I had an argument with my colleagues (guys) over this issue of settling down with a widow or a single mum,supposed that is the only option they have, l couldn't believe it almost all of them went for the widow their reason been that she has tasted marriage and have had the experience,I was the only one that went for the single mum , I was viewing it from the angle of been clean from every marital vow that makes her bethroted to any man whether directly or indirectly due to the fact that m from the part of the country where a lady goes through some traditional rites before been accepted to be married .So guys over to u ,ladies in the house which of the options 'll u allow ur brother choose assuming he came to u for advice.

double-mom

I would go for the most attractive/good one out of the two.... Whether with kids or widow would be unimportant.

Mehn!!! I don't want a widow abeg. It may be a curse from her village dat any husband she marries must die...abeg I like my life

MrBrownJay1:
I would go for the most attractive/good one out of the two.... Whether with kids or widow would be unimportant.

Thanks

Single mom

I had rather go for single mom

Let me be harsh but sincere.its like choosing between the deep blue sea and the devil.
The danger of a single mother is that she is ready for a break up anytime and might not be a" for better for worse wife"
A widow(I guess a young lady) might have a bad luck lucking around her.

Technical conclusion
All are single mothers.(whether by commission or fate)

Much as I don't like the idea of ladies this days being proud of being a single mother...

Conclusion
I wil go for the one with the best character,best appeal to my senses.Looks might be considered.

lefulefu:
I had rather go for single mom

I definitely know u'll go for single mom m not disappointed at all.

Ayam not understanding ooo
Is the widow not a single mum too?

Alero3Arubi:
Ayam not understanding ooo
Is the widow not a single mum too?

the difference is that one of them has been married before while the other is devoid of ever been married.

1234IKECHhukwu

if there's a third option - Porn. I'll choose that.

But if there is no third option, the Widow.

It's the sad reality, it's not fun to raise another Man's Kid(s).

mhizesther:
Single mom

Happy birthday...

I think guys saying Widow are just guys who are insecure about another niqqa ramming their wife like rubbing north and south poles of a magnet...

Lol.