Amarabae:
my dear, that was an estimation to drive home my point, I was not specific.
I said he may not live in a mansion, atleast let him afford a one bedroom flat.
A man should work to be financially balanced so that the burden of heading a family will not be much on him.

For the burden of heading a family not to be much on him, the wife must contribute to the upkeep of the family. Ladies need to understand this too.

TonyeBarcanista good morning
Am having an issue opening my APDA account

GOTOlodo:


I am not here for you either, DUDE. You aren't fooling anyone with this female moniker, dude.

Are you okay at all? Do I know you? Get your shiit out of my quote.

eph12:

For the burden of heading a family not to be much on him, the wife must contribute to the upkeep of the family. Ladies need to understand this too.

ofcourse yes, the wife must contribute.
But A man is still a Man and I doubt that a real man will watch the wife take over as the breadwinner of the house.

madridguy:
Nice write up from you Tonye. This remind me of the story how a lady turned down OBJ back then when baba was still struggling not knowing he turned down a great man because of Baba present predicament back then. I used to tell my friends, don't force anyone to believe in your commitments, you don't have to tell any lady about all your life, future aspiration just to convince her to stay with you. Be focus and am sure someday opportunity will surely come around.

If Apostle Suleman wife can stood by him when it's very rough and tough same as Taye Taiwo's wife then I'm sure we still have some good girl outside there.

As for we guys, don't bite the fingers that fed you, never forget your humble beginning when you finally arrive.

Good Morning Nigeria.

Mumu post.

If the fingers that fed me with salad tries to feed me with poo, I will bite it one MIL times. I won't b'cos Buhari fed me and become a Zom-B like some people here.

Amarabae:
Trouble maker. Lols. Leave them o, before they launch another missile on me. Hahahaha. Yesterday was hot. Make i leave them jare.. Some guys get bad mouth. May God bless the hardworking guys.

haha

Victornezzar:
TonyeBarcanista good morning
Am having an issue opening my APDA account

bro you are into politics

sunshineG:
bro you are into politics

so u no know b4

I wonder why being broke is only referred to men.

Most girls can't even afford their own lipsticks.

Victornezzar:

so u no know b4

bro that is your business plan

Mstcheeeeew. Not again

sunshineG:
bro that is your business plan

Ah not at all ooo
I just felt like joining for future purposes man

Victornezzar:

Ah not at all ooo
I just felt like joining for future purposes man

ok

Its a shame girls of these days don't give a damn abt llelping a man reach llis life goal or stuff.. But they want an already made man...
Reasons i want just a babymama.

sarrki I can see u viewing sa

Amarabae:
ofcourse yes, the wife must contribute.
But A man is still a Man and I doubt that a real man will watch the wife take over as the breadwinner of the house.

Yeah the wife shouldn't be the breadwinner of the house but if she doesn't contribute financially, God help that family.

This is romance section, don't bring politics into this. Make your contribution and go back to bed. I smell hangover

PointZerom:



Mumu post.

If the fingers that fed me with salad tries to feed me with poo, I will bite it one MIL times. I won't b'cos Buhari fed me and become a Zom-B like some people here.

TrapHedges:
Its a shame girls of these days don't give a damn abt llelping a man reach llis life goal or stuff.. But they want an already made man...
Reasons i want just a babymama.

You #ever still tllroway tllis pllone?

Ghen ghen! Please you people should leave broke guys alone... I'm sure they won't remain broke forever. Haba

Amarabae:
I love it where you made the point "Instead of whinning, pls pick up a skill or learn a trade"
that was part of the points I raised yesterday and they wanted to crucify me.
Many Men are regretting their marriage because they were not Financially stable before taking a Wife and the hardship is taking toll on them, thats why some of them have prematured gray hairs due to hardship.
Even if the wife is working, the man will still feel the burden.
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And to all hardworking guys out there, May God bless your hustling.

Ooooh God! She is here again to taint this thread again.

TrapHedges:
Its a shame girls of these days don't give a damn abt llelping a man reach llis life goal or stuff.. But they want an already made man...
Reasons i want just a babymama.

Don't generalise.

eph12:
There's a girl for every guy no matter the condition. Guys stop looking at the wrong places because you will be frustrated.

Thank you... You are so right.

Being broke helps a lot, you get free stuff from the government, you do not pay taxes, you can father kids and not be taken to court for child support because the ladies know you're a broke as guy, you can go to prison and get taken care of, being broke is being rich getting free stuff and also getting unlimited FAVOUR. That's what the poor always pray for, rather than work they sit down with their lazy aaas asking their God for FAVOUR.

BEING BROKE IS FREEDOM AT ITS PEAK.

Even calling your fellow human broke is wrong.. Are you God?

Everyone starts from somewhere, doesn't mean they can't become successful if they work hard. That you're fortunate to be wealthy is God's doing not yours.

Sadly most ladies have this mentality of mocking guys with that word "broke" in their early years without telling themselves the truth that they also need to work to assist whoever they meet.

As we all know, health is wealth.. being healthy alone is enof wealth for any man.
Also, noone knows tomorrow.. Anyone can die any minute so why look down on others.

Calling people broke is a shallow way of reasoning.. Only people with little or no life experiences talk that way.
To cap it all up, money can't buy life so why the noise.

Not again!

Amarabae:

A man should work to be financially balanced so that the burden of heading a family will not be much on him.

Whether or not a man is "financially balanced" the burden will always be much on him if he is the breadwinner, as you expect all men to be. A man can only experience that balance if there's a woman who can share the burden equally.

Victornezzar:
sarrki I can see u viewing sa

I see my people

Victornezzar ,Amarabae, and The one and only Madridguy

madridguy:
Nice write up from you Tonye. This remind me of the story how a lady turned down OBJ back then when baba was still struggling not knowing he turned down a great man because of Baba present predicament back then. I used to tell my friends, don't force anyone to believe in your commitments, you don't have to tell any lady about all your life, future aspiration just to convince her to stay with you. Be focus and am sure someday opportunity will surely come around.

If Apostle Suleman wife can stood by him when it's very rough and tough same as Taye Taiwo's wife then I'm sure we still have some good girl outside there.

As for we guys, don't bite the fingers that fed you, never forget your humble beginning when you finally arrive.

Good Morning Nigeria.

Whoever forget the ladder he used to climb will only have himself to blame. Only a foolish man will do such anyway...

sarrki:



I see my people

Victornezzar ,Amarabae, and The one and only Madridguy

I sight thee sa

Victornezzar:
TonyeBarcanista good morning
Am having an issue opening my APDA account

Good morning Victor.. What exactly is the problem pls

TonyeBarcanista:
Good morning Victor.. What exactly is the problem pls

My password ain't going thru

How can someone who live-off others' income call someone broke?