Abeg Send her number to me.

LEBEfirstson:
I have been talking with this lady since 2016 we are friends and I have told her how I feel about her and she admits that she feels same way too for me.. I'm kind of guy that doesn't use money to get girls so I don't try to impress her with money and I made that obvious from the start. Now I visited her in school because she's a student and intentionally didn't get her anything(you know like beverages and stuffs like that) just to know what her reaction would be and before the visit, she had been saying that she's running out of food stuffs that she can't wait to finish her exams so she can head back home to sort herself out, but I absolutely ignored all that lol.. this very lady later told me SHE USED HER LAST MONEY to prepare that delicious meal she prepared for me when I visited her. She said that to me because I was having argument with her about her love for me and she mentioned that and I was shocked. The funny part on that argument is when she said & I quote " yes I love you but I have a problem with you... you are stingy" and I laughed. So nairalanders, is she worth keeping? Is she really a wife material? Please advice

Nobody wants a stingy and selfish mate, male or female. What's wrong with buying her beverages and snacks, not only are you stingy and selfish , you are also inconsiderate.
You should have felt pretty low after eating a meal that she prepared for you.

khiaa:

Nobody wants a stingy and selfish mate, male or female. What's wrong with buying her beverages and snacks, not only are you stingy and selfish , you are also inconsiderate.
You should have felt pretty low after eating a meal that she prepared for you.

I totally understand your point here but I still maintain that i did what I did intentionally and I knew I was going to send her money afterwards. Of course I later did and she was happier. Are you a slay queen?

LEBEfirstson:
.. my brother we dey quarrel before? Don't judge me like that �. Girls don deal with me, the ones I spent money on don't value it. Of course I do send her recharge cards and money in her account.. just for that visit.. haba you dey vex ooo

I sincerely understand the angle you are coming from, however, you know she's a student, which means her source of income is limited at this stage. She told you she used her last kobo to prepare for you. My brother, you messed up totally. Lady of this days will never even use her money to cook even if she has million talk less of someone that uses her last kobo. You seriously need to make amendment with immediate effect.

Oga boss don't tell me you left her place without giving her some money because if you didn't I will automatically tag you as the most insensitive and stingy person on this forum, from what you said I guess you should hold her tight she is the type every good guy will want.

Afamed:

I sincerely understand the angle you are coming from, however, you know she's a student, which means her source of income is limited at this stage. She told you she used her last kobo to prepare for you. My brother, you messed up totally. Lady of this days will never even use her money to cook even if she has million talk less of someone that uses her last kobo. You seriously need to make amendment with immediate effect.

I really did and I quite appreciate that which she did.. there's this other girl I visits too, ha she won't even offer me water. She is only interested in what I'm getting for her when coming. I want to see if I'm safe with this one before I start investing money in the relationship. 90% of relationship these days is money conscious which is good for relationship but it shouldn't be the basic

LEBEfirstson:
I totally understand your point here but I still maintain that i did what I did intentionally and I knew I was going to send her money afterwards. Of course I later did and she was happier. Are you a slay queen?

To be honest with you, I don't know what that is.

khiaa:


To be honest with you, I don't know what that is.

hahahha I'm sure you are slay queen lool

LEBEfirstson:
I really did and I quite appreciate that which she did.. there's this other girl I visits too, ha she won't even offer me water. She is only interested in what I'm getting for her when coming. I want to see if I'm safe with this one before I start investing money in the relationship. 90% of relationship these days is money conscious which is good for relationship but it shouldn't be the basic

I now understand you better now. Yes you need to study where your money will go my brother. Most of them are just after our money. Btw run � run for the one who couldn't offer you water.

LEBEfirstson:
hahahha I'm sure you are slay queen lool

You could atleast tell me what it means since you are convinced that I am one. Seriously.

Afamed:

I now understand you better now. Yes you need to study where your money will go my brother. Most of them are just after our money. Btw run � run for the one who couldn't offer you water.

.. that one ehh., imagine I have spent on her oo that's why I'm taking time to see if this very one is quite same but in all ramifications I can see she's quite different and unique

khiaa:



You could atleast tell me what it means since you are convinced that I am one. Seriously.

.. slayers are happening babes..loool

LEBEfirstson:
.. slayers are happening babes..loool

Ok, I guess you knew exactly what you were talking about, because yeah that's me.

Men are really confused. See them bashing the op o, thought they'd b happy at the op's stinginess... Nawa

Nma27:
Men are really confused. See them bashing the op o, thought they'd b happy at the op's stinginess... Nawa

Did you eat rat poison in your dream

bigcee:

Did you eat rat poison in your dream

Are u blind? Didn't u see d insults d op received from guys like him?

Nma27:
Are u blind? Didn't u see d insults d op received from guys like him?

nma, I'm open to criticism ok? I'm just been very careful cos of what I have passed through with those slay queens..

Nma27:
Men are really confused. See them bashing the op o, thought they'd b happy at the op's stinginess... Nawa

.. I believe I'm not stingy.. I'm just been careful not to give away my mumu button which I have collected from slay queens. Obviously if this very girl deserves that mumu button after her final test, I will gladly give it to her

bigcee:

Did you eat rat poison in your dream

.... bigcee you don come again o, which one be eating rat poison again

LEBEfirstson:
nma, I'm open to criticism ok? I'm just been very careful cos of what I have passed through with those slay queens..

Alright pls be.

Op, I don't think you love that girl. You are heartless and wicked.How can you do such to a someone you claim to love. Please leave her alone ,She needs someone better than you.

GODSMILEFOREVER:
Op, I don't think you love that girl. You are heartless and wicked.How can you do such to a someone you claim to love. Please leave her alone ,She needs someone better than you.

.. I understand your point. It's only me and the almighty knows how much I love her.. don't judge me my brother, read thru my replies and you will see reasons with me

Well, all is see is brokenness... the OP is a broke guy. He no get money. PERIOD!

Ehen! Final test! So as a maths teacher that you are now. Abeg give me that girl's number, let me give my cousin abroad cos you dont deserve her. Broke mumu

LEBEfirstson:
.. I believe I'm not stingy.. I'm just been careful not to give away my mumu button which I have collected from slay queens. Obviously if this very girl deserves that mumu button after her final test, I will gladly give it to her

wehdone sir

Enezoza:
Well, all is see is brokenness... the OP is a broke guy. He no get money. PERIOD!

.. Enezoza the slayer you don finish me oooo.. we dey quarrel before?

funmisticqueen:
Ehen! Final test! So as a maths teacher that you are now. Abeg give me that girl's number, let me give my cousin abroad cos you dont deserve her. Broke mumu wehdone sir

.. Abeg shift joor make I faint.. Wetin? Which kin abroad be that one?

Just give the number jare. While you are busy forming test. More serious men will snatch her from you.

LEBEfirstson:
.. Abeg shift joor make I faint.. Wetin? Which kin abroad be that one?

LEBEfirstson:
I have been talking with this lady since 2016 we are friends and I have told her how I feel about her and she admits that she feels same way too for me.. I'm kind of guy that doesn't use money to get girls so I don't try to impress her with money and I made that obvious from the start. Now I visited her in school because she's a student and intentionally didn't get her anything(you know like beverages and stuffs like that) just to know what her reaction would be and before the visit, she had been saying that she's running out of food stuffs that she can't wait to finish her exams so she can head back home to sort herself out, but I absolutely ignored all that lol.. this very lady later told me SHE USED HER LAST MONEY to prepare that delicious meal she prepared for me when I visited her. She said that to me because I was having argument with her about her love for me and she mentioned that and I was shocked. The funny part on that argument is when she said & I quote " yes I love you but I have a problem with you... you are stingy" and I laughed. So nairalanders, is she worth keeping? Is she really a wife material? Please advice

guy abeg tell me the lady's address .i want to tell her something very important..

I have been on Nl looking for a heartwarming topic and this did it for me.

It just seems like people rush to comment without reading through but this shows that some guys are not stingy as I think them to be .they are sensitive.
Ehen their mama taught the really good. Kudos guys

U are not only stingy but also wicked.
Chai

Akuko uwa

funmisticqueen:
Just give the number jare. While you are busy forming test. More serious men will snatch her from you.

she loves me very very much.. so forget that one