ZarZar:
True. Pathological liars.

ZarZar:
True. Pathological liars.

Martin0:
majority but few will,

ZarZar:


Yeah, but the majority ruin it for the few. Because some of us now think, if a man's lips are moving, he's probably lying about something.

smartty68:

I kinda like you because you're very out spoken

ZarZar:


Awwww, thanks you

ZarZar:


Yeah, but the majority ruin it for the few. Because some of us now think, if a man's lips are moving, he's probably lying about something.

BiafraBushBoy:
says who?

Martin0:
yeah that how life is,so u see,well but I think for u specially you should know who's got inn for seriousness

ZarZar:


And how does one figure that one out, who is serious?

In the past, I dated 3 guys who turned out to be liars. The 2nd one was actually living with another woman at the time we were dating. He left his phone on the charger to go to the store. It rang several times. The caller was a woman. I didn't pick it up out of respect but I was suspicious as hell. Finally, she sent a text. I read it. That's how I found out his lies. He had left a jacket, house keys & his phone, when he left to go to the store. I took all three items & tossed them out the window. When he came back, he knocked, expecting me to open the door. I told him to go home to *girl's name* He said, please wait, let me explain. I said, no. He said, OK let me in so I can get my stuff. I said, go fetch them downstairs He was furious to realize I chucked his junk out the window. Weeks went & he kept trying to get the relationship back, but I was done.

3rd guy. When we met, I told him about what the 2nd one did & I specifically asked him if he had a GF, because I didn't wanna deal with another liar. The guy looked me straight in the eye & said, no. Time reveals all things, so I later found out he was also lying. His case was worse because it involved kids. Who doesn't that! This one really hurt me. In conclusion, I take anything a man says with a grain of salt because from experience, many are incapable of telling the truth. They wanna trap you in a web of lies. Luckily for me, I can switch off emotions, the moment I realize a liar is a liar. All 3 ended in a dramatic way. The audacity was incredible, considering that they were the ones with secrets, not me!

ZarZar:


And how does one figure that one out, who is serious?

In the past, I dated 3 guys who turned out to be liars. The 2nd one was actually living with another woman at the time we were dating. He left his phone on the charger to go to the store. It rang several times. The caller was a woman. I didn't pick it up out of respect but I was suspicious as hell. Finally, she sent a text. I read it. That's how I found out his lies. He had left a jacket, house keys & his phone, when he left to go to the store. I took all three items & tossed them out the window. When he came back, he knocked, expecting me to open the door. I told him to go home to *girl's name* He said, please wait, let me explain. I said, no. He said, OK let me in so I can get my stuff. I said, go fetch them downstairs He was furious to realize I chucked his junk out the window. Weeks went & he kept trying to get the relationship back, but I was done.

3rd guy. When we met, I told him about what the 2nd one did & I specifically asked him if he had a GF, because I didn't wanna deal with another liar. The guy looked me straight in the eye & said, no. Time reveals all things, so I later found out he was also lying. His case was worse because it involved kids. Who does that! This one really hurt me. In conclusion, I take anything a man says with a grain of salt because from experience, many are incapable of telling the truth. They wanna trap you in a web of lies. Luckily for me, I can switch off emotions, the moment I realize a liar is a liar. All 3 ended in a dramatic way. The audacity was incredible, considering that they were the ones with secrets, not me!

Jayceon:
yohh seems like there ain't nothing you haven't seen when it comes to relationships

I think we need to elect you to serve as the president of Nairaland's Romance Land Division

ZarZar:


Lol, I'm sure there're things I haven't experienced. The pattern for me as far as guys are concerned remains the same, it's always the liars or the crazy ones. Sometimes a lethal combo of the two in one person I have suffered

Martin0:
so u ve decided to remain single or what

ZarZar:


No, I'm in a relationship. But I feel it's my last because I don't see myself dating ever again. I feel like an 80-year-old inside because of all the drama & whatnot. I'm tired lol.

ZarZar:


Lol, I'm sure there're things I haven't experienced. The pattern for me as far as guys are concerned remains the same, it's always the liars or the crazy ones. Sometimes a lethal combo of the two in one person I have suffered

Martin0:
Infact so many things involved in a relationship that gives you the idea it moving to a new level like (My mom always used to say “fighting makes a
relationship stronger.” The jury’s still out on whether
or not I believe her, but I do know that if you’ve
gotten through a blow up fight without breaking up,
it means you’re both committed to each other for the
foreseeable future).

Martin0:
hahahahaha I understand well abeg don't be tired ooo whoever is ur man will remain ur man.

ZarZar:


Well, I don't doubt that the guys loved me because I'm not the easiest person to be in a relationship with lol. Plus most of these relationships were long-term, lasting over two years each. I'm not a clingy or demanding person, so they were able to get away with a lot because I like my space. So if we didn't spend every minute together, I didn't care. There were a lot of other things inbetween too, particularly with the 3rd guy. We had an on again/off again relationship that was kind of obsessive We used to fight, he'd stop talking to me for a while or he'd call for days just to cuss me out. LMFAO. He was nuts! TBH, I don't know what a healthy relationship is supposed to be like because majority of them had an element of drama & were unhealthy going by what I've read on relationships.

ZarZar:


Meh.