never in this life
Why would someone get pregnant wen she never dey think of marriage
Even though she has changed
But never

MiaB:
Did the pregnancy magically appear in their wombs ？
what of the guys that footed the bills ？

if she had kept her legs closed
she won't be having those sorts of problems

of course wetin they bad there....why blame the lady alone..no bi man they score the goal..as long as her womb is not damaged,ok by me

it better I don't know cos I can't stand the phsychological trauma.

Its best you marry someone you have all the important information about, to avoid unnecessary suprises.


Ohh, you said guys. Sorry brotherman

ShawttySoFyne:

if she had kept her legs closed
she won't be having those sorts of problems

Will you say no to premarital sex?

Victornezzar:
never in this life
Why would someone get pregnant wen she never dey think of marriage
Even though she has changed
But never

So you have not impregnated a girl and tell her to opt for abortion?

He who has not committed sin before should cast the first stone. All have sinned. To err is human to forgive divine. I will.

NwaAmaikpe





Will you marry??

Tough though, but not impossible.
The reasons must be reasonable enough.

We're le leyi o

ShyCypher:
It's even an advantage if she can no longer bear fruit. She knows now that we are fuckin' till thy kingdom come.

And I can cheat too
Afterall, she understands I need a heir. Plus she can't leave me easily. How many dudes will accept her after findin' out?

You're stuck with me!

Unfortunately,as far as most males believe that sleeping with ladies while dating them is their right,have impregnated a lady in the past,paid for abortions or absconded from a girl they impregnated..

They WILL end up marrying ladies who have had an abortion or two in the past whether they like or not...They do not deserve anything else..no more no less..

Being hypocritical or sanctimonous here will not cut it..sorry.

95% of sexually active girls have had abortion before in one way or the other

It is very hard to decide. But if former prostitutes can find true love and marry, then anyone too can marry.

As long the person has repented of her sins and didn't do abortion more than once. I can marry such a woman.

Abortion and fornication are all the same in the eyes of God just that men rationalize.

Odingo1:
95% of sexually active girls have had abortion before in one way or the other

Yea. Postinor

What is the difference with the ones you have been thowing inside toilet?

anybody looking at that is not ready for marriage cos u will never see anybody who Has womb issues tell the man.many will never admit ever having a dnc.even Sis maRy u 're looking for would even be worse.that's is not a basics for marriage

Greenbullet:
My sister works in a medical center, and she does nothing less than 25 D & C a week , from girls usually around the age of 20-28, that is almost more than 100 abortions a month and 1,200 a year and she has been practising for 12 years and they keep coming, NOW TELL ME IF YOU WERE A MAN AND YOU WANT TO MARRY ONE OF THESE LADIES, WILL YOU TAKE THE CHANCE KNOWING THAT THEY HAVE ABORTED BEFORE, KNOWING THAT THIS CAN CREATE FUTURE COMPLICATIONS ?

26 per week? How does she sleep at night??! Dayuuuuumm

Some people live in 1925. If her womb is still intact?
The complications of abortions are very low. If you do it the right way, most likely you'll be fine. A woman who had 4 abortions in her past, got married and still gave birth to twins. Some women who never have sex until marriage may be infertile. Thats life for you, but never judge anyone soley on their past. Esp something as sensitive as abortions.

Let us look at it critically,After all the contraceptives available, a SANE human being still allow a MAN to get her pregnant and later went for abortion.
I cannot take the risk ooo......

MrBrownJay1:
it all depend why you wanna marry that babe...if it is solely to have children then you are OYO, but if you seek a lifemate then why not marry such babe

99.9% of Nigerians marry to have kids

As if abortion is the only crime people commit. Some people have had many abortions and are still more fruitful than some virgin. People don't loose or damage their wombs because of abortions. They damage their wombs by going to quacks. Besides, parents take their kids for abortions, hasbands take their wives for abortions and boy friends take their babes for abortions. Some churches won't wedvyou if the woman is pregnant thereby encouraging abortions because some intending couples abort so that they can be wedded in the church.
I don't know why women should be the only people that come to mind when abortions is mentioned as if they inhaled the pregnancy.
Many families disown their daughters for getting pregnant.
And don't tell me she was the one the opened her legs, so if she opened her legs does it mean you should impregnate her?
Abortions is also a birth control method used when the one to prevent pregnancy fails.

Victornezzar:
never in this life
Why would someone get pregnant wen she never dey think of marriage
Even though she has changed
But never

If you're not a virgin, then retract your statement. Thanks.

Greenbullet:
My sister works in a medical center, and she does nothing less than 25 D & C a week , from girls usually around the age of 20-28, that is almost more than 100 abortions a month and 1,200 a year and she has been practising for 12 years and they keep coming, NOW TELL ME IF YOU WERE A MAN AND YOU WANT TO MARRY ONE OF THESE LADIES, WILL YOU TAKE THE CHANCE KNOWING THAT THEY HAVE ABORTED BEFORE, KNOWING THAT THIS CAN CREATE FUTURE COMPLICATIONS ?

Ur sister shld be killed as an illegal abortion accomplice

Abortion is illegal and a criminal offence in Nigeria. Ur sister committed d same offense morally and otherwise as d girls she is carrying the abortion on.

Back to ur question, any girl I will marry must prove her fertility by being three months pregnant b4 marriage rites commences. I can't afford a childless marriage. If I dnt see children @ least 3 in 5 yrs of marriage then d girl is a goner. Children is a top priority to me in marriage.

dominique:


99.9% of Nigerians marry to have kids

smh

Why does abortion give ppl in Nigeria the creeps?

I'm from the west, and Abortion is not what you all think it is. It is a safe harmless procedure, like pulling out a tooth, in a normal country.


If a girl has had an abortion, it's a really sensitive and personal issue, so she should keep it to herself. Its too touchy.

Safiaaa:
Some people live in 1925. If her womb is still intact?
The complications of abortions are very low. If you do it the right way, most likely you'll be fine. A woman who had 4 abortions in her past, got married and still gave birth to twins. Some women who never have sex until marriage may be infertile. Thats life for you, but never judge anyone soley on their past. Esp something as sensitive as abortions.

MEN #Ourmumudondo

stephleena:

sir mike,and you've never given a lady money for postinor...I guess u married ur wife a virgin...
.

Postinor is an emergency contraceptive, it's NOT to be used for abortions. Ladies who have used it for abortions are misusing the drug. The OP is talking about abortions, not contraception.

Safiaaa:
Some people live in 1925. If her womb is still intact?
The complications of abortions are very low. If you do it the right way, most likely you'll be fine. A woman who had 4 abortions in her past, got married and still gave birth to twins. Some women who never have sex until marriage may be infertile. Thats life for you, but never judge anyone soley on their past. Esp something as sensitive as abortions.

thank you very much for your comment. Some people still think that abortions is the only way people could destroy their womb.

See different folks with opinions
As if you'll know if she has aborted before. Shey meter reading dey dere


Btw...there's nothing wrong with marrying one...You'll only know if she tells you her story.

I Can..I will!!!

I can only marry a woman who is a virgin.


Some folks be like 'everyone has a past'. Not everyone is a fornicator and abortionist.


Can you marry a known ritualist? Nonsense!!!!

Oyindidi:
Hope you'll marry a virgin girl

So every deflowered lady has committed abortion(s)?