onmyown:

i had intimacy for the first time at age 27. not cos i was a moral bigot but both parents pointed us, my siblings and i, in a dierction that we actually did stand the peer presure while growing up. after my youth service i was retained at an international job in jos where i had the luxury to stay in any hotel while my org picked up the tab. as far as the hotel supervisors were concerned, i was gay. meanwhile all the unijos babes where winking at the slightest glance.

so one day i decided it was time ti kill ali baba. my companion was disapointed as it was obvious i was no more than an apprentice. i found out as well that heavenly feelings dont last for an hour. so i kept to myself for three more months untill we had to bring to bring in some corpers. one of them moved in with me and thot me the secrets of the ancient tribesmen for two years and ten months. she moved abroad afterwards. but she comes in to reap where she ahd sown once in a while.

so marry a virgin man. its all to your gain.

Peer pressure is one thing tough to handle.

Mine began out of curiosity. I wanted to know whats the big deal in all these, but later I found out.
When ever i have a discussion with any lady and we end up talking about se.x , they tell me about their secrete fantasy. Every day, I'm beginning to
realize that ladies like se.x as much as men do; there are some who even initiate it.

is that really na2day? or am i seeing REALLY REALLY hallucinating?

@ ALL
This one na very serious mata. Men dey find virgin wey dem go use claim ten point. So dat d babe go dey hail because league way only 1 club dey play na him be champion.
But d fact still remains dat 99% of naija girls won't settle for a Man dat has no skill. D question is except u graduated from FUTO (back in d days) where u only need to read , even without seeing and yet be the lord of the rings, how would get d required skillz to wow ur lady?

amaka pls run that by me explicitly. didnt get you.

just as i will not marry a virgin girl

Re: Can You Marry A Virgin Man ?
« #346 on: February 09, 2010, 05:26 PM »

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most of u gals saying crap about not wanting virgins are bitches, ashewos, kitty hawkers. . .how on earth cud decent gals say such? and who d hell told u virgin men dont satisfy women? except if the man is incomplete. . .no man, i repeat no man when faced with the responsibility of handling a woman will flop if he is complete. . . except if u are a bore hole urself that only 50 mm pipes are the only things that can satisfy u. . .

i m yet to find out any of my guy dating a gal on NL. . .if i do all i have to do is to refer him to this thread. . .

@javalove
Are you educated at all? Why will you refer to name calling because we all have a difference of opinion?? I wish Seun can somehow limit children who throw tantrums and spew garbage from posting on NL; because matured adults disgaree with them, hissssssssssssssss

Am still a virgin, and am proud of that
but i can make my gurl remember her forefathers
make her dance from left to right and speak in tongues.

so i wount learn when the need arises

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[sup] Re: Can You Marry A Virgin Man ?
« #390 on: February 09, 2010, 11:38 PM »  

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This world don spoil finish.

The truth is that virginity in men is NOT and NEVER seen as a virtue. either by men or by women. guys are to be adventorous; it is part of their God given nature to want to put the ATM card into an ATM machine.

Even for born again christian brothers, it would be understandable if u decide to backslide for sometime  to go and eat the forbidden fruit. (I'm not saying u shud do it ooooo)

But it is important that the man teaches the woman (not the other way round) [b]Take it or leave it;  One of the most effective way to establish your dominion and leadership over your woman is your actions in the bedroom. If she rules u there, so help u God she will rule ALL your life. [/[/b]sup]

@Obstead200.
GBAM GBAM GBAM, This is what i have been trying to say since the begining of this silly thread. Obstead, i hail you.

Abekeade08:

obstead200 (m)

@Obstead200.
GBAM GBAM GBAM, This is what i have been trying to say since the begining of this silly thread. Obstead, i hail you.

Lol. . . I ask you though. Does being a ''peeled banana'' mean a mastery of the art?

I argue, a confident man regardless of his experience level will sail through the errrr. . .process.

Regardless of whether the man is a virgin or not, tomatoes are not thesame, all it takes is to talk
to the woman and everything should be ok.

Ashawo full for this naira land. Wetin una de look for here. Job? Ashawo job. Reasonable girls would not say they hate guys that are virgins. May be because you girls are all disvirginalized, then you want to create an impression that virginity is rubbish. Ashawo girls!

There is no harm in trial. One day begins the story they say. I believe as nobody teaches a baby how to suck its mums breast so it is for 90% of men. LADIES RECONSIDER.

chuqudy:

Ashawo full for this naira land. Wetin una de look for here. Job? Ashawo job. Reasonable girls would not say they hate guys that are virgins. May be because you girls are all disvirginalized, then you want to create an impression that virginity is rubbish. Ashawo girls!

Poor virgin Chuqudy!

Ashawo full for this naira land. Wetin una de look for here. Job? Ashawo job. Reasonable girls would not say they hate guys that are virgins. May be because you girls are all disvirginalized, then you want to create an impression that virginity is rubbish. Ashawo girls!

@chuqudy-Em where have you seen NL girls on this thread looking for ashawo jobs. I have gone through this whole thread and I have not seen one girl trying to sell herself for money. I have also failed to see where NL girls said they HATE virgin men. This is a forum where we all come to add our own opinions. Most of us are adults here, so why can't we have a discussion here without people like you stooping down to name calling??

denony:

Am still a virgin, and am proud of that
but i can make my gurl remember her forefathers
make her dance from left to right and speak in tongues.

so i wount learn when the need arises

How do you even know

It's not by making mouth oh, when the it comes to doing the deed, you need more than this bragging you are spewing here!

Abekeade08:

@chuqudy-Em where have you seen NL girls on this thread looking for ashawo jobs. I have gone through this whole thread and I have not seen one girl trying to sell herself for money. I have also failed to see where NL girls said they HATE virgin men. This is a forum where we all come to add our own opinions. Most of us are adults here, so why can't we have a discussion here without people like you stooping down to name calling??

Because he is a virgin and nobody wants to marry him.

how does a girl knows a man is a virgin unless been told?

Take it or leave it; One of the most effective way to establish your dominion and leadership over your woman is your actions in the bedroom. If she rules u there, so help u God she will rule ALL your life.

Not totally true because as you said it is one of the ways and not the only way. Greater satisfaction in the bed room leads to more submitting and peace in the house. The bible says both should satisfy each other and not one satisfying only the other person. And again this actions in bedroom does not cut across all woman so it should not be looked as a generalization. The rules are changing brother and more women now think they can get satisfaction without a man.

Lol comments on this thread crack me up. Naija babes sha.

Krayola:

Chairman. . .How nah. . how body?

i dey bro, how you dey? and how are you preparing for the difficult task we have to overcome this weekend with all our problems right now?#


by the way, you don dey watch our matches or you still dey locked up for that side?

"Disvirginalized"??! Kai, see English! LWKMD!

well I think the ladies are not being truthful, its just a way of justifying their bed hopping. thats the only reason a girl will say she wont marry a virgin man. "Who no like good thing" abi na tokunbo you like? na becos person no fit affford tear rubber, or what do you think, ?

moreover we're talking about marriage its not a one day thing, so there is enough days and time "to learn and turn heads gaga".

I appreciate the level of sincerity from the ladies. A forum like this where every body is anonymous will allow people to show their true colors.

I must say that I'm a bit astonished by the plethora of response and the number of females who said they wouldn't marry a virgin man. Wonders shall never end. So guys, getting hooked up with a virgin is like passing through the eyes of a needle.

vislabraye:

  So guys, getting hooked up with a virgin is like passing through the eyes of a needle.

Abi o!! no mind them its just a way of justifying their promiscuity, having failed to meet the standard, they pull it down.

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tlops:

Abi o!! no mind them its just a way of justifying their promiscuity, having failed to meet the standard, they pull it down.

lol

How the hell would you know if a guy has never had intimacy b4, *unless U're a telepath, Which I believe dont exist*, He might lie to you,

Take it or leave it, virgin guys that have an idea of what sex is all 'bout, Are the best in bed, Cuz they try everythin' they've heard of or watched in bed, And they get con-current sexual urges, You cant tell until U've hd sex wit a virgin,

codelady:

"Disvirginalized"??! Kai, see English! LWKMD!

Me sef I wanted to comment on that.

Haba, you people should take it easy oo. Disvirginalized coo, marginalization nee.

Y'all are funny though. So, if a guy has done it once - sure he's not a virgin but is he experienced? I'm just saying.
It all has to do with the individual. Kai, I'm even done with this virginity talk.

THE AMAKA:

is that really na2day? or am i seeing REALLY REALLY hallucinating?

it is me sweets, thanks to snow

chiogo:

Me sef I wanted to comment on that.

Haba, you people should take it easy oo. Disvirginalized coo, marginalization nee.

Y'all are funny though. So, if a guy has done it once - sure he's not a virgin but is he experienced? I'm just saying.
It all has to do with the individual. Kai, I'm even done with this virginity talk.

cough cough! ain't u a virgin too?

yeah, we used to talk to yahoo

Take it or leave it; One of the most effective way to establish your dominion and leadership over your woman is your actions in the bedroom. If she rules u there, so help u God she will rule ALL your life

the archaic views some of you guys have are hilarious.

THE AMAKA:

[size=30pt]VIRGIN, VIRGIN, VIRGIN!!!![/size]
@na2day? na wa for you oooo.

wetin i do nau? i thot she was a virgin, so i didnt expect to see her in a virgin blasting thread