platinumnk:

Nigerians are too funny,
Up and down Nigerian women are bashed.

Now they are in defence.
Funny,
Jamaicans and  Haitians are cool.

MzDarkSkin:

Lol. I understand. thats funny.

MzDarkSkin:

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You are BEAUTIFUL! Anyway we are all one people at the end of the say just so happens history was played out differently for us. The beef is petty. Where are you from if you don't mind me asking.

platinumnk:

Thanks sweets, I like your pics as well   I'm Nigerian American, raised abroad, but I am very open and interested in the different cultures that we as a people share.
I had skipped over this thread before, because I really dont see a difference in our culture besides the few details but I feel we are all the same.
My father told me that olden Haitan songs have the same meaning as Igbos songs.
So I feel we are one.
Our different societies that we grow in shapes us with our culture.
There is no typical "Nigerian", or "Jamaican" to me, yes everyone had their own form of culture but it doesnt mean that everyone is the same, and I dont generalize.
I cant, lol there was this stiffy White American that looks like a typical banker, heavy pea coat and all, I passed by his car and hes bumping Juvenile outta his car, so not every person is the same.

MzDarkSkin:

@Agaba I laughed because I feel the same way. lol. Occasionally I'd see someone who is caramel or lighter and find him attractive but I dont know if it is prejudice or what but I wouldn't date them. I know it's wrong but for some reason I find darker skinned men more masculine. In Nigeria you all don't have the "colorism" disease too? What I mean is the "light vs dark" crap? In America and some parts of the caribbean its a big deal , for some.

agabaI23:

There is colour preference esp with men. It appears most guys prefer fair skinned girls or kinda associate lighter skins with beauty. So it is not just American but not such a big deal anyway.

MzDarkSkin:

well in Jamaica bleaching creams are purchased more than basic necessities according to several studies. Some girls/women would use their last dollar to buy "Nice and White" instead of buying a loaf a blasted bread. Pretty sad. Most Jamaican girls dont approve but some bleach and are PROUD. 

platinumnk:

Nigerians are too funny,
Up and down Nigerian women are bashed.

Now they are in defence.
Funny,
Jamaicans and  Haitians are cool.

na2day?:

sleeping with the enemy, are we? 

platinumnk:

haba, you told me you were haitian    You know I find haitian dudes Hot with thier Afrofrench accents 
U're not haitian? 

But seriously, there are hundreds of Nigerian Women bashing threads,  but "now" your mouths are filled with praises
Wishywashy people

na2day?:

just like there are thousands of nigerian men bashing threads. we have the sole right to bashing nigerian women  and why on God's green earth will i wanna be haitian? 

wow. are you Nigerian at all? secondly wtf is wrong with being Haitian? What makes you any better than Haitian people? wow. anyway, outee

na2day?:

like i was saying plat . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

na2day?:

just like there are thousands of nigerian men bashing threads. we have the sole right to bashing nigerian women and why on God's green earth will i wanna be haitian?

platinumnk:

Haba u lied u said u know your name was Jaques right after I said I digged afro french accents

platinumnk:

Haba u lied u said u know your name was Jaques right after I said I digged afro french accents

That explains the high estrogen level, and sensitivity OOOKAY! Ain't crap without the "homies".

na2day?:

u and your nightmares sef, better see the doctor asap!

MzDarkSkin:

That explains the high estrogen level, and sensitivity OOOKAY! Ain't crap without the "homies".

platinumnk:

Well, I am no longer intrested

platinumnk:

poor na2day, maybe he should have stuck to retirement

na2day?:

just like there are thousands of nigerian men bashing threads. we have the sole right to bashing nigerian women and why on God's green earth will i wanna be haitian?

oyinda.:

na2day and mzdarkskin sitting on the wall. . .

henry101:

WTF, Naija men have the sole right 2 bash naija women?
Wondas will neva end.
Abeg wen the contract go expire?
Bt ma mama is a naija mama, so mzdarkskin, u ve got no rite 2 bash naija women on a naija site.
It wont be tolerated next time.
Anyywayz, U r 4given cos u r a "newcomer", I knw once u ovastay or your "ITK reach one level", U n NL members go enta one trouser.

@Oyinda although I love African men, I would never lower my standards for any man or, shell of a man

FL Gators:

I agree with what you said sha. . . .

My best friend is Jamaican and still thinks Some [/b]Jamaicans are loud, ghetto, baby mamas,and weed smokers etc.

Sometimes, you just have to admit that some stereotypes are true, but doesnt necessarily pertain to everyone the stereotype is targeted at.

[b]exactly. some of us are loud, GHETTO AS HELL, and alot of us proudly smoke weed not that I do but I wont judge. Its like this my ppl arent perfect and we dont pretend to be thats what I love about us. We accept our faults and move on. I respect you for using SOME as opposed to all.

MzDarkSkin:

exactly. some of us are loud, GHETTO AS HELL, and alot of us proudly smoke weed not that I do but I wont judge. Its like this my ppl arent perfect and we dont pretend to be thats what I love about us. We accept our faults and move on. I respect you for using SOME as opposed to all.

FL Gators:

Ok, if you know that some of the points that we Nigerians make are true, why the fuss?

It's not like anybody that makes a criticism is perfect themselves. Nigerians arent perfect o, far from it.

Even if you decide to write a book, the stereotypes aint going no where, ma dear. People will continue to be people.

MzDarkSkin:

Please keep my name out of your mouth I did not type that nor have I bashed Naija women. Thank you.
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Abegi, y will I want 2 kip ur name in ma mouth?
Ur name doesn't taste like honey.