with their kids and happy? Yes!. Unhappy nko? There are. Are there people that are single, childless and happy? Yes!. Unhappy nko? There are. I believe you are a grown man. I would advice you to first understand what having a "FAMILY of your own" is (the things it brings over time- both short term n Long term). If you understand it and decide to sacrifice /forgo it. Then I believe it's for a higher cause and you've understood it well enough to take it up. Because if you concluded now because you are considering some Emotional stress you are having entering or maintaining a relationship. You might regret it in later years. If you feel you don't understand well enough about how this issue of Life partner, marriage or Family works speak to an elder, if you are religious check the pages of your scriptures (I think virtually all religions talks about it).. Above all it is who you let into your life and how the relationship is managed/results produced by both parties that determines the Joy in it.(there is no point in being the only happy one in a relationship.. it's an unhealthy relationship ) . Definitely there are single n Childless yet happy individuals. but understand what it entails before embarking on such journey. (#Timely discovery) You spoke about Adoption in one of your comments (any one that does adopt a child means he/she needs the presence of one), so I see it's not the child part that is really of problem to you.. It's the relationship with a partner.. Talk to your Dad / Male Guardian. 2 Likes |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by ojay2053(m): 9:18pm On May 16, 2017 |
Geraldyne:Take it easy ,sis. When the time comes ye shall find a good man and bore like the Hebrew women. |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by obataokenwa(m): 9:20pm On May 16, 2017 |
sweetrace:That moment they want to console themselves by having many converts. Join them |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by chibuzorAbia: 9:49pm On May 16, 2017 |
gabe: You dey mind these African fools? Just procreating in impossible poverty! 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by supernet4(f): 10:06pm On May 16, 2017 |
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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by shumuel(m): 10:13pm On May 16, 2017 |
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