I don't understand. So coz the guy is too busy to call or take her out due to the nature of his job then your friend is heartbroken and needs to be consoled?
People of all profession cheat! Cheating has nothing to do with one's profession but with the individual. Your friend needs to work on her self confidence and try to build trust in her relationship. And if she is too insecure with the guy she can always walk away.

anyone can be romantic and trustworthy, regardless of their profession. your friend knew the guy was a doctor before she started seeing him so what's she unhappy about. doctors live very busy lives and spend more time at their jobs than elsewhere. if she loves him she should love his profession also.


btw, isn't it unethical for a doctor to date a patient?

GL:

anyone can be romantic and trustworthy, regardless of their profession. your friend knew the guy was a doctor before she started seeing him so what's she unhappy about. doctors live very busy lives and spend more time at their jobs than elsewhere. if she loves him she should love his profession also.


btw, isn't it unethical for a doctor to date a patient?

She definitely loves his profession infact she used 2 be obsessed wiv d idea of becoming a medical doctor herself but due 2
unforeseen circumstances she cld not. Besides u just gave me a good reason 2 tease her cos its really UNETHICAL tanx.  

They are like every other human. And can be tempted by any patient
they 're attending to, and at the same time can be very trust worthy.
their profession does not necessarily determine whether they trust worthy
or romantic. Its has to do with whether he/she is a freak or not.

People just lie about being busy, that they cannot take time out to call their loved ones. am sure he is so busy he forgets to eat or use the washroom. if a guy really loves you yeah, he might be busy but he will always remember to call the one he loves no matter how busy he can be.

;d

lao:

People just lie about being busy, that they cannot take time out to call their loved ones. am sure he is so busy he forgets to eat or use the washroom. if a guy really loves you yeah, he might be busy but he will always remember to call the one he loves no matter how busy he can be.

Not only doctors, it implies to all professional jobs that are likely demanding.

About forgetting to eat, sure it happens. . .

For such people weekends and free work days are best for meetings.

some medical doctors will literally bang anything female (same as any typical Kaigerian). Others really are busy and dont have time to talk.

She should find out what exactly is the case here. However, if she's the one in love with him and he isnt with her, then maybe she should reassess the situation?

tpia.:

some medical doctors will literally bang anything female (same as any typical Kaigerian). Others really are busy and dont have time to talk.

She should find out what exactly is the case here. However, if she's the one in love with him and he isnt with her, then maybe she should reassess the situation?

From wat i was told, he @ least was d first 2 ask her out and she accepted.
But from my assessment now, its now 30-70 i.e 30 on her part and 70 on his.
she is now confused and needs answers i dont have.

Hairat007:


From wat i was told, he @ least was d first 2 ask her out and she accepted.
But from my assessment now, its now 30-70 i.e 30 on her part and 70 on his.
she is now confused and needs answers i dont have.

its tough.

a friend of mine was once in a similar situation.  Its not always easy knowing if a guy is serious or not.  This book called Evbu my love, would scare the daylights out of a serious minded girl trying to date a doctor, for real.

However, if the guy seems to be cooling off, then she can either make another effort to see him, or find out his intentions somehow. But just because he's a doctor doesnt mean he's much different from a regular naija guy when it comes to such matters. Meaning his attitude is likely the same.

medical doctors are not that busy, they work on shift. I have so many friends (doctors) and they always find time out for their relationship (single/married) irrespective of their jobs. I even have one who work two different hopsital (reddington hospital) and he still find that time for his girlfriend. She should stop dreaming and wasting her time or she will be heartbroken. Medical doctors are also flirt.

the truth is just the personality involved, a medical doctor or nt is nt the issue. I am dating a medical doctor who is very very romantic

sogabisi:

the truth is just the personality involved, a medical doctor or nt is nt the issue. I am dating a medical doctor who is very very romantic

Hmmn good 4 u. i wish u all d best

Hairat007:


She definitely loves his profession infact she used 2 be obsessed wiv d idea of becoming a medical doctor herself but due 2
unforeseen circumstances she cld not. Besides u just gave me a good reason 2 tease her cos its really UNETHICAL tanx.  

so technically she wanted him for his profession sake since she couldn't attain it herself, why complain now?

na2day?:

so technically she wanted him for his profession sake since she couldn't attain it herself, why complain now?

If u go thru dis reply i made very well, u wld notice i was answering a question asked by GL.

I never insinuated she wanted him 4 his profession cos she cld not become 1 herself.

Tanx all d same. My long lost na2day?

Hairat007:

If u go thru dis reply i made very well, u wld notice i was answering a question asked by GL.

I never insinuated she wanted him 4 his profession cos she cld not become 1 herself.

Tanx all d same. My long lost na2day?

how are u doing sweet heart, lets rekindle our love

Medical Doctors except my husband are jealous men, stay away from them.

na2day?:

how are u doing sweet heart, lets rekindle our love

My love i tot i was'nt woman enough 4 u. Well i'm all yours



@ Mama gee

Really? Dat means he would be very caring! May be if her's was as jealous as yours, dis thread wont see d light
of d day.

She definitely loves his profession infact she used 2 be obsessed wiv d idea of becoming a medical doctor herself but due 2
unforeseen circumstances she cld not.

just seeing this.

What's preventing her from becoming a doctor herself?

tpia.:

just seeing this.

What's preventing her from becoming a doctor herself?

Have u ever heard of shattered dreams? well dats wat happened 2 her. Its a long story and a sad 1
but i do hope u understand i can not give detailed answers.

Hairat007:

My love i tot i was'nt woman enough 4 u. Well i'm all yours

so where did we stop again?

Hairat007:

Have u ever heard of shattered dreams? well dats wat happened 2 her. Its a long story and a sad 1
but i do hope u understand i can not give detailed answers.

I can guess what happened.

its up to her- if she has the perseverance and determination, she might still be able to achieve her dream.



however, if medical school was traumatic for whatever reason, then she should just do what's best for her and maybe study extensively in some other field.

Not everything is as glamorous as it's cut out to be anyway. Meaning all that glitters isnt gold.

na2day?:

so where did we stop again?

No where in particular my love!

Hairat007:

No where in particular my love!

oya report urself to yim

doctors=heartbreakers.

na2day?:

oya report urself to yim

what the hell is all this connection people in NL make with one's profession and relationship

madambini:

doctors=heartbreakers.

is this out of experience?

Hairat007:

--sighs-- meet me on yahoo messenger

lovemoi2:

what the hell is all this connection people in NL make with one's profession and relationship

u got a problem with that?

na2day?:


--sighs-- meet me on yahoo messenger

Your Y id?