chei
the conversations  are what did u eat today, what did u cook, how was sunday, what did u do in church just some of the painful conversations

are u kidding, why should what one eats or cook be something to talk about, or is there something romantic about that that one is missing
dont even cook

where u meet this mofo

a friend of mine hooked me up
but damn the dude is scaring the $hit outa me,

Its apparent two of you don't have common area of interest and there is no chemistry. If either existed between you topics for discussion won't be an issue. The average Nigerian man is a versatile conversationalist and is always willing to discuss anything. My advice to you is to try another!

ok

@ Topic
Rotflmao!

Black_Revo:

Why don't you raise topics for discuss instead of you waiting for him to do the talking?

I have come to the conclusion that it is mostly naija babes that raise this issue of lame conversations about naija guys whereas women from other parts of the world will always tell you that we are great talkers.

God bless o jare!

@poster
If the conversation is boring then bring up a more interesting topic. Its like watching TV: if the channel is boring don't complain, just change it.

By the way, why do we keep hearing Nigerian girls talk about dating Nigerian men as if they are the worst people on earth?
I don't think its nice at all.

^^^^^^ elecktra, biko easy o.

@ topic, so what would you rather his conversation were about?

@Nich
Probably hair styles and who is dating who! The usual girls talks.

Hahahaha Talk about Politics, that should get him going, Nigerian men are passionate about politics.

Ebonyeyes:

Hahahaha Talk about Politics, that should get him going, Nigerian men are passionate about politics.

ha ha

You want the guy to talk about climate change eh! or tell you his sexual escapades?

T-charged:

@Nich
Probably hair styles and who is dating who! The usual girls talks.

    

Ebonyeyes:

Hahahaha Talk about Politics, that should get him going, Nigerian men are passionate about politics.

     really?

naija_swag:

You want the guy to talk about climate change eh! or tell you his sexual escapades?

The poor guy should have looked at your NL profile and see that your are a nym~pho and realize that sex is healthy for you and talk a lot about it.

Anatha Naija Dude strikes again!!

Una go kill me ooo.

LOL Everytime the ladies complain

nich:

    

     really?

Yes, every Nigerian man is an untrained politician or football manager Poster, talk about football or politics you wouldnt be able to shut him up. Oh and your favorite club better be Arsenal too

Ebonyeyes:

Yes, every Nigerian man is an untrained politician or football manager Poster, talk about football or politics you wouldnt be able to shut him up. Oh and your favorite club better be Arsenal too

really? u aint met me! i dwell on a different planet. free from the soccer maddness. just enjoy the matches.

i heard arsenal is above chelsea right now on the league table. but for how long?     

nich:

really? u aint met me! i dwell on a different planet. free from the soccer maddness. just enjoy the matches. i heard arsenal is above chelsea right now on the league table. but for how long?      

@Poster what did I tell you? I dont know the league table hun, I just watch it if people are watching

Ebonyeyes:

@Poster what did I tell you? I dont know the league table hun, I just watch it if people are watching

voila! same here dearie. same here!

nich:

voila! same here dearie. same here!

Uhmmm I see. So what do you do with your time then?

i go a-hunting!

you can't blame the guy. not everyone is good in that department.
give the guy some days put him on a trial and see if he improves

nich:

i go a-hunting!

Man-ho

Ebonyeyes:

Man-ho

     hell nooooo! work alot actually. luv listening to good music. luv chillin with peepz. luv making people happie.

anyway, it's time to take the fun offline. see y'all sometime!       ^{let the weekend begin! have yourselves a luvly one!}

you're obviously not birds of a feather, and I wonder why this friend of yours hooked you up?

If you're expecting him to check out your front and back then take a roll in the hay with you, but meanwhile[b] he's[/b] thinking you'll pull up the most relevant bible verse and also discuss the dish of the day to match his conversation, then you're both at a crossroads, I should think.

Something has to give or you bid each other adieu. I'd advise the latter but we all know how this will end.

nich:


     hell nooooo! work alot actually. luv listening to good music. luv chillin with peepz. luv making people happie.

anyway, it's time to take the fun offline. see y'all sometime!       ^{let the weekend begin! have yourselves a luvly one!}

Good for you, have a lovely weekend.

@ poster

A word of advice for you. Women are talkatives while Men are listeners. Go by that rule and I assure you, you won't fail

The conversations would naturally get better soon. But at this point, you might as well stop talking to him, I don't think he'll like a girl that brings his business out on a public forum.

I also don't like when the task of "being funny" and keeping the conversation going should be on the guy alone. I would never have a relationship with any girl that thinks this way.

lovemoi2:

chei
the conversations  are what did u eat today, what did u cook, how was sunday, what did u do in church just some of the painful conversations

are u kidding, why should what one eats or cook be something to talk about, or is there something romantic about that that one is missing
dont even cook

you know only a crazy person has conversations by themself. if you were so disturbed by the boring convo, you should have taken charge of the conversation to stare it towards what you are more interested in talking about besides people get nervous when they are getting to know each other so you end up sounding corny. I say if he is agood guy give him a chance still