RB007:
Can you be single, childless & happy?

Laple0541:
Even animals in their kingdom know the importance of procreation, your parent did a lot of chemistry, stressed and laboured to bring you to this world so bring someone too so that your lineage history will not be terminated with you.

Nofuckgiven:
It baffles me when Africans play this game to continue reproducing irresponsibly,the ones who are alive are struggling to survive yet more are still being born. Not saying it is a bad thing but life would be much easier if we copied the whites on this aspect of procreating responsibly. If you can afford to raise ten kids by all means do so,doesn't necessarily mean one must get married. I mean babymamas and babydaddys are already on the increase,the main issue is have money to raise them so they don't contribute to nuisance in the society.
Secondly,I am yet to see a passage in the Bible that says marriage is compulsory. This is why Reverend Father's and sisters don't marry because it makes them focus more on God's work. No distractions unlike pastors and every other person. Happiness is self taught!! You can't give what you don't have. If you keep relying on others to make you happy,you might never be satisfied.

shumuel:


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Mindfulness:


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I am not sure what you mean by that. In some Western countries the birth rate is so low that governments are struggling to ensure a certain amount of pensions for their old and it is getting worse. So while Africans in general may have too many children, whites have not enough, which leads back to the initial question of whether a person can be happy without marriage and children.

A BIG YES! That's why more and more people do not want to bring children into this world.

Children are a lot of work and cost a lot of money. They also take away some of your freedom, to sleep as long as you desire (at the weekend), to party, to travel, to pursue your career (this is a problem for many women in particular). In a relationship, children take up most of the space and time making it even difficult for couples to make out and the rest.

Looking after children can be exhausting and even boring. There is not much fun in the changing of diapers. Going out with fiends to have a dinner without having to run after your 2-year-old constantly is more relaxing too.

Many people have discovered the ease that a life without kids offers but others find their deepest joy in mother-/fatherhood.

To each their own and not an easy decision to make but I would rather have the freedom of choice than my life laid out by tradition.

tydi:





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obowunmi:
Not in Nigeria. People will mock you .

Tokziby:
Its highly impossible. The reason is simple, human are social animal meaning that we cannot survive without being around people. Human are easily bored especially when u live alone. Living alone is dangerous cos u can develop illness at any time and when there is no one to call, u are as good as dead. Majority of people that live alone surfer in silence, they are never happy either because they are not married or childless. Living alone also has psychological effects causing the person to be a saddist, get upset easily or over thinking.

In the developed countries where old people live alone, they usually die of depression. That is why they have old people home where they can interact with their fellow mate and live a longer life. In places like Nigeria, u will discover that they are the nicest of people, this is because they want to lure people around them and always have someone to chat with. That is why they prefer to live in the village where they have friends than to live in the city where their children will leave them at home doing nothing and nobody to interact with.

In case u are planning to do that its never the best thing to do. You might enjoy it when u are still young but the moment u reach ur forties expect something different.

gwama:


Ask the Catholic sisters and the priests

bukatyne:


Catholic sisters and priests are not 'single or childless'.....

They belong to a family of fellow fathers and sisters touching lives.

If you are not influential (touching lives) and belong to a group of people who are obliged to you, it;s OYO when you are older.

So called single people abroad have pets who belong to them.

shinarlaura:
At ur old age, that's when u will know how it feels like.

italo:


Are you happier than all the priests and sisters?