you don't love her and you are not proud of her but u inserted ur pole into her hole nd got her preggy, now u r crying for help... ask urself, do u really deserve help Chineke mere gi ebere

SAY NO TO PRE MARITAL S*X

u are one of the problem facing this nation! because u gave her contraceptive pills, am sorry to say this. when u knw u don't love her, why did u put ur rod inside her hole and release that liquid fluid from ur rod into her hole? my guy as far as u released, u should be able to take full responsibility of the result. #truth_is_bitter

Face the music. You dont have to run away. Real men are those who bravely face their challenges headlong and not shy away from them. It is not only your ability to impregnate a woman that makes you a man. You don't have to marry her if you are not in love with her because the marriage might end too soon. Again don't deny her and the baby if proven that the baby is yours. Take it or leave it, children are gifts from God, therefore the baby is your first gift from Him. Take care of the baby and mama but don't neglect to tell the babe you claim to love. If she truly loves you, she will understand though it won't be easy for her but don't blame her if she doesn't as she will feel betrayed. There is no need apportioning blame, it has happened but if you truly love this your babe you wouldnt have messed up your self. On the other hand your dick stood attention for the one you said you dislike. Look inwards there may be something about the girl that attracts you, only you can tell. Think twice but tread with caution and handle things maturely. Good luck

Nnemuka:
God should bless her with triplets....

U wicked

when u touch the tail of a scorpion that's what u get....


congrats man ure now a dad...don't forget to invite us for naming ceremony... I hope its a boy!

Discharged her under the same way you banged her.. When know what it takes to impregnate a woman, you should also knew what in takes to accept responsibility ..You could have informed us before you get down her pants, you have seen through the hole, try to wait and let the hole see through you. Life is veri vesa ....Don't be a murderer in disguise ..

@OP, it is unfortunate that you slept with an ex without condom,
let us even forget the pregnancy for now.
I will advice you go test yourself for STIs, the only person I pity
is your girlfriend who might be infected without knowing.

freddymanny49:
Hello NL,

I don fumble men. Some lady came over to my place to sleep over. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of this month.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry and i am truly in love with this girl i want to. My world is crashing because of a stupid choice i just made by sleeping with an ex without a condom. Now she wants
to keep the baby which I am cool with. My concern is that her people will force me to marry her. I cant marry a woman that i am not in love with.

What do i do? What do i do? I don't want to be forced into marriage because of circumstance.

This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this?

@OP, it is unfortunate that you slept with an ex without condom,
let us even forget the pregnancy for now.
You were proud of cheating but not your cheating partner.
I will advice you go test yourself for STIs, the only person I pity
is your girlfriend who might be infected without knowing.

Prepare to be a father in 8 months time.

Pearly255:
But you're proud of her pu*** abi

Guy keep quiet



Swine in d making

pls am confused, are you the same with Nikkipe. arl?

You the writer, are u proud of ur self

freddymanny49:
Hello NL,

I don fumble men. Some lady came over to my place to sleep over. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of this month.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry and i am truly in love with this girl i want to. My world is crashing because of a stupid choice i just made by sleeping with an ex without a condom. Now she wants
to keep the baby which I am cool with. My concern is that her people will force me to marry her. I cant marry a woman that i am not in love with.

What do i do? What do i do? I don't want to be forced into marriage because of circumstance.

This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this?

guy it is people like you that end up in jail you know that you don't love her but you can have sex with her and not use condom you are playing a music and you must dance to it, you have to marry her or the thunder way go fire you still they do pressup.

Did u say u r not proud of her? But when u were collecting SUKUNBIUM from her u were proud of that region. U better go n pay dowry.

freddymanny49:
Hello NL,

I don fumble men. Some lady came over to my place to sleep over. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of this month.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry and i am truly in love with this girl i want to. My world is crashing because of a stupid choice i just made by sleeping with an ex without a condom. Now she wants
to keep the baby which I am cool with. My concern is that her people will force me to marry her. I cant marry a woman that i am not in love with.

What do i do? What do i do? I don't want to be forced into marriage because of circumstance.

This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this?

marry her ,who knows God can open the door of blessings for you through her

D grl no do well at all, she shld av report u tu d nearest police station, for u tu gv her drugs tu use, if she use it and die nobody will no wat u av done, so carry ur cross alone D grl no do well at all, she shld av report u tu d nearest police station, for u tu gv her drugs tu use, if she use it and die nobody will no wat u av done, so carry ur cross alone

Adadiogo:
Face the music. You dont have to run away. Real men are those who bravely face their challenges headlong and not shy away from them. It is not only your ability to impregnate a woman that makes you a man. You don't have to marry her if you are not in love with her because the marriage might end too soon. Again don't deny her and the baby if proven that the baby is yours. Take it or leave it, children are gifts from God, therefore the baby is your first gift from Him. Take care of the baby and mama but don't neglect to tell the babe you claim to love. If she truly loves you, she will understand though it won't be easy for her but don't blame her if she doesn't as she will feel betrayed. There is no need apportioning blame, it has happened but if you truly love this your babe you wouldnt have messed up your self. On the other hand your dick stood attention for the one you said you dislike. Look inwards there may be something about the girl that attracts you, only you can tell. Think twice but tread with caution and handle things maturely. Good luck

He got enough truth from your piece, I love your outline.. Even the one he is claiming to be in love with might not love him back, the same way he is feeling

stand your ground, yea u made a mistake which u can still live with
but dont make another mistake which will hunt u for the rest of ur life........the worst thing you can ever do is to marry a woman u are not in love with, u will neva be satisfied with whatever she does and will cost u ur happiness

stand ur ground, u dnt have to marry the lady, as hard as it might sound for her to digest, stand ur ground, u nid ur family to support u on this, dont be forced into something u'll regret for the rest of ur life, dont bow to pressure, dont marry outta pity
accept the child, take full responsibility.

OP you are not a marriage material@ freddymanny49

U don't like her but love her punna.
Just ready to stat liking pampers

freddymanny49:
Hello NL,

I don fumble men. Some lady came over to my place to sleep over. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of this month.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry and i am truly in love with this girl i want to. My world is crashing because of a stupid choice i just made by sleeping with an ex without a condom. Now she wants
to keep the baby which I am cool with. My concern is that her people will force me to marry her. I cant marry a woman that i am not in love with.

What do i do? What do i do? I don't want to be forced into marriage because of circumstance.

This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this?

1. First of all, bros, congratulations. You are going to be a father. Abeg...make una go bar slaughter 5 bottles of Guiness to celebrate. Or na Orijin or Star...

2.Fatherhood is a serious business. If you no get job or savings account....get am now. Put aside N10000 for the child's welfare.

3.Wat....you have not gone to greet your inlaws.? Better go there. And make sure you carry something appreciable for mama de mama (the mother of the girl). Make sure e dey appreciable. because mama de mama don suffer bring up de pikin.

4.Make sure you are aware of the terms and condtions aka bride price. Plus...make sure you dey ready to pay apology money...because as una don dey nack the kini before the d-day....apology dey in order.

5.In relation to no4...make sure you get several gourds of palmi ready for your relations. Make sure na correct palmi....the one wey dey don tap that day o!

6.Of course....we must go church. Make sure una dey show for your baby mama church ...so tey una go inform pastor or reverend father say you and sister dey go altar soon soon....before some gossips dey disturb una.

7.Make sure that you budget N2million at least for the wedding. Make sure una dey get gown wey dem don make for oversea.....bros sunny tailor shop no be the place wey you go dey sew bridal wear.

8.Enjoy your woman....and th next time problem strikes....no come disturb us for Niaraland o!

freddymanny49:
Hello NL,

I don fumble men. Some lady came over to my place to sleep over. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of this month.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry and i am truly in love with this girl i want to. My world is crashing because of a stupid choice i just made by sleeping with an ex without a condom. Now she wants
to keep the baby which I am cool with. My concern is that her people will force me to marry her. I cant marry a woman that i am not in love with.

What do i do? What do i do? I don't want to be forced into marriage because of circumstance.

This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this?

*in Reekado's voice* your problem, e dey for your kporon

OP take your time ooo.. how does this concern me?? Or when u were shagging her, and sucking her pucci, did you post and ask me to join in the party. Ogaa u don enjoy, now u must bear the cross of your enjoyment..

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toastedbread:
you just eff'd up big time. but why would you take the penalty when you know you're lionel messi? you're bound to score.
your girl was somewhere busy bragging to her friends about how faithful you are and behind closed doors, like davido, you were busy shooku shooku-ing another girl.
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i don't support abortion and i'll advice you to talk to the both girls involved.

freddymanny49:
Hello NL,

I don fumble men. Some lady came over to my place to sleep over. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of this month.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry and i am truly in love with this girl i want to. My world is crashing because of a stupid choice i just made by sleeping with an ex without a condom. Now she wants
to keep the baby which I am cool with. My concern is that her people will force me to marry her. I cant marry a woman that i am not in love with.

What do i do? What do i do? I don't want to be forced into marriage because of circumstance.

This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this?

you don't love her but you like fu..g. her abi?
your gbege just start.

Congratulation first! Many guys dey drill different wells dey miss but you...only one night! You hit target. NNPC suppose carry you go Chad basin...lol.
Seriously, I pity you will learn in a very hard way. You don't drill dry when you are not prepared for the consequences. You could have picked STDs too.
She is now the mother of your baby to be....the only choice is love her and upgrade her to that your ' standard'. Goodluck

freddymanny49:
Hello NL,

I don fumble men. Some lady came over to my place to sleep over. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of this month.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry and i am truly in love with this girl i want to. My world is crashing because of a stupid choice i just made by sleeping with an ex without a condom. Now she wants
to keep the baby which I am cool with. My concern is that her people will force me to marry her. I cant marry a woman that i am not in love with.

What do i do? What do i do? I don't want to be forced into marriage because of circumstance.

This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this?

You are not proud of her but you dey shine the punna.....My guy start planning for ante-natal,naming,lots of diapers,baby formula and more....

freddymanny49:


I blame myself for all this facking up.
I might as well just run away from the country and start over again.

datz how intake of hard drugs can ruin someone's future, hard drugs do no good bro

freddymanny49:
Hello NL,

I don fumble men. Some lady came over to my place to sleep over. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of this month.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry and i am truly in love with this girl i want to. My world is crashing because of a stupid choice i just made by sleeping with an ex without a condom. Now she wants
to keep the baby which I am cool with. My concern is that her people will force me to marry her. I cant marry a woman that i am not in love with.

What do i do? What do i do? I don't want to be forced into marriage because of circumstance.

This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this?

u are seriously mad,na una type dey condemn baby daddies and baby mummies

Nnemuka:
God should bless her with triplets....

Yes o! can somebody shout alleluia!

Oyindidi:
Na by force baby una go born be that

Young lady.. where ar u from im lookin for a wife.
And it seems i hav seen her

Xita:
First of all calm down, I repeat, calm down. Now, think !
She came to stay the night and forced her self on u... She already has a plan!
First Friday of this month, and she is already drawing conclusions that she is pregnant cos she no see period, she already has a plan.
That girl may be pregnant for someone else and wants to dump it on u.
Secondly, she may not be pregnant at all.
Did you say you are from an affluent home? She has a plan. Wise up!

Best advice in this thread.i agree with this quote 100%