I doubt if it will ever be like before though,

okawanyi:
I doubt if it will ever be like before though,

well maybe

but its still something...........

Never that's all I have to say.

Depends on what caused the break up. I may accept back the relationship though but if I've lost trust in that person, it would be very difficult to get back again because

"I Trust You Is a Better Complement Than I Love You!!!

I dey even push them away for dream talk more of in reality na cutlass i go take pursue them.

thepussyhunter:
there are usually two parties in any failed relationship (mostly romantic ones) viz;

the dumper: person who asks that the relationship be called off or the person who ups and leave the other party &

the dumpee: person who was dumped and probably still wanted the relationship to continue (they are the ones who get hurt most when such shiiiiiiii as a break up happens)



sometimes the reason for breaking up is petty and other times people break up for strong serious reasons...............................question (which i and my some of my colleagues are currently discussing at the office) is;
WHETHER YOU'RE THE DUMPER OR THE DUMPEE IF YOUR EX COMES BACK ASKING OR EVEN PLEADING YOU GUYS GET BACK TOGETHER WOULD YOU TAKE HIM OR HER BACK?




for me i'd Gladly and without thinking take her back o....................

And ermmm jessica its richard (your then richie) and i dont wanna text you but if by any chance you later joined nl like i suggested you do and you get to see this i just want you to know that if you ever want us to become an item again i'd fvcking take you back i swear...............

Just realized how much of a rare gem you were and probably still are.............

Are u try to tells me dart u dornts aff any realsonabu tin to do winth ya lives u juss cum hia to pose lubbish thark God dart i am no reald it sef



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I would never them both back
The second one was a piece of shit!!!

I hardly leave relationships but when I decide to leave the person or move on from the person, no going back to the ex.


We will still breakup again for the same reason why we broke up before if we should come back again. People don't really change, just a different packaging.

moorevic:
I dey even push them away for dream talk more of in reality na cutlass i go take pursue them.

Hahahahahah you wicked o!! .

thepussyhunter:
there are usually two parties in any failed relationship (mostly romantic ones) viz;

the dumper: person who asks that the relationship be called off or the person who ups and leave the other party &

the dumpee: person who was dumped and probably still wanted the relationship to continue (they are the ones who get hurt most when such shiiiiiiii as a break up happens)



sometimes the reason for breaking up is petty and other times people break up for strong serious reasons...............................question (which i and my some of my colleagues are currently discussing at the office) is;
WHETHER YOU'RE THE DUMPER OR THE DUMPEE IF YOUR EX COMES BACK ASKING OR EVEN PLEADING YOU GUYS GET BACK TOGETHER WOULD YOU TAKE HIM OR HER BACK?




for me i'd Gladly and without thinking take her back o....................

And ermmm jessica its richard (your then richie) and i dont wanna text you but if by any chance you later joined nl like i suggested you do and you get to see this i just want you to know that if you ever want us to become an item again i'd fvcking take you back i swear...............

Just realized how much of a rare gem you were and probably still are.............

Did you dump her?

thepussyhunter:
there are usually two parties in any failed relationship (mostly romantic ones) viz;

the dumper: person who asks that the relationship be called off or the person who ups and leave the other party &

the dumpee: person who was dumped and probably still wanted the relationship to continue (they are the ones who get hurt most when such shiiiiiiii as a break up happens)



sometimes the reason for breaking up is petty and other times people break up for strong serious reasons...............................question (which i and my some of my colleagues are currently discussing at the office) is;
WHETHER YOU'RE THE DUMPER OR THE DUMPEE IF YOUR EX COMES BACK ASKING OR EVEN PLEADING YOU GUYS GET BACK TOGETHER WOULD YOU TAKE HIM OR HER BACK?




for me i'd Gladly and without thinking take her back o....................

And ermmm jessica its richard (your then richie) and i dont wanna text you but if by any chance you later joined nl like i suggested you do and you get to see this i just want you to know that if you ever want us to become an item again i'd fvcking take you back i swear...............

Just realized how much of a rare gem you were and probably still are.............

Why can't you make the first move? You are waiting for her to make the first move when she is probably dating another guy, I guess you are the one that did the dumping.

It is always very easy to forget what led to a breakup in a relationship, especially if one or both partners have not yet moved on

After a short time of waiting and being lonely, It is easy to remember the good times and forget what led to the breakup

You need to remember why you broke up in the first place, remember the months and days before the break up.
After careful thoughts, try to put things into perspective and see if you have managed to resolve what led to your break up

If you can't resolve that issue or if it beyond what you can control, you are probably going to break up again

But if you have resolved the issue or if you can manage to resolve the issue, then if she comes back you can give it a try

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lmao

this crazy dude is back

welcome bro


surprisingly i missed you and you annoying mentions.............was no longer getting mentions when you left.............

Welcome

khiaa:




Did you dump her?

uhmmm i wouldnt say dump per say........(u'll agree with me "dump" is kinda too exaggerating and way over the top)


i'd say i kinda we kinda called it off on mutual terms but she brought up the topic cos according to her i didnt have time for her anymore


that period was my first year at me place of work and i was extremely busy.........thought she'd understand

anyways its all past now............i just want her back or at least a lady like her

hells nah,hells nah , ..even for a million $ (nah ah go tk d moola den brk up again!)

Rorachy:
Why can't you make the first move? You are waiting for her to make the first move when she is probably dating another guy, I guess you are the one that did the dumping.

no i didnt do the dumping..................and i wouldnt use dumping in this context......it was more like we both ended it


she brought up the issue and made me see reasons to let go..........


And ermmm thats a good question but sadly i have no ans to that cos i'm still asking me self same question....................shes in a relationship though and maybe i just dont want to cause them problems so i'm patiently waiting and praying they break up or maybe its just my ego...........i dont know





wait why are you'll talking about me sef .............i only said dat just incase she later joined nl.....

Y'all aiint answering the question o

thepussyhunter:



no i didnt do the dumping..................and i wouldnt use dumping in this context......it was more like we both ended it


she brought up the issue and made me see reasons to let go..........


And ermmm thats a good question but sadly i have no ans to that cos i'm still asking me self same question....................shes in a relationship though and maybe i just dont want to cause them problems so i'm patiently waiting and praying they break up or maybe its just my ego...........i dont know





wait why are you'll talking about me sef .............i only said dat just incase she later joined nl.....

Y'all aiint answering the question o

Lolzzz, you are praying and waiting for them to breakup, so many forces working against ones relationship .

sunshineG:
It is always very easy to forget what led to a breakup in a relationship, especially if one or both partners have not yet moved on

After a short time of waiting and being lonely, It is easy to remember the good times and forget what led to the breakup

You need to remember why you broke up in the first place, remember the months and days before the break up.
After careful thoughts, try to put things into perspective and see if you have managed to resolve what lead to your break up

If you can't resolve that issue or if it beyond what you can control, you are probably going to break up again

But if you have resolved the issue or if you can manage to resolve the issue, then if she comes back you can give it a try

wise talk bro.........(wasnt expecting anything less sha)


and errmmm there isnt much reasoning to be done on the reason for our break up

thing is she complained i spent soooooo much time at work and had no time for her...................maybe she was right but then it was my first year (first few months actually) at work
(my dream job........dont think i fancy it dat much anymore sha........i'm kinda tired of calling someone a boss..........) and i had to do my best in keeping it

thought she'd understand but then the angel was one of those very few rare ladies who dont fancy money..................according to her she prefered us when i was still teaching in a sec sch to the us then when i started working where i do now


now that i'm stable (and probably up for promotion next year), i feel i am ready and if she comes back i'd grab her............she was one beauiful intelligent angel and no slayqueen.....




anyways how about you bro.......would you take an of your exes back

thepussyhunter:



wise talk bro.........(wasnt expecting anything less sha)


and errmmm there isnt much reasoning to be done on the reason for our break up

thing is she complained i spent soooooo much time at work and had no time for her...................maybe she was right but then it was my first year (first few months actually) at work
(my dream job........dont think i fancy it dat much anymore sha........i'm kinda tired of calling someone a boss..........) and i had to do my best in keeping it

thought she'd understand but then the angel was one of those very few rare ladies who dont fancy money..................according to her she prefered us when i was still teaching in a sec sch to the us then when i started working where i do now


now that i'm stable (and probably up for promotion next year), i feel i am ready and if she comes back i'd grab her............she was one beauiful intelligent angel and no slayqueen.....




anyways how about you bro.......would you take an of your exes back

Thanks for the flattery


it depends bro
I don't like to repeat something, so it will take someone really special for me to go back into a relationship

Cause if it was that great I shouldn't have left in the first place

But if I have to go back to such relationship, i will have to solve what created the problem in first place.

Well such relationship almost never work out the second time around
As it can become a problem for the patner who initiated the come back ..because the other partner may turn it into some sorts of leverage to bully the partner who initiated the comeback.

Anyway people are different and things may not turn out that way, plus I think a guy/lady should be in the best place to judge his/her partner

So careful consideration must be given by both partners before going back into the relationship

Rorachy:
Lolzzz, you are praying and waiting for them to breakup, so many forces working against ones relationship .

lol

dats just how it is o

its either the dude gets heartbroken or i remain heartbroken forever

and i think i've been heeartbroken for too long.....the new dude should feel it a little or dont you think?

thepussyhunter:



lol

dats just how it is o

its either the dude gets heartbroken or i remain heartbroken forever

and i think i've been heeartbroken for too long.....the new dude should feel it a little or dont you think?

Sometimes you don't have to think about you only, be selfless.

sunshineG:

Thanks for the flattery


it depends bro
I don't like to repeat something, so it will take someone really special for me to go back into a relationship

Cause if it was that great I shouldn't have left in the first place

But if I have to go back to such relationship, i will have to solve what created the problem in first place.

Well such relationship almost never work out the second time around
As it can become a problem for the patner who initiated the come back ..because the other partner may turn it into some sorts of leverage to bully the partner who initiated the comeback.

Anyway people are different and things may not turn out that way, plus I think a guy/lady should be in the best place to judge his/her partner

So careful consideration must be given by both partners before going back into the relationship

yea.........you just wrote some true shiiiiiiii

suddenly i'm having a second thought about it all and i'm begining to feel guilty for wishing she breaks up with her current boyfriend


you're so damn right bro........now i feel like since i'm stable at work i'll have time for her so i want her back but then who knows if she has changed, if the experiance from our relationship changed something in her (even though i strongly doubt that cos we still talk and i dont think shes changed)


all the same thanks bro.................forget flattery now, you are one wise old chap bro

you just opened me eyes to some facts i totally ignored or choose to ignore.........thanks again...really

thepussyhunter:



yea.........you just wrote some true shiiiiiiii

suddenly i'm having a second thought about it all and i'm begining to feel guilty for wishing she breaks up with her current boyfriend


you're so damn right bro........now i feel like since i'm stable at work i'll have time for her so i want her back but then who knows if she has changed, if the experiance from our relationship changed something in her (even though i strongly doubt that cos we still talk and i dont think shes changed)


all the same thanks bro.................forget flattery now, you are one wise old chap bro

you just opened me eyes to some facts i totally ignored or choose to ignore.........thanks again...really

old chap

Kk bro glad I can help.

I learnt one thing from my elder brother don't fight your babes, i thought it a good advice, until now that am so weak, i am someone who hook up easily with lady, short time...intimacy, more time break up..either from me or my girls, so i ve alot of ex, i also have my girlfriend around me, but what make me weak, i love most of them, i cherish my girlfriend..now i ve unending calls from like 5 ladies everyday, each one of them want me back, am i lucky or something is wrong, should i fight them off, who knows I or My girlfriend will be tired of our relationship !

Rorachy:
Sometimes you don't have to think about you only, be selfless.

lol

havent i been selfless enough?

They've been dating for a year now since i broke up with her and i got to know i miss her badly 8months ago but i didnt make any move cos i aiint self centred


i have tried jooor

sunshineG:
old chap

Kk bro glad I can help.

yes na...........you should be within the range of 35-60 right

though wisdom and maturity doesnt always come with age but i believe u should be with i dat age range to be dis wise

pellummy:
I learnt one thing from my elder brother don't fight your babes, i thought it a good advice, until now that am so weak, i am someone who hook up easily with lady, short time...intimacy, more time break up..either from me or my girls, so i ve alot of ex, i also have my girlfriend around me, but what make me weak, i love most of them, i cherish my girlfriend..now i ve unending calls from like 5 ladies everyday, each one of them want me back, am i lucky or something is wrong, should i fight them off, who knows I or My girlfriend will be tired of our relationship !

wow

lol

dats some crazy deep shiiii you're in bruv

thepussyhunter:



lol

havent i been selfless enough?

They've been dating for a year now since i broke up with her and i got to know i miss her badly 8months ago but i didnt make any move cos i aiint self centred


i have tried jooor

Eyya, I feel your pain bro. The devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know, I guess that's why you miss her.

One can't know the value of what one have until one loses it.

Such is life.

thepussyhunter:



uhmmm i wouldnt say dump per say........(u'll agree with me "dump" is kinda too exaggerating and way over the top)


i'd say i kinda we kinda called it off on mutual terms but she brought up the topic cos according to her i didnt have time for her anymore


that period was my first year at me place of work and i was extremely busy.........thought she'd understand

anyways its all past now............i just want her back or at least a lady like her

Ok, I understand, you'll find that special lady just be patient.
Your moniker can be intimidating though. What if the girl for you is on this site, you'll never meet her with that name.

thepussyhunter:



yes na...........you should be within the range of 35-60 right

though wisdom and maturity doesnt always come with age but i believe u should be with i dat age range to be dis wise

i am 26 bro

Rorachy:
Sometimes you don't have to think about you only, be selfless.

^^^^ kaiii see booooobsi.... sweeery we need to talk... serrrriosly!!