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Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Lalas247(f): 1:08pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
supersystemsng:If you are not married Good wife fall on u biko |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
YelloweWest: I'm playing around oh...Hey... I hope to raise up sons and daughters who would remain till marriage sha...I advocate both ways...i think it's better for men to wait till marriage as much as women. I've been in prayer sessions and if i give details here, you won't have an erection easily...many men have lost their live from reckless sex life..which is why i say if ur a virgin, remain so, if you're not, be content with your partner and love them simple 1 Like |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by YelloweWest: 1:11pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Dindondin:LOL. Lie of the century. Virgin man would definitely want to explore and test the waters. It is only the fear of God that can keep a man from infidelity. Yet 99% of Nigerian men still cheat. I'm yet to see a nigerian man married for upto 30years without cheating. |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Lalas247(f): 1:12pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
supersystemsng:See ya later make i run go |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by ayo2008: 1:13pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Why lose it in the first instance. Thou shalt not commit fornication says the Holy Bible. You are safe keeping it than losing your virginity |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 1:15pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
YelloweWest: Shhhh...i have married men in 10 years of marriage without cheating from either sides...I'm an active player in the events in their lives.. stop judging life by the evil that goes on in the world...tweak your eye lens brova...stop spreading falsehood... My father didn't sleep with another woman till he passed on for over SEVEN years even after divorce...stop working for lucifer spreading falsehood 1 Like |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Dindondin(m): 1:16pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
YelloweWest:You are right. But some men still try to keep themselves. So also some ladies. You cant say because guys are promiscuous girls too should be like that. |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by modele2: 1:24pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
shaybebaby: Perhaps I am. But the advantages make it a no brainer. Something has got to give.. Opportunity cost. Choice. As I said I have absolutely no regrets whatsoever 1 Like |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by YelloweWest: 1:30pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Dindondin:I'm not saying women should be promiscuous. But why is the emphasis of infidelity always laid on the woman when men are the overwhelming majority of cheats? Why? |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
YelloweWest: It's life deal with it... Didn't you see when God gave Moses commandments concerning a promiscuous wife, and what should be done to her? But when it concerned men, rules were given on how men could be promiscuous? You didn't see it in the scriptures? Make i go spiritual? The woman is accountable to the man and the man to God..this is the standard... it's life...deal with it If all honesty, sexual escapades most times leads to problem deep down, it's those problems that we should worry about... |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by kibra4u(m): 1:44pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Ujnwosu: Thats why its called Romance section baby |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by YelloweWest: 1:48pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
supersystemsng:Ah ha! That's the misogynist response I've been waiting for. Basically you are saying God allows men to cheat but not women right? Woman is accountable to man and man is accountable to God crap. Didn't the bible says give your bodies to each other. Meaning your spouse now owns your body? Are u saying a man can treat his wife anyhow he likes because he is not accountable to her?? May God have mercy on u guys. FORNICATION AND ADULTERY ARE SIN IRRESPECTIVE OF GENDER!!! |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Dindondin(m): 1:49pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
YelloweWest:It's the unfortunate unwritten culture of the world. Especially in African & the Middle East. It's favorable to men than woman. A man that v sex with multiple women is regarded as a sharp shooter but a woman with multiple men as sex partner is known as a slut. That's why I feel sorry for these feminists. They are in the wrong part of the world �. Last Bullet But let's keep telling the young ones What's right, virginity, chastity etc. Btw, are you a female? |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
YelloweWest: Oh you're female...You picked the one you wanted... Xheck and read where i said men and women should but be accountable in marriage..Does the scripture not say the marriage bed should be undefiled? Or how much noise should i make before you understand i'm a PRO marriage bed should be undefiled 100%....What other thing do you need? My position on the issue is that men and women should be accountable, but the society expects men to be serial cheats why the woman remain loyal...how does my bias change that of the society madam ? |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by YelloweWest: 1:54pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Dindondin:OK so let's agree that what u just described is African culture not Christianity. |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 1:55pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
YelloweWest: I'm not new to the psychology of human character... people dilate towards their inner emotions and later say oh oh..eureka..this validates my fear... disabuse your mind...scroll up and read my comments carefully...men who engage in rampant sex and think they're sharp shooters suffer disadvanatges beyond their knowledge...I didn't single myself out... but as men of the new generation, we hope to get it right...I hope we get it right..Finally, i don't plan on cheating...where do i have the time?I'm always busy, lots of us are too busy, where's the time to rent a flat for a chic somewhere and begin to oscillate between two ...mehn.,...i'm out... |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 1:55pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
YelloweWest: Go open the scriptures, you will see it there... |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by YelloweWest: 1:57pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
supersystemsng:That perception society has started one day and should and indeed would end someday. Promiscuity is bad irrespective of gender. My point is you guys who claim to be Christians should stop making excuses for men. |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
YelloweWest: I don't make excuses for men, neither have i discussed this issue personally...it's plain society we're discussing my dear...Simple. Let me gist you. Some years back my mentee's gf wen to his mother to report he keeps cheating...he's not satisfied this and that...after 15minutes of ranting, guess what my guy's mum told him... She said, he's a bastard if he doesn't do those things... that she should just be satisfied as number one and that he took care of her...ain't this sumthin ? |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by fyxboss(m): 1:57pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
mofeoluwadassah:u nko? I really wanna straf a virgin, will be nice tho |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
fyxboss: abeg, woman na woman..the hymen doesn't make the entirety of what a woman is made up of.. |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Dindondin(m): 2:05pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
YelloweWest:No... Christianity ke! Its not just a church thing. Islam & some African Traditional Religion also forbids sexual immorality. The issue of virginity is not religion based alone. |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Tosyn39: 2:12pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
its gud though to b a virgin cos ur husband will b 50% sure he married a responsible lady cos it not easy to b a virgin, keeping urself despite all d temptation but at d same time it doesn't guarantee a good wife but to b sincere did we really knw d definition of good wife? to me understanding is no one thing to b considered in marriage cos sex only play little part in marriage as time goes on. so either virgin or not it doesn't determine d character marriage only depends on how partners can cope with each other. |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by shaybebaby(f): 2:46pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
modele2:Oh, no need for regrets regardless of what it is. However, we are speaking about the present and how that would feed into the future. Now you are no longer one however there is a lifetime of sex ahead with your partner. Being with him should make you not wonder if you have missed something. |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
modele2: Too much sauce @ By the way I climax 9/10times... Congrats |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Organs(m): 3:37pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Lalas247: Haleluyah, so glad u're not deceived.... |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Jazmiynne: Brilliant! I wish I could like this post over and over again 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
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Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by pocohantas(f): 3:58pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Dindondin: So many people lost theirs in different ways, so many people have been unfortunate. If at all I have lost mine, you don't know how lost it. So, shut the fukc up and stop making this about me and my hymen. The OP asked a general question which I answered. There are guys that also said same thing, why are you on my matter? Chastity is for both men and women. Till you start telling men to drill each other asses. Then tell women to abstain. There would be more hymen for you to worship. Till then, back off. |
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