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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nayah(f): 12:48am On Nov 27, 2012
tai2:

You still fail to get the point dear.
No you failed to get me brother
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by tai2(m): 7:25am On Nov 27, 2012
I read your post clearly, but sometimes arguing with a woman when she insists on failing to see reason is pointless.

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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by 190theclown: 7:31am On Nov 27, 2012
Tai2 I asked 4 ur email addy wtf is wrong wit u man angry
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Mascherany: 7:52am On Nov 27, 2012
Yea,OP just hit it right on the nail..ADVICE,dont eva put a woman on a pedestal else u r doomed!...had to learn dat the hard way sad

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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MrsChima(f): 9:37am On Nov 27, 2012
Sounds like a bunch of wounded manbitches on here.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by dmcdad: 9:50am On Nov 27, 2012
Mrs.Chima:
Sounds like a bunch of wounded manbitches on here.

Nah.. That ain't the case
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by DonTonero: 10:00am On Nov 27, 2012
nice write up from an experience guy @poster
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nayah(f): 10:03am On Nov 27, 2012
tai2: I read your post clearly, but sometimes arguing with a woman when she insists on failing to see reason is pointless.
Oh ok so I'm asking you a question and this is pointless? come on
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by tai2(m): 3:30pm On Nov 27, 2012
Nayah:
Oh ok so I'm asking you a question and this is pointless? come on

It's not about controlling someone per se, its more about self-control so you're led less by emotions and more by reason. Men who have no control often fall under a woman's thumb, the proverbial "koso".

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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Mascherany: 12:57pm On Nov 28, 2012
Yoyo!
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MrsChima(f): 1:01pm On Nov 28, 2012
dmcdad:

Nah.. That ain't the case

Guilty
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MrsChima(f): 1:03pm On Nov 28, 2012
A man control the environment by controlling himself in return lead by example.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by dmcdad: 1:31pm On Nov 28, 2012
Mrs.Chima:


Guilty

Of what?
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by cstan(m): 2:32pm On Nov 28, 2012
bros over sense de worry this your post..this is a fact that every guy needs to adhere to. thanks@op
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by tai2(m): 5:09pm On Nov 28, 2012
cstan: bros over sense de worry this your post..this is a fact that every guy needs to adhere to. thanks@op

No problem. If only the bulk of young men on Nairaland would read and imbibe, we wouldn't have all the complaints we see here on regular basis.

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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 11:12pm On Nov 29, 2012
The major point of this post is this -> Emotional Control!

If you cannot control your emotion, you would do silly things and allow a woman to make u do silly things that puts you in a position of NO power in the relationship!

The issue is not about controlling a woman like a robot, but about controlling your mannerisms, actions, reactions, expressions etc. To the point where she respects you and knows that she CANNOT do silly and annoying things and get away with it...

At every point in a relationship, a man must be willing to walk away if the woman begins to misbehave (This also includes DIVORCING HER)! This puts incredible power in your hands that she would always try to remove her bad behaviour when it comes to you! That is why Tai2 says it clearly - do not over invest in a relationship when a woman is clearly playing you for a fool!

This post is NOT about being bitter or being naive - FAR FROM IT!! - Instead it is about being logical and being in a state of balance! Where you can spot when a woman is trying to turn you to her mugu!

Guys read this post over and over and let the fundamentals guide your dating and marital life!

Guys, The fundamental is gaining control over your emotions - we are much better @ doing that than women! Once you can gain control over your emotions and think logically, it is extremely difficult for a woman to have the upper hand in a relationship! Most girls tend towards RELATIONSHIP and BONDING, while most guys tend towards FREEDOM and SEX! You can have the upper hand if you are willing to barricade your heart, enjoy the moment and know that ROMANTIC LOVE DOES NOT LAST!

Guys... lets be wise! There are over 25 MILLION FEMALES ABOVE above the age of 18 years in Nigeria... why hook yourself to one that is trying to turn you to a MUGU?

if you live in any of the seven major cities in Nigeria, you have unlimited access to females if you are NOT lazy and you are willing to improve your appearance and personality (basically I mean the way you present yourself to new people)!!

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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by P4VS20: 2:59am On Nov 30, 2012
i dont need to control her, i dont even need any power control. if she mess up, relationship end. if i mess up, am sure it would end also. so why do i want to control anything. infact i will act like the mumu first week into the relationship so she can show her color quick n we can end the thing sharp sharp. if u want to be smart with a lady, act dumb (not be dumb) then she wont need d support of her friends cos she would think she's got control. let her think she's got u figured out, infact let her get away with so many things. and then start disappointing her from there. not build walls. women love challenges, thats is what u dont want to feed her with. if u act smart, they will act smarter. just play dumb till she sits comfortable, then wake up one morning n remove the seat with smiles. done.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MrsChima(f): 3:08am On Nov 30, 2012
dmcdad:

Of what?

Guilty.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by dmcdad: 3:13am On Nov 30, 2012
P4VS20: i dont need to control her, i dont even need any power control. if she mess up, relationship end. if i mess up, am sure it would end also. so why do i want to control anything. infact i will act like the mumu first week into the relationship so she can show her color quick n we can end the thing sharp sharp. if u want to be smart with a lady, act dumb (not be dumb) then she wont need d support of her friends cos she would think she's got control. let her think she's got u figured out, infact let her get away with so many things. and then start disappointing her from there. not build walls. women love challenges, thats is what u dont want to feed her with. if u act smart, they will act smarter. just play dumb till she sits comfortable, then wake up one morning n remove the seat with smiles. done.


Exactly how I operate. I always play the part of a fool and watch patiently as u take the driver's seat. If u act accordingly while you are on the driver's seat, then you are safe. Buh, if u act otherwise, then...
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by dmcdad: 3:15am On Nov 30, 2012
Mrs.Chima:


Guilty.

Y should I?
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by P4VS20: 2:44pm On Nov 30, 2012
dmcdad:

Exactly how I operate. I always play the part of a fool and watch patiently as u take the driver's seat. If u act accordingly while you are on the driver's seat, then you are safe. Buh, if u act otherwise, then...

lol, naa soo naa.

esp the lying aspect, that is where you let em get away with pass sef, cos lies never add-up. lol. its better to know she's a liar than u keep her from lying. better to keep her free than to keep her from being free. women who re "controlled" re the ones who cheat the most., she craves for freedom n it takes a guy who would give her that hint of freedom to make her indulge. give her the freedom that no guy can give her n she's stuck to u 4 life, even when she goes away, she will come back n you have the option to either let her in or slam the door when she's half way in, for effects.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by dmcdad: 3:16pm On Nov 30, 2012
P4VS20:

lol, naa soo naa.

esp the lying aspect, that is where you let em get away with pass sef, cos lies never add-up. lol. its better to know she's a liar than u keep her from lying. better to keep her free than to keep her from being free. women who re "controlled" re the ones who cheat the most., she craves for freedom n it takes a guy who would give her that hint of freedom to make her indulge. give her the freedom that no guy can give her n she's stuck to u 4 life, even when she goes away, she will come back n you have the option to either let her in or slam the door when she's half way in, for effects.

You got it bruv... Keep on lying, it's my hobby to believe ur lies. Lmao...
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by djcombo(m): 5:06pm On Mar 14, 2013
Men , this thread was the SH*T!!!!!! grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 7:56pm On Mar 14, 2013
Yep....It was. Engraved in a piece of Nairaland's history. Nothing else to add or subtract. Tai2 I bow.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 3:51am On Mar 15, 2013
Cupid shall bless you Tai2,
Bacchus shall always have ur cup overflowing with sweet wine.

you are great, since i came through this thread and made it my dating manual, i have come to be surprised just how much the ladies crumple like a pack of cards when they realise that i have the upper hand... one chick tried all she could to get me show my self jealousy over her,but i recognised the signs and played the game, now she absolutely cant do without me... and all the other girls who feel like Goddesses, they all come crashing down!!!!!!


PS; I shared the post to all my guys and they are all full of thanks!

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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:18pm On Mar 15, 2013
djcombo: Men , this thread was the SH*T!!!!!! grin

Point of Correction: This thread IS the SH*T!!!!!
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MrsChima(f): 3:16pm On Mar 15, 2013
Yawnssssss.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Yoshiyuki(m): 5:05pm On Mar 15, 2013
@OP, this has to be one of the dumbest posts in the history of Nairaland. The time it took to write this garbage could have been better spent watching two house flies f**king and any Man who has read your post and belives it has become dumber because of you. So yes, you have made some sort of impact.
Are you refering to an animal? Why on earth do you need to maintain and control a Woman? To use your own crude language.

First of all, your post is all about manipulation and nothing else. This is about being mean, cruel and devoius in a despicable attempt to assert yourself over an insecure and niave girl who does not know any better. From your post, I can tell you have an inferiority complex and is intimidated by a Woman who makes more money or is more successful than you are. Hence, your advice that such cannot be controlled. What a load of rubbish.

A real Women makes her own money, has her own career, is able to think for herself and yet is willing to share her life and all she possess with a Man she falls in love with not because he has more money than her but because that Man loves and respects her. Love is not conditional and manipulative. If you want to have a healthly and meaniful relationship with a Woman, then learn to respect her. Respect is reciprocal (even 9ice knows this).

The process of getting to know a real Woman will enrich your life and you will love her more for it. It is a life long journey not a quick fix solution. Love is the key to any healthy relationship.

If your purpose is to bleep some skank, then offer her something she wants in return and do your thing. Not bore us with some half ass garbage you picked from the gutter. grin

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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by pleep(m): 5:23pm On Mar 15, 2013
^keep loosin bro wink
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 5:35pm On Mar 15, 2013
pleep: ^keep loosin bro wink

Losing what bro?
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 8:40pm On Mar 15, 2013
correct
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 9:07pm On Mar 15, 2013
@yoshiyuki I have only 3 words for u "bla bla bla" Anybody who can't tap into tai2's wealth of experience and knowledge is either to dumb to or hard at hearing. I have analysed his opinions with my real life experiences and I av confirmed him to be 100% CORRECT. Besides u shouldn't be using 9ice to support your argument. We all know how good he is with relationships.

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