rawpadgin:
but u don't have any display picture na how can i access u?

opposite of slay queen

rawpadgin:
best relationship advice i have come across here!



i am in the last stage right now, looking forward to dumping her crazy a$$

i am good looking, have a good job yet one mumu wan use my heart play because i say make i test how love dey be

Lolzz......its Always like dat...

baeboo:
opposite of slay queen

that means u are modest, decent dresser, u don't do expensive hairstyle etc?

rachyeazzy:

Lolzz......its Always like dat...

yea
painfully i thought i had found her, invested a lot into the relationship

mehnnnn

rawpadgin:
that means u are modest, decent dresser, u don't do expensive hairstyle etc?

well maybe

baeboo:
well maybe

can i @least see ur pic?

abiodunalasa:


I am not a gay

Lols

I'm almost in the same situation, but mine is slightly different.
I know I will be bashed for this, but here it goes anyway.
My situation is this: I met this chick (my neighbor...same street, same estate) and we started off as friends...very good friends. In fact, it felt like we've knoqn for years.

She confided in me, told me everything and anything. I eventually developed strong feelings for her.
I expressed my feelings, but she told me she was in love with her bf that stays in a diferent state.
I kept on pushing mildly, until my flows started to penetrate and break down her solid rock defences.
As time went on, we continued our friendship, until she had a problem with her bf.
In fact, it wasn't just a bf, but her fiance.
According to her, he wanted to marry her, but for some reason, her Dad was vehemently against the union.

As fate would have it, she became closer ro me during this period, and that was when the deed was finally done...albeit, after some serious brainstorming and hard work. It wasn't easy to depant her, but badt guy na badt guy!

To cut the long story short...after a while, she reduced communication with me, I was the one always trying so hard to reach out to her.
The chats reduced, even the phone calls reduced, but I kept trying.

After we did the deed, she asked me not to leave her, and I promised never to leave her, so it baffles me how she suddenly started withdrawing.
I genuinely love her...she knows, but recently she's been keeping her distance.

Oh...by the way, did I mention I am married?
I know, I know...crucify me!
But hey, he who is without sin should cast the stone.
I understand that part of her withdrawal is because of my marital status, cos she swore at the beginning that she will never do a married man...shit happened!
One time, I even gave her the chance to end our friendship , by telling her if she doesn't want to continue, she should let me know, so I can slow down, but she didn't.

Don't judge me...I love my wife, my kid, but shit happened, and I fell in love with my neighbor.

rawpadgin:
can i @least see ur pic?

send mail

rawpadgin:
just checked ur dp, u look like a slay queen


can't wife a slay queen

Dis sounds more like an insult rather Dan a compliment, ladies pls value urcef so u wud b looked at with high prestige.
Am not just of d opinion dat a lady shud approach s man. It might not be ur opinion but I feel doing do is d first step of being taken for granted, at least here in 9ja. But guy she might not be what ur thinking, also I think you should be nicer next time...

darealez:

"Taking your love for granted" sounds somehow to me except you've actually developed a metrics to that effect. People get busy and bored a times. Sometimes ago, my dearie would always complain about me being busy she later woke to the reality of programmers and coding. It got better after all.

My point
There's no such thing as trivializing love. Its either someone has moved on or something needs to be fixed.

You just sounded like someone I know.

Britboy:
I'm almost in the same situation, but mine is slightly different.
I know I will be bashed for this, but here it goes anyway.
My situation is this: I met this chick (my neighbor...same street, same estate) and we started off as friends...very good friends. In fact, it felt like we've knoqn for years.

She confided in me, told me everything and anything. I eventually developed strong feelings for her.
I expressed my feelings, but she told me she was in love with her bf that stays in a diferent state.
I kept on pushing mildly, until my flows started to penetrate and break down her solid rock defences.
As time went on, we continued our friendship, until she had a problem with her bf.
In fact, it wasn't just a bf, but her fiance.
According to her, he wanted to marry her, but for some reason, her Dad was vehemently against the union.

As fate would have it, she became closer ro me during this period, and that was when the deed was finally done...albeit, after some serious brainstorming and hard work. It wasn't easy to depant her, but badt guy na badt guy!

To cut the long story short...after a while, she reduced communication with me, I was the one always trying so hard to reach out to her.
The chats reduced, even the phone calls reduced, but I kept trying.

After we did the deed, she asked me not to leave her, and I promised never to leave her, so it baffles me how she suddenly started withdrawing.
I genuinely love her...she knows, but recently she's been keeping her distance.

Oh...by the way, did I mention I am married?
I know, I know...crucify me!
But hey, he who is without sin should cast the stone.
I understand that part of her withdrawal is because of my marital status, cos she swore at the beginning that she will never do a married man...shit happened!
One time, I even gave her the chance to end our friendship , by telling her if she doesn't want to continue, she should let me know, so I can slow down, but she didn't.

Don't judge me...I love my wife, my kid, but shit happened, and I fell in love with my neighbor.

guy u dey craze ooo, buh I love ur write up.. Just a heartless nigga like moa.

ChubbychummyICE:

Dis sounds more like an insult rather Dan a compliment, ladies pls value urcef so u wud b looked at with high prestige.
Am not just of d opinion dat a lady shud approach s man. It might not be ur opinion but I feel doing do is d first step of being taken for granted, at least here in 9ja. But guy she might not be what ur thinking, also I think you should be nicer next time...

I wasn't serious about that, i was joking & i am glad she saw it like that

importexpert:
lets have your own views.

OK

Edopesin:
No Madafacking Girl Dares Take Me For Granted

There Are Many Fishes In The Ocean





Waiting for the first girl to quote me

Monkey Tarzan!

rawpadgin:
sharperly

I haven't spoken to her in more than a month

waiting the time to break the news to her

More than a month, and she didn't even call or try to know how you are doing. She isn't even trying to know d reasons you stop comminicating with her. O ga oooo

banjicom:


More than a month, and she didn't even call or try to know how you are doing. She isn't even trying to know d reasons you stop comminicating with her. O ga oooo

she actually did tried calling
but i usually turn her down with the excuse that i am busy @ the moment

perfecti:

Monkey Tarzan!

The Truth Is Bitter

Britboy:
I'm almost in the same situation, but mine is slightly different.
I know I will be bashed for this, but here it goes anyway.
My situation is this: I met this chick (my neighbor...same street, same estate) and we started off as friends...very good friends. In fact, it felt like we've knoqn for years.

She confided in me, told me everything and anything. I eventually developed strong feelings for her.
I expressed my feelings, but she told me she was in love with her bf that stays in a diferent state.
I kept on pushing mildly, until my flows started to penetrate and break down her solid rock defences.
As time went on, we continued our friendship, until she had a problem with her bf.
In fact, it wasn't just a bf, but her fiance.
According to her, he wanted to marry her, but for some reason, her Dad was vehemently against the union.

As fate would have it, she became closer ro me during this period, and that was when the deed was finally done...albeit, after some serious brainstorming and hard work. It wasn't easy to depant her, but badt guy na badt guy!

To cut the long story short...after a while, she reduced communication with me, I was the one always trying so hard to reach out to her.
The chats reduced, even the phone calls reduced, but I kept trying.

After we did the deed, she asked me not to leave her, and I promised never to leave her, so it baffles me how she suddenly started withdrawing.
I genuinely love her...she knows, but recently she's been keeping her distance.

Oh...by the way, did I mention I am married?
I know, I know...crucify me!
But hey, he who is without sin should cast the stone.
I understand that part of her withdrawal is because of my marital status, cos she swore at the beginning that she will never do a married man...shit happened!
One time, I even gave her the chance to end our friendship , by telling her if she doesn't want to continue, she should let me know, so I can slow down, but she didn't.

Don't judge me...I love my wife, my kid, but shit happened, and I fell in love with my neighbor.

Na wa ooo. This is serious!

Britboy:
I'm almost in the same situation, but mine is slightly different.
I know I will be bashed for this, but here it goes anyway.
My situation is this: I met this chick (my neighbor...same street, same estate) and we started off as friends...very good friends. In fact, it felt like we've knoqn for years.

She confided in me, told me everything and anything. I eventually developed strong feelings for her.
I expressed my feelings, but she told me she was in love with her bf that stays in a diferent state.
I kept on pushing mildly, until my flows started to penetrate and break down her solid rock defences.
As time went on, we continued our friendship, until she had a problem with her bf.
In fact, it wasn't just a bf, but her fiance.
According to her, he wanted to marry her, but for some reason, her Dad was vehemently against the union.

As fate would have it, she became closer ro me during this period, and that was when the deed was finally done...albeit, after some serious brainstorming and hard work. It wasn't easy to depant her, but badt guy na badt guy!

To cut the long story short...after a while, she reduced communication with me, I was the one always trying so hard to reach out to her.
The chats reduced, even the phone calls reduced, but I kept trying.

After we did the deed, she asked me not to leave her, and I promised never to leave her, so it baffles me how she suddenly started withdrawing.
I genuinely love her...she knows, but recently she's been keeping her distance.

Oh...by the way, did I mention I am married?
I know, I know...crucify me!
But hey, he who is without sin should cast the stone.
I understand that part of her withdrawal is because of my marital status, cos she swore at the beginning that she will never do a married man...shit happened!
One time, I even gave her the chance to end our friendship , by telling her if she doesn't want to continue, she should let me know, so I can slow down, but she didn't.

Don't judge me...I love my wife, my kid, but shit happened, and I fell in love with my neighbor.

You make me sick and yes I will judge you. The love didn't fall from heaven you developed it. You knew you were married but was building a friendship with your neighbor, you kept the fire burning till it developed feelings.

You used the poor girl, you knew despite whatever you won't leave your family to marry her. Women are easily emotional and you went for the jaw break for her to open her feelings and her legs too.

That wasn't love you felt but lust and God will judge you heartless witch.

Some married men stink of shame. Just imagine your wife doing this to you....how will you feel? Can you for once imagine it?

My God!!!!

vicfuntop:
In a weird way I agree with you

You do?

Just looking @ everyone forming 'hard-nut-to-crack' satisfy your egos on here and deal with the truth in your hearts.

T

Ginaz:


You make me sick and yes I will judge you. The love didn't fall from heaven you developed it. You knew you were married but was building a friendship with your neighbor, you kept the fire burning till it developed feelings.

You used the poor girl, you knew despite whatever you won't leave your family to marry her. Women are easily emotional and you went for the jaw break for her to open her feelings and her legs too.

That wasn't love you felt but lust and God will judge you heartless witch.

Some married men stink of shame. Just imagine your wife doing this to you....how will you feel? Can you for once imagine it?

My God!!!!

Thanks for judging me.
By the way, I didn't use any poor girl, I told her right from the beginning that I was married.
And for your info, I genuinely love her as a friend.
Yes, I won't leave my fam for her, but I'd like to keep the friendship alive.
She's unique!

Witches are for females, Wizards for males...take note!

MissCuppy:
Reduce communication greatly and you won't be taken for granted.

thanks cuppy!!

MissCuppy:
Silent treatment works.

Try it when they withdraw from you.

... So. immune to that shiii....

Alphamale2017:


although I am a very busy person. . I will find time to help u

what do u presently know. ?? we can ascertain that and know where to pick up from

I only know about marketing part but I don't understand very we

Alphamale2017:


although I am a very busy person. . I will find time to help u

what do u presently know. ?? we can ascertain that and know where to pick up from

I only know about marketing part but I don't understand very well

EmperorTayo1864:
I only know about marketing part but I don't understand very well

Chai guy u are slow in responding oh

Alphamale2017:

Chai guy u are slow in responding oh

Am sorry