Toks2008:



Dem go soon use you for ritual. ..you definitely can't escape it if you continue this way and by the way why are you dodging my questions?

you will be used for ritual, amen.
What's the question?

Cinderella5:
you will be used for ritual, amen.
What's the question?

You be confirmed trouble maker...

My question was...What if that guy you married gets broke as in broke...what advise will you give him?
1.Stop sleeping with you cos he is broke?
2.Leave the marriage because he is broke?
3.Spend the small money on himself for self development and ignore you and children?

Toks2008:


You be confirmed trouble maker...

My question was...What if that guy you married gets broke as in broke...what advise will you give him?
1.Stop sleeping with you cos he is broke?
2.Leave the marriage because he is broke?
3.Spend the small money on himself for self development and ignore you and children?

Marriage is sancrosanct, the vows shouldn't be taken lightly. It's for better for worse, if the man loses his job and gets broke, then it's understandable for both parties to come together and find a solution. The exception to the rule of the man being the bread winner can now come to play, ONLY because of the Perculiar circumstance.
A woman shouldnt deny her hisband sex for any reason.
Leaving the marriage is out of the question. I believe in to death to us path, except my life is threatened.

Everything I have said in this thread is for single struggling broke ass niggas who use their small change to pursue women upandan.

Cinderella5:
Marriage is sancrosanct, the vows shouldn't be taken lightly. It's for better for worse, if the man loses his job and gets broke, then it's understandable for both parties to come together and find a solution. The exception to the rule of the man being the bread winner can now come to play, ONLY because of the Perculiar circumstance.
A woman shouldnt deny her hisband sex for any reason.
Leaving the marriage is out of the question. I believe in to death to us path, except my life is threatened.

Everything I have said in this thread is for single struggling broke ass niggas who use their small change to pursue women upandan.

Looking at your answers ,I can only wonder why you keep stressing your head over a guy being broke.

The same way a rich guy can go broke is the same way a broke guy could become rich.

It's all about risk....as long as the guy is working smart and hard,he will surely hit the goldmine and this is why I tell ladies to be hardworking too so that they can make their own money and allow the guy breathing space to hustle without killing him with their own bukata ...plain and simple.

Nigeria is a peculiar country and if as a lady you just feel you can't settle with a broke guy then you just might remain single for a very long time cos most guys are broke and the rich ones are mostly unserious as they tend to pick and drop...remember that being broke is relative and your definition of a broke guy may be another lady's definition of a financially OK guy....

I don't know if this makes sense to you but I will drop my pen at this point.

Crayzies errywhere

the nairaland chief misogynist AKA toks2008 wants to have his cake and eat it. now he has seen the nonfeminist Cinderella5 he is bashing her. I thought men were supposed to be the head and providers abi una don tire mtseew.

proudafrogal:
the nairaland chief misogynist AKA toks2008 wants to have his cake and eat it. now he has seen the nonfeminist Cinderella5 he is bashing her. I thought men were supposed to be the head and providers abi una don tire mtseew.

the guy is confused.

Cinderella5:
the guy is confused.

I tot we were done trashing this issue in a mature way so why this?
Please learn some level of civility.

Toks2008:



I tot we were done trashing this issue in a mature way so why this?

Please learn some level of civility.

k

Cinderella5 is right guys. Trust me, that's how life works. Been there, done that, and I have the tee.
Start letting your money do the work and you'll wonder why you ever did it another way.
#experience