This pressure ain't from anyone but from within.. It's always such a bad feeling.. It'd seems i'm stucked and i need to try someone else either i love my partner or not. Since birth the best have done is 4 months. Though i don't double date, when i'm dating i always make sure to play my role very well.. Have quit with lots of ladies who has been there for me and i don't know what else to do.. I receive threats alot from my ex that it has become a part of me. So to avoid story that touch next, i think i need help or is this how guys feels like maybe it ain't just me. Buh seriously, i'm tired i want to keep a serious relationship too like my friends.. When i'm in a relationship, i must be pressurized from within to quit the relationship and rest for a month then start again.. It's becoming something else. What do i do please someone?

The answer lies within you bro....
Dem don sack d village pples dem.....
U gonna be alright...

On a more serious note,
What kinda pressure from within?

dayleke:
On a more serious note,
What kinda pressure from within?

just like a stupid voice or something from within forcing me to quit. I don't even understand it trust me.

My brother, some people begin to lose interest rapidly the moment they start dating someone.

Maybe it might just be that you always think relationship is not worth the whole hype, hence, the pressure to quite

paybak:
This pressure ain't from anyone but from within.. It's always such a bad feeling.. It'd seems i'm stucked and i need to try someone else either i love my partner or not. Since birth the best have done is 4 months. Though i don't double date, when i'm dating i always make sure to play my role very well.. Have quit with lots of ladies who has been there for me and i don't know what else to do.. I receive threats alot from my ex that it has become a part of me. So to avoid story that touch next, i think i need help or is this how guys feels like maybe it ain't just me. Buh seriously, i'm tired i want to keep a serious relationship too like my friends.. When i'm in a relationship, i must be pressurized from within to quit the relationship and rest for a month then start again.. It's becoming something else. What do i do please someone?

You already know the problem. And the problem is not a problem.

But you are the problem! Deal with yourself bro. You are the problem here.

ikp120:
You already know the problem. And the problem is not a problem.

But you are the problem! Deal with yourself bro. You are the problem here.

are you a rapper bro? This seems more of a rhyme than an advice... Buh sincerely i don't understand you. How can someone be the problem?

paybak:
This pressure ain't from anyone but from within.. It's always such a bad feeling.. It'd seems i'm stucked and i need to try someone else either i love my partner or not. Since birth the best have done is 4 months. Though i don't double date, when i'm dating i always make sure to play my role very well.. Have quit with lots of ladies who has been there for me and i don't know what else to do.. I receive threats alot from my ex that it has become a part of me. So to avoid story that touch next, i think i need help or is this how guys feels like maybe it ain't just me. Buh seriously, i'm tired i want to keep a serious relationship too like my friends.. When i'm in a relationship, i must be pressurized from within to quit the relationship and rest for a month then start again.. It's becoming something else. What do i do please someone?

Your spiritual wife don't wanna let go. Go for deliverance

tosyne2much:
My brother, some people begin to lose interest rapidly the moment they start dating someone.

Maybe it might just be that you always think relationship is not worth the whole hype, hence, the pressure to quite

maybe.. Buh even when i still want to it remain same.

paybak:
just like a stupid voice or something from within forcing me to quit. I don't even understand it trust me.

Spirit wife

Hmmm, I thought i'm d only one experiencing this. I used to have this feeling like I can get more why settle for this person, my partner can be this or that even when I knw no one is 80% perfect nt to talk of a 100%, would suddenly go tired and look for flimsy excuses to call d relationship a quit. I forcefully dated my ex for 4yrs(was surprised as my past relationships lasted for at most 6monts, but in d end I still found an excuse to let go .) Was told by a pastor it's spiritual husband wahala I don't believe in all those spiritual husband or wife thingy so maybe I can gt an insight from this post on how to resolve the issue

Nma27:
Your spiritual wife don't wanna let go. Go for deliverance

have done more than enough.

Nma27:
Spirit wife

far from it. I can't have a spiritual wife at this stage of my life. I'm highly involved with jesus christ.

paybak:
have done more than enough.

far from it. I can't have a spiritual wife at this stage of my life. I'm highly involved with jesus christ.

Maybe u meant to b a Reverend father. U gat a calling

paybak:
are you a rapper bro? This seems more of a rhyme than an advice... Buh sincerely i don't understand you. How can someone be the problem?

C'mon man, isn't it obvious that you are just making the same type of stupid decisions, and you know that they're stupid decisions, but you still continue making the stupid decisions?

If you keep cutting yourself with razor and dey ask why you dey bleed, no be craze be that ni?

Bros, na only you fit talk to yourself

Nyckeh:
Hmmm, I thought i'm d only one experiencing this. I used to have this feeling like I can get more why settle for this person, my partner can be this or that even when I knw no one is 80% perfect nt to talk of a 100%, would suddenly go tired and look for flimsy excuses to call d relationship a quit. I forcefully dated my ex for 4yrs(was surprised as my past relationships lasted for at most 6monts, but in d end I still found an excuse to let go .) Was told by a pastor it's spiritual husband wahala I don't believe in all those spiritual husband or wife thingy so maybe I can gt an insight from this post on how to resolve the issue

i don't think it has to do with any spiritual husband or something.. It's just within. There's a way out of it and we'd get it hopefully.

Nma27:
Your spiritual wife don't wanna let go. Go for deliverance

Superstition belief!

Maxi112:
Superstition belief!

Its real my dear

ikp120:
C'mon man, isn't it obvious that you are just making the same type of stupid decisions, and you know that they're stupid decisions, but you still continue making the stupid decisions?

If you keep cutting yourself with razor and dey ask why you dey bleed, no be craze be that ni?

Bros, na only you fit talk to yourself

bro, sometimes we keep repeating same mistakes/decisions.. And if we are asked why.. We really do not know. It's in all human. This is just my own aspect.. Some people is having s3x with hiv infected person all the time and some bringing people together for suicide bombing. All i'm saying is that there's one decision every human is always making without a reasonable reason. Don't bother to ask them why, they don't know themselves. How/way to get out of mine is what i'm seraching for..

Nma27:
Maybe u meant to b a Reverend father. U gat a calling

lol.. Reverend father? It can't work after all my fornications. Have kpansing more than i can count that becoming a reverend father can't work anymore.

my brother you are nt normal

Nma27:
Its real my dear

Have you seen one?


once had of it the day my sis took me to one church like that, it was was very funny seeing how a pst cast and bind spiritual wife from a guy seated next to me all in the name of deliverance


I don't believe such exist

Op if your story is true then your problem is not so strange or peculiar to you

Many young men and women often go into relationship for the wrong reasons
You know for cuteness of the guy or girl, the sexy body of the girl or guy, the money of the guy or popularity of the girl

Forgetting that relationship comprises of a lot of things apart from sex, good looks and money. They forget after these things, you still have to stay with each other

Hence the need for comparability
Now I suggest before going into the next relationship you list the things that you makes feel alive
For example
List music, list reading or anything you like
Then find a girl that will do some of those things with you so you don't loose interest

mofeoluwadassah:
my brother you are nt normal

lol.. Beautiful hadassah(what sorta name is that?) why do you say that?

Bro I weak for you, old remain single forever. Don't go hurt person pikin again hehehehe

sunshineG:
Op if your story is true then your problem is not so strange or peculiar to you

Many young men and women often go into relationship for the wrong reasons
You know for cuteness of the guy or girl, the sexy body of the girl or guy, the money of the guy or popularity of the girl

Forgetting that relationship comprises of a lot of things apart from sex, good looks and money. They forget after these things, you still have to stay with each other

Hence the need for comparability
Now I suggest before going into the next relationship you list the things that you makes feel alive
For example
List music, list reading or anything you like
Then find a girl that will do some of those things with you so you don't loose interest

thanks for the advice.. I'd try it.. I love that flower(dp) though.

Prettythicksmi:
Bro I weak for you, old remain single forever. Don't go hurt person pikin again hehehehe

even me weak for myself.. Lol.. No more hurting.. That's why i'm here seeking for help.

paybak:
even me weak for myself.. Lol.. No more hurting.. That's why i'm here seeking for help.

Lol,maybe u haven't seen someone u truly love or maybe relationship is not for u.Get urself a lady that would agree to be your baby mama.hehehehe

paybak:
thanks for the advice.. I'd try it.. I love that flower(dp) though.

thanks bro

Maybe you haven't found the person you feel you should commit to . It's a good thing you don't drag these ladies along making them believe you are still interested. When you find the right person for you , you will not want to let them go . I just hope for your sake she will feel the same . No one here can tell you what's wrong with you , only you can do that by doing some introspection. Perhaps you lose interest because you feel you deserve better ?.perhaps you have standards or expectations no one can live up to ? Perhaps commitment scares you ?.

Op you are an introvert.



If you want a serious relationship get someone who is seriously in need of a serious relationship and matured enough to acknowledge that some people (in your case) needs some time off in such committment and you should try as much to be open in your relationships.


Talk talk talk and more talk

Prettythicksmi:
Lol,maybe u haven't seen someone u truly love or maybe relationship is not for u.Get urself a lady that would agree to be your baby mama.hehehehe

i tried that once.. Like almost searched the entire universe.. They all wanna stay not just give a baby.. I'd have so much love to do it that way seriously buh finding a baby mama is hard as hell.. Well maybe it's because i ain't a celebrity.

Goodlyhrt:
Op you are an introvert.



If you want a serious relationship get someone who is seriously in need of a serious relationship and matured enough to acknowledge that some people (in your case) needs some time off in such committment and you should try as much to be open in your relationships.


Talk talk talk and more talk

you so much know how to read minds through texts.. Tiri gbosa for you.. I once was an introvert buh not anymore.. I'd try everything you just said. Thanks much. I'm believing you are an introvert too.