Jayceon:
Well even so,I believe your instincts get stronger with every broken relationship.Judging from your resumé,I know by now you can tell when you are dealing with a liar and can draw conclusion as for where the relationship will lead to in the future just by looking at a guy's face.isn't it so Punky?

Jace, it's really not that easy because you can never know if someone is a liar for sure or if perhaps you're unfairly judging them through a filter of suspicion. Therefore, the only thing you can do is risk another relationship with a potential liar & find out the truth later on. You can't just write a person off from the onset, without giving them the opportunity to prove themselves. Trust me, I've done it. I used to go primarily by instincts & eliminated a lot of guys on the basis of what I felt. Apparently that isn't healthy either. You gotta put yourself out there & not shut people out, according to them shrinks.

iamDaisy:
Davidgr ey are u in a relationship? Kikikiki

you no dey tire?

Martin0:
well I guess u ve understand what relationship is like,it all in ur court to stick and get what u want from it and above all u can build your man to suit ur personality,men is a different being so it's best for ladies to build it to adapt to it personality likewise same to men...

Ain't nobody have time for that.

itsJude:
you no dey tire?

18million naira fraudster how is my business your business? Iranu

iamDaisy:
18million naira fraudster how is my business your business? Iranu

make i go wear uniform? be like say sense dey pain u

ZarZar:


Jace, it's really not that easy because you can never know if someone is a liar for sure or if perhaps you're unfairly judging them through a filter of suspicion. Therefore, the only thing you can do is risk another relationship with a potential liar & find out the truth later on. You can't just write a person off from the onset, without giving them the opportunity to prove themselves. Trust me, I've done it. I used to go primarily by instincts & eliminated a lot of guys on the basis of what I felt. Apparently that isn't healthy either. You gotta put yourself out there & not shut people out, according to them shrinks.

So true...no more needs to be said

ZarZar:


Lol, I'm sure there're things I haven't experienced. The pattern for me as far as guys are concerned remains the same, it's always the liars or the crazy ones. Sometimes a lethal combo of the two in one person I have suffered

LMFAO @ I have suffered.

Lionessza:








LMFAO @ I have suffered.

They did me strong thing

How are you today, mkhaya?

I think guys lie about being single just to satisfy their addiction. Anyway, there are still a handful of guys that are very truthful

ZarZar:


They did me strong thing

How are you today, mkhaya?

Lol, I see that.



I'm good but still recovering from some brutal blows this guy gave to my ego in the morning . Here i was arguing with him and thinking I was going to have the last word and boy was I wrong, he left me wanting to commit suicide like the woman below.

Lol, anyway how's you mkhayisto?.

Hmmmm

smartty68:

I kinda like you because you're very out spoken

outspoken for chattttt easy broda

Lionessza:










Lol, I see that.



I'm good but still recovering from some brutal blows this guy gave to my ego in the morning . Here i was arguing with him and thinking I was going to have the last word and boy was I wrong, he left me wanting to commit suicide like the woman below.

Lol, anyway how's you mkhayisto?.

Hahaha. Hade. You win some, you lose some. Uzoba strong

I'm good wethu, nothing much.

ZarZar:


Hahaha. Hade. You win some, you lose some. Uzoba strong

I'm good wethu, nothing much.

Hahahaha, Ja ndisele amanzi ndaxola.

Sure girl.

Lionessza:








Hahahaha, Ja ndisele amanzi ndaxola.

Sure girl.

Ninamanzi daar? Here is vokol is nix since this morning. Thank God there was a 5 litre ye-sparkling from last time something like this happened. Ndivase ngayo, ihlwahlwaza

ZarZar:


And how does one figure that one out, who is serious?

In the past, I dated 3 guys who turned out to be liars. The 2nd one was actually living with another woman at the time we were dating. He left his phone on the charger to go to the store. It rang several times. The caller was a woman. I didn't pick it up out of respect but I was suspicious as hell. Finally, she sent a text. I read it. That's how I found out his lies. He had left a jacket, house keys & his phone, when he left to go to the store. I took all three items & tossed them out the window. When he came back, he knocked, expecting me to open the door. I told him to go home to *girl's name* He said, please wait, let me explain. I said, no. He said, OK let me in so I can get my stuff. I said, go fetch them downstairs He was furious to realize I chucked his junk out the window. Weeks went & he kept trying to get the relationship back, but I was done.

3rd guy. When we met, I told him about what the 2nd one did & I specifically asked him if he had a GF, because I didn't wanna deal with another liar. The guy looked me straight in the eye & said, no. Time reveals all things, so I later found out he was also lying. His case was worse because it involved kids. Who does that! This one really hurt me. In conclusion, I take anything a man says with a grain of salt because from experience, many are incapable of telling the truth. They wanna trap you in a web of lies. Luckily for me, I can switch off emotions, the moment I realize a liar is a liar. All 3 ended in a dramatic way. The audacity was incredible, considering that they were the ones with secrets, not me!

so wats d latest nw?...can I b d 4th guy...Lolz.

I no go liar liar 4u,#i promise... Lolz

ZarZar:


Ninamanzi daar? Here is vokol is nix since this morning. Thank God there was a 5 litre ye-sparkling from last time something like this happened. Ndivase ngayo, ihlwahlwaza

LMFAO @ uvase ngawo ehlwahlwaza. That's hectic, you sound like my friends in Cape Town, they are complaining about the same thing shame but that side the situation is getting worse. We have no such problem in my area , bathi what's the problem?.

Randy91:




so wats d latest nw?...can I b d 4th guy...Lolz.

I no go liar liar 4u,#i promise... Lolz

Wait until they start to sell lie detectors at stores I'll hook you on one right after you say "Hello", knowing that whatever comes after a greeting is probably lies & more lies

ZarZar:


Wait until they start to sell lie detectors at stores I'll hook you on one right after you say "Hello", knowing that whatever comes after a greeting is probably lies & more lies

Lwkmd!!!!

the 4th guy dey try oooo ooooo
after 1st spent 2yrs on that ur body
2nd guy,2yrs
3rd guy,3yrs,

4th guy nw,leftover of 3rd guy.....##chai


##TeamVirginLadies###

Lionessza:







LMFAO @ uvase ngawo ehlwahlwaza. That's hectic, you sound like my friends in Cape Town, they are complaining about the same thing shame but that side the situation is getting worse. We have no such problem in my area , bathi what's the problem?.

Oh no, this is serious mos! Yesterday mna I just saw trenches. Caba they were busy during the day besomba. So I'm not sure if it's as the result of that or a much bigger issue like leyo. Yho, safa bubumdaka like aba

Randy91:



Lwkmd!!!!

the 4th guy dey try oooo ooooo
after 1st spent 2yrs on that ur body
2nd guy,2yrs
3rd guy,3yrs,

4th guy nw,leftover of 3rd guy.....##chai


##TeamVirginLadies###

Lol, have it your way.

tosyne2much:
I think guys lie about being single just to satisfy their addiction. Anyway, there are still a handful of guys that are very truthful

Yeah, a handful and trust me this truthful guys are loners sulked in their world and one last thing, they are emotionless, they careless about anyother thing

Randy91:



Lwkmd!!!!

the 4th guy dey try oooo ooooo
after 1st spent 2yrs on that ur body
2nd guy,2yrs
3rd guy,3yrs,

4th guy nw,leftover of 3rd guy.....##chai


##TeamVirginLadies###

lol..chai!!

ZarZar:


Oh no, this is serious mos! Yesterday man I just saw trenches. Caba they were busy during the day besomba. So I'm not sure if it's as the result of that or a much bigger issue like leyo. Yho, safa bubumdaka like aba

Oh , perhaps they are fixing something in that area coz if it was anything serious it would be all over the media like the Cpt one , abo they are fuckd tjo . Yho! I doubt it would get to that point , aba kaloku eyabo i case ngu black black mancanyiwe , unyathela ikwali every morning ayonto ..I'm sure umaspala is on top of it, maybe by the time you get home uzosela amanzi angahlwahlwaziyo

ZarZar:


Well, I don't doubt that the guys loved me because I'm not the easiest person to be in a relationship with lol. Plus most of these relationships were long-term, lasting over two years each. I'm not a clingy or demanding person, so they were able to get away with a lot because I like my space. So if we didn't spend every minute together, I didn't care. There were a lot of other things inbetween too, particularly with the 3rd guy. We had an on again/off again relationship that was kind of obsessive We used to fight, he'd stop talking to me for a while or he'd call for days just to cuss me out. LMFAO. He was nuts! TBH, I don't know what a healthy relationship is supposed to be like because majority of them had an element of drama & were unhealthy going by what I've read on relationships.

This is why she said I'm sitting on the fence

Really like d babe buh nobody seem to understand ion got no energy for dramas, reason why I would let me get away with their shit. No time!!


***Please don't try to understand this too, made no sense to me as well

Lionessza:





Oh , perhaps they are fixing something in that area coz if it was anything serious it would be all over the media like the Cpt one , abo they are fuckd tjo . Yho! I doubt it would get to that point , aba kaloku eyabo i case ngu black black mancanyiwe , unyathela ikwali every morning ayonto ..I'm sure umaspala is on top of it, maybe by the time you get home uzosela amanzi angahlwahlwaziyo

LMFAO usile. I hope so. In the morning I thought maybe we need another nogumbe Is that what they called Noah's flood, nne? Yona leyo. Chin without amanzi kaloku you can't even think straight. The things we take for granted as people, I swear

Margy:


Yeah, a handful and trust me this truthful guys are loners sulked in their world and one last thing, they are emotionless, they careless about anyother thing

Permit me to say that ladies don't even appreciate these truthful guys probably because they don't know how to tell these ladies what they want to hear

tosyne2much:
Permit me to say that ladies don't even appreciate these truthful guys probably because they don't know how to tell these ladies what they want to hear

Ehm..ehm.. many of the ladies want the truth, ladies want to hear the truth..guys need to study ladies temperament and spill the truth truthfully...
how else do i explain? boys&lies islike 5&6

iamDaisy:
David/grey are u in a relationship? Kikikiki

Yes!!

Margy:


Ehm..ehm.. many of the ladies want the truth, ladies want to hear the truth..guys need to study ladies temperament and spill the truth truthfully...
how else do i explain? boys&lies islike 5&6

Let me take myself as an example, why do you think some ladies of this forum throw shades at me for no good reason, but embrace the ones who encourage them to keep doing what's not right? Because I always dish out the truth no matter how ugly it may seem which many of them find offensive.

So my dear, ladies don't really appreciate truthful guys that's why they easily fall in the hand of liars

tosyne2much:
Let me take myself as an example, why do you think some ladies of this forum throw shades at me for no good reason, but embrace the ones who encourage them to keep doing what's not right? Because I always dish out the truth no matter how ugly it may seem which many of them find offensive.

So my dear, ladies don't really appreciate truthful guys that's why they easily fall in the hand of liars

Who say we don't? ladies do, most times maybe mute.. aahh! i have a truthful bf but he is a loner i'm sure you a loner too.

tosyne2much:
Permit me to say that ladies don't even appreciate these truthful guys probably because they don't know how to tell these ladies what they want to hear

Fact