your broda nah fake guy

Any lady that value her respect and want the guy to stay should make the first move when it it comes settling bills.

according to you!!!

@wande: oh pleaseeee!!!!

wande,are you a scrub?no offence abeg....why must a girl pay for you in order to gain your respect?Thats really sick!!!

oh well, thats tough. If I was the girl, am gon pay just to save us the embarrasment, but i aint gon go out with him ever again. I think he ought to make proper arrangements before taking the girl out to a restaurant. He could have just asked the girl to stay over at his house and they can order something or at least cook something instead of him making a fool of himself taking her to a restaurant. That is what I call bad. There is nothing wrong with a girl paying the bill, but this is a first date for crying out loud!

thank you very much!!!

grainger:

I think he ought to make proper arrangements before taking the girl out to a restaurant. He could have just asked the girl to stay over at his house and they can order something or at least cook something instead of him making a fool of himself taking her to a restaurant.

or as my dear cousin said, do it as they do in some of those Nigerian movies, go find a nice spot in the forest and sing love songs to each other.................then every one is happy.
i'm just kidding

Words of an elder.

and every male in the house say AMEN to that!!!

snazzy, Ocho and co sher una don hear wetin them talk?

oh i sure did but i'm still taking my stand though

All u guys in da house, whats all the noise 'bout sef? Is it too much to CONTINOUSLY pay on your dates?

i'll rather prefer to share the bill 50-50 if it's ok for him. but men and their egos..uhhhh

prettyH:

All u guys in da house, whats all the noise 'bout sef? Is it too much to CONTINOUSLY pay on your dates?

Yes


Hey mav, hit me on the yaoo later aight, I gats to go out now

The woman shoudl also make an effort occasionally to treat the guy..

We also like to pampered and spoiled you know

whoever asked for the date is to pay the restaurant bill

This isn't all about money....its about the sentiment.

Lets not forget that in all this talk about money afterall when taking out a girl I'm conducting a financial transaction but making a gesture from the heart!!

Well, you can't asked someone out and expect the person to foot the bill, really it is not realistic

All this resturant date, wear suite or getting a cruise on the first date is not my thing. Just go to library or maybe agree to meet in a park or something. EVen outside on a road side, seat down and just laugh. If u two like urself then u can proceed to spending money. that is just how it works for me. if u like call me a seek ass.

I agree with u guys if a guy ask a girl out on a date. he should pay. I had that experience, i went to a restaurant with a guy n he gave the man at the restaurant his card n the man said , there was no money on the card. how embarassing?. He only had 20pounds with him and d meal n everything costed 30pounds. Thank God i had money with me. D guy was a proper Golddigger. he even said he would pay me back. liar, he never did. How much is 10pounds. chicken-change. am so over d guy of guy like dat. i will never date a guy dat i'm richer than.

man of coruse,woman never pay

no man gonna tell thire woman to pay, than that man must be real p.i.m.

do you really think men should always pay?
you know they kinda often use the excuse: "OOPS! i forgot my wallet at home."

if I were the woman i'd:
1. pay the bill - if it's the first time
2. pay it and have him pay half or all as soon as he gets back his wallet
3. leave him there to wash the dishes untill he has paid his debts!

The man.

I don't pay for men. Once I get to know you and you have courted me properly, I may offer to pay once in a while. Also I am considerate woman. I am not the kind to find the most expensive place to go. I will chose a moderate restaurant. In addition, you could include some free events. I know the man has bills too. However,I would never take a man seriously if he expects woman to pay for him. In my eyes, he is a male, not a man. You should not date, if you don't have the means to do so. Such a man will always be my buddy, when I am not involved in a real relationship. I mean he will always be my platonic buddy. He is someone I hang out with, when there is nothing else to do. With this sort of guy I don't mind paying my own way. Because I don't see him a desirable suitor or potential lover. He is strickly in the friend category.

How can I respect you as the man when you are not acting like "the" man. There is nothing more attractive that a real man.

I simply think the asker outer should do the paying . . .

whoever did the asking should do the paying.

It's necesarily the person asking for a date.

anyone of them can pay.

It depend on who is inviting who to the date, if i invite a man , why not i will pay, except he insist.