pocohantas:
It's not wrong for you to desire marriage at your age, we all have how we want our life plan. I fault you for dating a 25yrs old guy when you know you want a relationship that will lead to marriage in few years time. The young man also has his own plans, just as you have yours.


Maybe you've been out of Nigeria for long, that's why you don't know that the average Nigerian guy isn't ready for marriage, financially, emotionally and mentally... at 26. The country is hard.

It's good that you guys have discussed the future, but nothing is sure for you both as it is now.

...Please, don't marry against your parent's wish. I would never do that, definitely not in Nigeria where women bear the brunt of marital failure. Try to talk your parents into liking him, they'll come around...

Bless you and Thanks