take advantage

drop the bomb "NO"

Hmmm, that is hard one, knwin dat i ll hurt her deeply if i turn her down, well i'll just say i am sorry!!!

r231:

take advantage

Nuff said!

be honest with her and tell i dont fancy her, anything else makes the whole thing complicated and i dont do complications

Try to get to know her and devolop the likeness for her. QED

Don't take stupidity for smartness by deceiving her. Let her know your position, but be nice about it.

If na fine girl, we can still do one or two things.

@OP, chop de yam and change ya number :-)

Because, "oju la wo, *b* were o yato"

tell her n move on u dont need it!!

JNdupu:

@OP, chop de yam and change ya number :-)

Because, "oju la wo, *b* were o yato"

haaaaaaaa! _{i no dey o.}

Probably she want to transmit HIV and she is looking for a prey, the choice is yours,

well you can decide to concede then "chop and run" and then hope 4 the best

Try to be nice, take her out once or twice but make it clear by your words and actions that you're not interested in a relationship. Belittling her ego will only come back to bite you in the bum.

I'd give her a peck on the lip or cheek n explain to her that i currently don't see her that way.

Yea, might take her for an outing like a meal but just that 1time.

Hi, though nobody is perfect, just be nice to her and tell her your mind that you wouldn't want any relationship with her; that you have someone, say the words in an understandable way. i believe you can make her go and can also make her go away with pains in her hearts. use the word COMPARTABLE for her. thanks, am Dave Smith

davidylan:

Try to be nice, take her out once or twice but make it clear by your words and actions that you're not interested in a relationship. Belittling her ego will only come back to bite you in the bum.

Haaa, free lunch. Need to start hitting on men.

Happens all the time- be friends with her duh! she might stop liking you and have some other hot friends for you. lmfao

I should write a book

@ poster,

Your profile shows that you are a female. Are you into lesbianism or what?

Had that experience when I was in my first year in Uni . Good thing I managed it well coz I've not experienced anything close to that since then . I indulged her and we both had a wonderful experience which lasted the whole session.

if a girl you dont like hit on you, act like you are gay,
she will leave you alone

i will simply Bleep her and move on

I once told a guy I liked him and he said - and I quote . . .  "You've said/done all you can, now the ball is in my court"    

Talk about being 'obnoxious' . . kind of what I liked about him!  

Ujujoan:

I once told a guy I liked him and he said - and I quote . . .  "You've said/done all you can, now the ball is in my court"    

Talk about being 'obnoxious' . . kind of what I liked about him!  

The morons are usually on a sugar high if you tell them that. Thats why I would rather freeze over than let a guy know I fancy him

^^^ Trust me, I learnt my lesson the hard way . . .

what happened, he bluffed you?

I usually try to convince her that she's not really into me.
It's just a mind game, she usually ends up thinking she was wrong and she feels bad about putting you in that position.
And then she sees an easy way out to escape from the whole thing.

Talk about avoiding the crux of the matter?? Tick
Letting her down softly?? Tick
Being the good guy?? Tick

eldee:

I usually try to convince her that she's not really into me.
It's just a mind game, she usually ends up thinking she was wrong and she feels bad about putting you in that position.
And then she sees an easy way out to escape from the whole thing.

Talk about avoiding the crux of the matter?? Tick
Letting her down softly?? Tick
Being the good guy?? Tick

Well aint you a sweetheart

Dont understand the line of this questioning. It is like asking what a lady should do if a guy she doesnt like hit on her. Of cos she would say NO!. Is he gonna be hurt, YES!
Better hurt now than going in on pretence to later tell her that you were not just that into her. By then, she would be in a stage where she could use any sharp object to let you know how much you hurt her!

Your asking this question could just be that maybe you do have a feeling hidden somewhere for this girl

Live a good life; Learn.

Tell her the truth - It might lead to you knowing her better and changing your mind OR finding out what she was actually trying to do, so you don't get it twisted.

But its always better to tell the truth. Tell her exactly what and how you feel about her.